Is this alternative (third-person fiction extracts, NOT sexting) to exchanging full-blown nudes/sex before marriage a good idea to stay halal?

Is this alternative to exchanging full-blown nudes a good idea to stay halal?

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Exchanging passages of fictitious making out (not sex or sexting as it's haram) in the third person, not using our names, but "he" and "she" instead of exchanging full-blown nudes and having sex before we get married.

We feel so attracted to each other.

e.g. I send her something like:

"The feel of her softness was intoxicating, so intoxicating that when his hands moved up to caress her shoulders, he couldn’t stop himself from groaning aloud at her response. His lips lightly ghosted over the spot just below her left earlobe that made her shiver with delight."


 
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@cytoplasm thoughts?
 
Allah would rather you commit Zina than be this cringe bro
 
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@Trilogy thoughts?
 
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@Trilogy thoughts?
If I were in your position this is what I would do
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Are you Muslim?
 
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Allah would personally rape you in his couldren
Inshallah
 
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I am not religious so I think it is silly to follow religious rules, but does your family expect you to marry before you have sex?
 
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I am not religious so I think it is silly to follow religious rules, but does your family expect you to marry before you have sex?
I've had sex with 1 girl before in my life about 3 times (not this girl) but she broke my heart. Since then I'm repenting.
 
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I've had sex with 1 girl before in my life about 3 times (not this girl) but she broke my heart. Since then I'm repenting.
I am incel and khhv so I have no idea, tag some relationship expert.
 
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@emeraldglass
 
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"The feel of her softness was intoxicating, so intoxicating that when his hands moved up to caress her shoulders, he couldn’t stop himself from groaning aloud at her response. His lips lightly ghosted over the spot just below her left earlobe that made her shiver with delight."

tf is u doing dawg
200w 3
 
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Exchanging passages of fictitious making out (not sex or sexting as it's haram) in the third person, not using our names, but "he" and "she" instead of exchanging full-blown nudes and having sex before we get married.

We feel so attracted to each other.

e.g. I send her something like:

"The feel of her softness was intoxicating, so intoxicating that when his hands moved up to caress her shoulders, he couldn’t stop himself from groaning aloud at her response. His lips lightly ghosted over the spot just below her left earlobe that made her shiver with delight."


Dangerous territories brother. You only increase the horniness between you 2. I would stick to normal conversations.
 
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U can't fool the creator of absolutely everything with some stupid loophole where u can still get ur rocks off.

Fucking retard
 
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Dangerous territories brother. You only increase the horniness between you 2. I would stick to normal conversations.
Not even if I tried to tame it down to seem more "safe"?
 
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"He delighted in the tender touch of her softness, which made him involuntarily let out a joyful sigh as his hands caressed her shoulders. With utmost gentleness, his lips grazed the spot just beneath her left earlobe, eliciting a delightful shiver of pleasure."
 
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"He delighted in the tender touch of her softness, which made him involuntarily let out a joyful sigh as his hands caressed her shoulders. With utmost gentleness, his lips grazed the spot just beneath her left earlobe, eliciting a delightful shiver of pleasure."
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No kissing?
Kissing is touching with lips. The problem is that it may start out as something innocent, but the devil will try to influence you. lust will begin to take over.
 
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Kissing is touching with lips. The problem is that it may start out as something innocent, but the devil will try to influence you. lust will begin to take over.
Even if I ram it in my head to make sure it's nothing more than just a kiss?
 
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Even if I ram it in my head to make sure it's nothing more than just a kiss?
Even then plus she will also be getting feelings of lust. Which of you 2 suggested this?
 
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Even then plus she will also be getting feelings of lust. Which of you 2 suggested this?
She did. After I sent her that gardening photo with my abs out.
 
Bro just have sex and repent
 
If she can’t go resist the urge to eat junk food do u really think she can resist chad when her guts get watery? Most girls don’t have the ability too do delayed gradfaction aka she’s fuxking w someone else
 
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If she can’t go resist the urge to eat junk food do u really think she can resist chad when her guts get watery? Most girls don’t have the ability too do delayed gradfaction aka she’s fuxking w someone else
She says she's a virgin and it's her first time dealing with men in a romantic way. Confirmed with her father. She seems like it too.
 
She says she's a virgin and it's her first time dealing with men in a romantic way. Confirmed with her father. She seems like it too.
I don’t trust her or girls in general their natural manipulators it’s their job and wired through evolution
 
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