Is this autistic from me or normal?

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Some time back I was with smth for a family friend.

In the end she was giving me money as thanks. I was like "Thank You" and took it.

But apparently for normies you need to be like "muhh I can't accept this" and then they say "No, I insist" and you need to be like "no I don't need it" for several rounds until you finally say "okay, I accept it"

Does it appear autistic when you just take the money and don't say anything but thank you`?
 
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I mean yeah usually normies won’t just take it even if they really want it they do a bit of a refuse round
 
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Some time back I was with smth for a family friend.

In the end she was giving me money as thanks. I was like "Thank You" and took it.

But apparently for normies you need to be like "muhh I can't accept this" and then they say "No, I insist" and you need to be like "no I don't need it" for several rounds until you finally say "okay, I accept it"

Does it appear autistic when you just take the money and don't say anything but thank you`?

My relatives and family friends do this shit it's fucking tiresome.
 
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My relatives and family friends do this shit it's fucking tiresome.
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Some time back I was with smth for a family friend.

In the end she was giving me money as thanks. I was like "Thank You" and took it.

But apparently for normies you need to be like "muhh I can't accept this" and then they say "No, I insist" and you need to be like "no I don't need it" for several rounds until you finally say "okay, I accept it"

Does it appear autistic when you just take the money and don't say anything but thank you`?
Lol that would be Top 15 of my MOST nt interactions.
 
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Not really autistic but definitely rude I'd say. You made it seem like they owed you something
 
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this social norm is fake asf, i hate with passion

everyone knows you’re gonna take the money. I’d, for once, like to see a mfer with enough integrity to actually deny it. But that shit only happens in movies
 
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Not really autistic but definitely rude I'd say. You made it seem like they owed you something
it is considered rude, but I think that’s purely cultural. If you actually take the situation for what is, It doesn’t really give the impression of them owing you imo, just that you accepted without the whole song and dance, but are still grateful. However, society has deemed this insufficient over the years.
 
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What would you have done, say "my work is worth more" :lul:
Maybe, if they literally underpaid me I'd say that, but I never did anything that can be called work so I wouldn't know how I'd really react.
 

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