Is this normal bc i thought unconditional love is unconditional love

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So theres me then my brother im always helping around the house helping with big stuff im 16 btw and my ilder brother whos 21 works remote job from home lives with us pays for nothing he has 0 responsibilities 0 stress and she just dont love me the same he helps nothing around the house btw he works 4 hours remote from his desk a day hes on a 1 month long break rn she loves him more says hes the best and i kid u not shes never shown me affection but what im saying is why does he “win” when he does nothing and bro im so fuckin nice to my parents i litrally offer to make their life easier and do stuff for them but yet she treats him like a king and me like a peasant this aint a vent post its just wtf why i want to know shes says to me “hes doing something with his life” and btw im just 1 year behind in school thats all
 
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Sadly that just means you were never meant to be born
 
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She used to love me till 9 i was her favorite idk what happend after that
You’re face probably just stopped being “cute”
 
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Does he mog you
 
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Does he mog you
Unironically yes hes 100x better looking than me so im thinkin maybe its the halo effect but halo effect only applies to strangers tho right?
 
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So theres me then my brother im always helping around the house helping with big stuff im 16 btw and my ilder brother whos 21 works remote job from home lives with us pays for nothing he has 0 responsibilities 0 stress and she just dont love me the same he helps nothing around the house btw he works 4 hours remote from his desk a day hes on a 1 month long break rn she loves him more says hes the best and i kid u not shes never shown me affection but what im saying is why does he “win” when he does nothing and bro im so fuckin nice to my parents i litrally offer to make their life easier and do stuff for them but yet she treats him like a king and me like a peasant this aint a vent post its just wtf why i want to know shes says to me “hes doing something with his life” and btw im just 1 year behind in school thats all
If this still happens when you’re 18 just leave the house and rent out your own place
 
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So theres me then my brother im always helping around the house helping with big stuff im 16 btw and my ilder brother whos 21 works remote job from home lives with us pays for nothing he has 0 responsibilities 0 stress and she just dont love me the same he helps nothing around the house btw he works 4 hours remote from his desk a day hes on a 1 month long break rn she loves him more says hes the best and i kid u not shes never shown me affection but what im saying is why does he “win” when he does nothing and bro im so fuckin nice to my parents i litrally offer to make their life easier and do stuff for them but yet she treats him like a king and me like a peasant this aint a vent post its just wtf why i want to know shes says to me “hes doing something with his life” and btw im just 1 year behind in school thats all
Accident child life
 
If anything, it should be the opposite your parents should work for you they forced you to this brutal world
 
Unironically yes hes 100x better looking than me so im thinkin maybe its the halo effect but halo effect only applies to strangers tho right?
If only that were true brother… Lookism applies everywhere, even within close ones
 
If anything, it should be the opposite your parents should work for you they forced you to this brutal world
My dads fine, she hates my dad my dad doesnt even do anything wrong he just works his ass of 24/7 and shes always complaining my dads turning 50 nd hes never had a weekend to himself just running around doing work it says alot about her
 
My dads fine, she hates my dad my dad doesnt even do anything wrong he just works his ass of 24/7 and shes always complaining my dads turning 50 nd hes never had a weekend to himself just running around doing work it says alot about her
dayum your mom is a demon💔✌️
 
But bro i cnt imagine
If only that were true brother… Lookism applies everywhere, even within close ones

If this still happens when you’re 18 just leave the house and rent out your own place

If this still happens when you’re 18 just leave the house and rent out your own place
leave? oh brother did i mention im not even allowed to leave house only for school and i have to cook bs to my boys saying “im busy” bc im too embarrassed to say my mum has controll over me bro i cnt even leave the house i cnt imagine leaving permanently
 
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But bro i cnt imagine





leave? oh brother did i mention im not even allowed to leave house only for school and i have to cook bs to my boys saying “im busy” bc im too embarrassed to say my mum has controll over me bro i cnt even leave the house i cnt imagine leaving permanently
She seems too manipulative and obsessed with control bro. You have to tell her that im not doing all this shit for no reason. If you’re going to clean and cook sometimes then you need to go outside with friends
 
But bro i cnt imagine





leave? oh brother did i mention im not even allowed to leave house only for school and i have to cook bs to my boys saying “im busy” bc im too embarrassed to say my mum has controll over me bro i cnt even leave the house i cnt imagine leaving permanently
you are 16 you can do what ever you want your mum cant do shit:ROFLMAO:
 
She seems too manipulative and obsessed with control bro. You have to tell her that im not doing all this shit for no reason. If you’re going to clean and cook sometimes then you need to go outside with friends
Her excuse is “i dont want you getting into wrong croud out there” bro im not one of those kids i keep myself to myself i jus wnna hang with the bros everyone once in a while but ofc she says no
 
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Her excuse is “i dont want you getting into wrong croud out there” bro im not one of those kids i keep myself to myself i jus wnna hang with the bros everyone once in a while but ofc she says no
Has she met your friends?
 
my theory is Shes got something personal with my dad and i look alot like him and shes taking it out on me the freak
 
Aren't you a little old to still care about this sort of thing? Usually around this age you start to see your parents less as a provider and more as a nuisance, as you naturally begin to want autonomy and to carve your own path in life.
 
Aren't you a little old to still care about this sort of thing? Usually around this age you start to see your parents less as a provider and more as a nuisance, as you naturally begin to want autonomy and to carve your own path in life.
Im going to be honest im quite a sensitive lad , im just opening my eyes to this now and i dont care no more shes a wierdo ive gaven her the beenfit of the doubt too many times
 
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Also if any1 can give me “tips” (as corny as it sounds) how do i become cold (ik this sounds cringe asf) but your gonna say treat her the same way but i just cant bro idk why i tried for a day i gave up after a few hours like i dont feel right like i feel like i should be good with my mother is what my heart is saying but i know i shouldnt she doesn’t deserve it
 
Also if any1 can give me “tips” (as corny as it sounds) how do i become cold (ik this sounds cringe asf) but your gonna say treat her the same way but i just cant bro idk why i tried for a day i gave up after a few hours like i dont feel right like i feel like i should be good with my mother is what my heart is saying but i know i shouldnt she doesn’t deserve it
There is nothing you can do. She hates you because you’re genetically inferior, and a visual representation of her own inadequacies and mistakes in choosing a sub-optimal partner for childbirth. You are a failure, her failure. Looks = love.
 

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