Is your success on Tinder the same as your success in bars/ nightclubs?

[Deleted member 14682]

Are nightclubs just IRL Tinder? I assume it's the same kind of meat market.

 

[Renaissance.Chad]

I have more success on Tinder whereas in clubs my friends who are more NT and talkative have the advantage.
But I do get some IOIs in clubs, too.

 

[Deleted member 5799]

99% of my lay count is from dating apps and sites

 

[subhuman incel]

on Tinder looks are king, and in bars/nightclubs nt/game/personality plays more of a role but ofc still looks are still important af. also i tihnk height matters more in bars/nightclubs for mogging people. in tinder u can lie about ur height, as long as u dont fraud too much, else when u meet u get caught.

 

[czwarty]

i'm doing good on tinder but even better IRL, it's not like it's whole other world but there is a visible difference. also maybe it's just me but it's easier/more straightforward to pick girls IRL because you see right away when a girl is interested in you while via text it's sometimes hard to guess. so you don't lose time. also alcohol/drugs in clubs changes a lot in your favor

 

[Deleted member 14682]

i'm doing good on tinder but even better IRL, it's not like it's whole other world but there is a visible difference. also maybe it's just me but it's easier/more straightforward to pick girls IRL because you see right away when a girl is interested in you while via text it's sometimes hard to guess. so you don't lose time. also alcohol/drugs in clubs changes a lot in your favor

If you get regularly approached in nightclubs by foids ranging from 0.25 - 5.5PSL does that mean you'd do good on Tinder?

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Are nightclubs just IRL Tinder? I assume it's the same kind of meat market.

Absolutely not. I do much better at bars/clubs bc of height and physique. You can put 6’1 on your Tinder profile but you stand out a lot more as a tall guy IRL when the bar is full of DYEL guys. Good face and good pics will make tinder easier. Good physique and height along with being social will make IRL easier

 

[Deleted member 14274]

If you get regularly approached in nightclubs by foids ranging from 0.25 - 5.5PSL does that mean you'd do good on Tinder?

No. Drunk girls are a different ball game.

 

[Deleted member 14274]

on Tinder looks are king, and in bars/nightclubs nt/game/personality plays more of a role but ofc still looks are still important af. also i tihnk height matters more in bars/nightclubs for mogging people. in tinder u can lie about ur height, as long as u dont fraud too much, else when u meet u get caught.

Exactly this. Gear blasters rule the night life scene

 

[Deleted member 14682]

No. Drunk girls are a different ball game.

Yeah, but they still have their fair share of guys to pick from and they won't be approaching incels if there's Chads around? Most of them don't even have to approach at all since nearly every single guy is approaching them.

 

[czwarty]

Yeah, but they still have their fair share of guys to pick from and they won't be approaching incels if there's Chads around? Most of them don't even have to approach at all since nearly every single guy is approaching them.

yes ofc if you're trucel it doesn't matter how drunk she is, but if you're LTN it's possible some drunk horny foid would approach you to talk and kiss w/ you or something, and it doesn't have to translate to your success on girls later on, when they're sober. I think your real attractiveness can be determined from how sober women treat you. if you're approached by sober women (fatties and uglies don't count), preferably in non-party setting, eg. in school, work etc then you must be at least somewhat attractive and it's worth to make tinder acc

 

[Deleted member 14682]

yes ofc if you're trucel it doesn't matter how drunk she is, but if you're LTN it's possible some drunk horny foid would approach you to talk and kiss w/ you or something, and it doesn't have to translate to your success on girls later on, when they're sober. I think your real attractiveness can be determined from how sober women treat you. if you're approached by sober women (fatties and uglies don't count), preferably in non-party setting, eg. in school, work etc then you must be at least somewhat attractive and it's worth to make tinder acc

By approach I mean come up and instantly start complimenting you, talking about how good looking you are etc, not just come up for a drunk kiss.

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

Absolutely not. I do much better at bars/clubs bc of height and physique. You can put 6’1 on your Tinder profile but you stand out a lot more as a tall guy IRL when the bar is full of DYEL guys. Good face and good pics will make tinder easier. Good physique and height along with being social will make IRL easier

Whereabouts? Honestly asking cause you said 6’1” could stand out

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Whereabouts? Honestly asking cause you said 6’1” could stand out

6’1 is pretty tall IRL

 

[Deleted member 14682]

6’1 is pretty tall IRL

I’m 185cm and there are always plenty of guys whose shoulders heighmog my head.
Honestly I feel like i’m on the shorter side of average.

 

[JamesHowlett]

I do a lot better IRL vs selfies on tinder.

If I had good pics it might be a different story.

 

[Deusmaximus]

Getting laid from night clubs is 100x harder.
If you take the energy and time to approach a girl, these are the problems: First she needs to be single, then she needs to find you attractive, then you need to take her number and get a message back the next day, then you need to arrange a date.
Most times the girl has already 10 other dudes hitting up her phone, and the day after clubbing she is in a totally different mood and will just ghost you straight. If you want to take her home the same night, most of the time she has social pressure because of her female friends and cockblocking. Then you also need to live close to the club, and have a good lay location ready.

IF YOU DONT SUCCEED IN DIGITAL DATING, DONT EVEN WASTE TIME GOING IN TO A CLUB

 

[Deleted member 14274]

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Getting laid from night clubs is 100x harder.
If you take the energy and time to approach a girl, these are the problems: First she needs to be single, then she needs to find you attractive, then you need to take her number and get a message back the next day, then you need to arrange a date.
Most times the girl has already 10 other dudes hitting up her phone, and the day after clubbing she is in a totally different mood and will just ghost you straight. If you want to take her home the same night, most of the time she has social pressure because of her female friends and cockblocking. Then you also need to live close to the club, and have a good lay location ready.

IF YOU DONT SUCCEED IN DIGITAL DATING, DONT EVEN WASTE TIME GOING IN TO A CLUB

Thats why you approach a bunch of girls

 

[Deleted member 14682]

Getting laid from night clubs is 100x harder.
If you take the energy and time to approach a girl, these are the problems: First she needs to be single, then she needs to find you attractive, then you need to take her number and get a message back the next day, then you need to arrange a date.
Most times the girl has already 10 other dudes hitting up her phone, and the day after clubbing she is in a totally different mood and will just ghost you straight. If you want to take her home the same night, most of the time she has social pressure because of her female friends and cockblocking. Then you also need to live close to the club, and have a good lay location ready.

IF YOU DONT SUCCEED IN DIGITAL DATING, DONT EVEN WASTE TIME GOING IN TO A CLUB

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Thats why you approach a bunch of girls

I get approached in clubs a lot. Non-party settings too too but mostly clubs. But right now they’re closed and I don’t have people to go with anyway. I’m thinking of making a Tinder.
My friend said whenever he posts a pic of me on instagram there’s always girls and faggots asking about me. So hopefully it goes well.

 

[czwarty]

Getting laid from night clubs is 100x harder.
If you take the energy and time to approach a girl, these are the problems: First she needs to be single, then she needs to find you attractive, then you need to take her number and get a message back the next day, then you need to arrange a date.
Most times the girl has already 10 other dudes hitting up her phone, and the day after clubbing she is in a totally different mood and will just ghost you straight. If you want to take her home the same night, most of the time she has social pressure because of her female friends and cockblocking. Then you also need to live close to the club, and have a good lay location ready.

IF YOU DONT SUCCEED IN DIGITAL DATING, DONT EVEN WASTE TIME GOING IN TO A CLUB

lmao bro you don't need to "take her number", you just invite her over to your house (or she will invite you to hers) or ask if she wants to go out and walk or drink together in the park or whatever. then after you talk a while you can ask if she wants to go to your place or propose that you'll escort her to her home, then near her place either she will invite you in or you ask if you can stay "for a minute". or you can even fuck her in public at night if you find a good non-frequented place (or even not if you want to go full degenerate)
I agree that "taking number" and meeting later will obviously be harder to end with getting laid, but it won't be needed if you find a proper slut

 

[Deleted member 14274]

lmao bro you don't need to "take her number", you just invite her over to your house (or she will invite you to hers) or ask if she wants to go out and walk or drink together in the park or whatever. then after you talk a while you can ask if she wants to go to your place or propose that you'll escort her to her home, then near her place either she will invite you in or you ask if you can stay "for a minute". or you can even fuck her in public at night if you find a good non-frequented place (or even not if you want to go full degenerate)
I agree that "taking number" and meeting later will obviously be harder to end with getting laid, but it won't be needed if you find a proper slut

I get dates from bars and fuck the same night. Best of both worlds.

 

[Tallwizrd]

depends

imo, being sociable goes a long way irl

 

[lasthope]

I get dates from bars and fuck the same night. Best of both worlds.

Psl level? Height?

 

[Hero of the Imperium]

Better irl

Irl your frame, voice, body language, 3d face in motion, are all easy to perceive and make a difference

But I've been too lazy to make good Tinder pics. I also want a 6 pack and to collagen max first. The perils of becoming an oldcel

 

[tyronelite]

Depends on location

 

[SadLivwr]

I take bad pics+i look better irl