It's a staggering experience to realize you are an unattractive (young) woman

[ranierean]

The title.

As a child, I could've been considered somewhat cute, but when puberty hit – everything seemed to hit the wall.
I didn't become the beautiful woman I dreamed of as a child. I would be content if I was at least average-looking woman, but look at how things turned out.

How is it even possible to have so many unattractive features on an invidual packed together: acne scars, overall bad skin genetics and hereditary dark circles, crooked teeth that I don't have the money to fix, EXTREMELY unsymmetrical face and just an overall disgustingly plain appearance completed by thin hair and sparse eyebrows (isn't being a natural blonde nice?)
And no, I was not blessed with a womanly body either. I'm the textbook example of a beanpole.

I honestly don't know why it took so long for me to realize the answer when it was all just a mirror away. I didn't have the teenage romance that my peers had and no boy ever expressed interest in me. I'm just invisible. It's so disheartening to go on nightouts with my friends and never have anyone approach me. To be fair, the people at bars and clubs are not after anything but flings. I still can't help but yearn for some validation.

Most likely I will never date anyone and I should accept that, but it's difficult (obviously). Just moving forward in life and pursuing an education feels shitty when I don't look like a normal human being.

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r/ForeverAloneWomen on Reddit: It's a staggering experience to realize you are an unattractive (young) woman

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[SoundnVision]

There's a million incels that would blow a load up her fanny.
Fuck off

 

[Vincent Freeman]

There's a million incels that would blow a load up her fanny.
Fuck off

speaking from an experience huh

 

[isimostar]

speaking from an experience huh

you are such a mean spirited little goblin. Where do you get all of this hatred from

 

[Vincent Freeman]

you are such a mean spirited little goblin. Where do you get all of this hatred from

if you can't understand that the fellas I'm reacting to aren't saints who go to church on Sundays and help old grannies through the road, but on the contrary are bitter, larping, unemployed, doxxers, liars, antisemites, racists, pedos, validation starving dogs that the internet gave power to fulfill their fantasies and in real life you wouldn't even exchange words with them and wouldn't want to be their friend, then the fault is in your IQ

 

[mrdouchebag]

There might be some drunk sleazy guys that might sleep with a 2/10, but for anything serious, even if it's mostly transactional and make pretend, with family and kids, it's truly over for her. Even more over if she wants some hot guy.

Mandatory daily reminder there is no betabuxxing for women and not even make pretend romance/family for them.

Chad ain't sticking around for some completely busted hoe and he certainly ain't reproducing with her, unless he is straight up getting paid tons of money, and has no responsibilities towards his bastard inbred kids.

 

[isimostar]

if you can't understand that the fellas I'm reacting to aren't saints who go to church on Sundays and help old grannies through the road, but on the contrary are bitter, larping, unemployed, doxxers, liars, antisemites, racists, pedos, validation starving dogs that the internet gave power to fulfill their fantasies and in real life you wouldn't even exchange words with them and wouldn't want to be their friend, then the fault is in your IQ

they’re just people. Most people in the world aren’t saints going to church helping grannies either.
maybe you could say some of them are “unforgivable”, but I don’t think it’s realistic to say that of all of them or even most. Many are just sad, downtrodden, anxious, insecure. Some might be all around defeated by life. What’s the sense in kicking someone like that when they’re already down? You’re not making the world a better place. You’re just a bully. I don’t think you even care about how “bad” of a person they are. I think you just use that to justify your cruelty because you know they’re easy pickings.

 

[MiserableMan]

Doesn't seem like to me that she is that ugly. there are men out there who have it worse. She seems to be over reacting.