FailedNormieManlet
NTmaxxed pajeet
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Many have seen my face here, and many have said I looked about LTN or MTN for a pajeet, when I was 5'5, I was getting barely attention online, and barely irl unless I were to be really extroverted and go out of my way to talk to people.
I wore lifts, became 5'7 (jfl at 5'7, I'm acc not that short compared to most people, a lot of brit men are lying about their height as it is), I'm a little below avg now and can see the top of most girl's heads or they're about my height at most. When I wear formal clothes/work clothes, I get mired a lot on the street. Women smile at me, women are open to me approaching them and asking them for directions, talking to them while waiting at the bus, brown women LOVE it when I speak to them, I get FAR more attention and likes on hinge now, just overall the quality of interaction I have with women has shot up.
It's hard to tell if it's from the newly found confidence (I wore my lifts at work and felt a lot more confident instantly and was able to manage my classroom a lot better), so is it my confidence which just makes me approach women with less hesitation now? I felt a similar effect when I had my hair permed, where I felt like I had a better chance with more women, and so was more confident. But was it my perm that made me more attractive, or was it the confidence? Maybe it was both, maybe the changes made women like me more which gave me confidence and led to a positive feedback loop?
It's brutal how making a few changes like that totally shifts how women behave around you. When my hair was curled and I had a skinfade, random girls were telling me at the smoking area how they liked my hair, now imagine I had lifts on back then too... It's fucked tbh.
Girls might not care all that much about looks, but they do care about confidence. If you feel like you look bad, you won't have confidence, and in turn your interaction with girls will be poor, leading to a downward spiral.
I wore lifts, became 5'7 (jfl at 5'7, I'm acc not that short compared to most people, a lot of brit men are lying about their height as it is), I'm a little below avg now and can see the top of most girl's heads or they're about my height at most. When I wear formal clothes/work clothes, I get mired a lot on the street. Women smile at me, women are open to me approaching them and asking them for directions, talking to them while waiting at the bus, brown women LOVE it when I speak to them, I get FAR more attention and likes on hinge now, just overall the quality of interaction I have with women has shot up.
It's hard to tell if it's from the newly found confidence (I wore my lifts at work and felt a lot more confident instantly and was able to manage my classroom a lot better), so is it my confidence which just makes me approach women with less hesitation now? I felt a similar effect when I had my hair permed, where I felt like I had a better chance with more women, and so was more confident. But was it my perm that made me more attractive, or was it the confidence? Maybe it was both, maybe the changes made women like me more which gave me confidence and led to a positive feedback loop?
It's brutal how making a few changes like that totally shifts how women behave around you. When my hair was curled and I had a skinfade, random girls were telling me at the smoking area how they liked my hair, now imagine I had lifts on back then too... It's fucked tbh.
Girls might not care all that much about looks, but they do care about confidence. If you feel like you look bad, you won't have confidence, and in turn your interaction with girls will be poor, leading to a downward spiral.
