Dr. Mog
Researcher at moggerdom and zoomerology
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It’s the April of 2020. You, your family, your friends and your government are shitting their pants because of the pandemic and Covid breakdown. You are alone in your room, no friends, no real life chit chat and hanging out. Only attending online university lectures scheduled for 9 after waking up at 9:12 Am with a monster energy zero sugar for last night’s dinner. Remember the good ole days?
At this time, you are alone but you are NOT lonely. Why so? Its cause you aren’t seeing anymore Instagram stories of your normie classmates hanging out. You aren’t hearing your so called friend say “heyo I was invited to this party sleepover this weekend” cause NO ONE was going out and engaging in social activities. You have zero FOMO.
In many places people got their ass mogged and beaten up by the cops or the right wing mob for going out and increasing the spread of the virus. This alone limited all the fun hanging normoids to go out and celebrate events or bday parties, for which you wouldn’t be invited anyway.
My point is, Tfw yk you are alone and more importantly SO ARE EVERYONE, you don’t feel loneliness. That’s why FOMO is a very real thing. Cause FOMO involves a group of people.
I take ‘feeing lonely’ under two circumstances:-
1) You are an outcast in a group.
You find yourself on the periphery of the group, occupying a role of minimal significance. You’re the last in line for conversation, and no sympathetic hands are reaching out to lend you support. Amidst cracking jokes and witty banter, no one turns their gaze in your direction, for your input goes unnoticed. The group’s functionality remains unimpaired, whether or not you’re a part of it.
2) You are left out.
This is when there your whole row of bench mates and the one behind you and infront of you are invited for this fag‘s bday party and you aren’t. (Real story experienced first hand 4 business days ago kek). This occurrence leaves you pondering what might be lacking or amiss on your part, leading to a profound sense of loneliness. It’s a poignant reflection on the human experience, a somber truth we sometimes encounter.
Conclusion: Loneliness, at least in my experience, isn't a self-imposed condition but rather a consequence of the actions of others. It's not merely about being alone; it's about the feeling of you being alone while those around you are not.
At this time, you are alone but you are NOT lonely. Why so? Its cause you aren’t seeing anymore Instagram stories of your normie classmates hanging out. You aren’t hearing your so called friend say “heyo I was invited to this party sleepover this weekend” cause NO ONE was going out and engaging in social activities. You have zero FOMO.
In many places people got their ass mogged and beaten up by the cops or the right wing mob for going out and increasing the spread of the virus. This alone limited all the fun hanging normoids to go out and celebrate events or bday parties, for which you wouldn’t be invited anyway.
My point is, Tfw yk you are alone and more importantly SO ARE EVERYONE, you don’t feel loneliness. That’s why FOMO is a very real thing. Cause FOMO involves a group of people.
I take ‘feeing lonely’ under two circumstances:-
1) You are an outcast in a group.
You find yourself on the periphery of the group, occupying a role of minimal significance. You’re the last in line for conversation, and no sympathetic hands are reaching out to lend you support. Amidst cracking jokes and witty banter, no one turns their gaze in your direction, for your input goes unnoticed. The group’s functionality remains unimpaired, whether or not you’re a part of it.
2) You are left out.
This is when there your whole row of bench mates and the one behind you and infront of you are invited for this fag‘s bday party and you aren’t. (Real story experienced first hand 4 business days ago kek). This occurrence leaves you pondering what might be lacking or amiss on your part, leading to a profound sense of loneliness. It’s a poignant reflection on the human experience, a somber truth we sometimes encounter.
Conclusion: Loneliness, at least in my experience, isn't a self-imposed condition but rather a consequence of the actions of others. It's not merely about being alone; it's about the feeling of you being alone while those around you are not.
