It's genuinely over for me.

[Deleted member 313128]

Years of rotting made me mentally ill and awful with girls. I don't think there is fixing of that. I'm 16 and if some miracle doesn't happen until 17-18 and I become at least decent with talking it's over for life

 

[Snorbulkarn]

Stop rotting vro and everything will turn around. You just need to lock in and be uncomfortable for literally only a week and suddenly you enjoy improving yourself. Eat more meat, work out, and stop rotting and literally your entire life changes. Also mental illness, i get it, but PLEASE you have to turn all that emotion around to your own benefit. Also being "awful with girls" is literally not even a bad thing, they just in the way. Every time ive had a girlfriend i just become a weaker person. But how you are precieved around girls will improve once you stop rotting and gooning all day.

 

[nobodylovesme]

they just in the way. Every time ive had a girlfriend i just become a weaker person.

You lack empathy.

 

[Snorbulkarn]

You lack empathy.

i definatly do not lack empathy its just that being with a girl does not help with basicly anything, which you only understand after the relationsship has ended. Which is why you have to wait until you become stable yourself so that you can help yourself and also help the girl with her struggles. Its hard to care for someone else while you cant even care for yourself