It's impossible not to hate your parents if Blackpilled

[LKSMAXPerson]

i got into a good college, i dropped out tho

Why?

 

[BigBoy]

Whyv

health issues, gonna go back in a bit

 

[LKSMAXPerson]

health issues, gonna go back in a bit

That sucks bro. Hopefully it wasn’t because of academics

 

[BigBoy]

That sucks bro. Hopefully it wasn’t because of academics

na i had a good gpa

 

[LKSMAXPerson]

na i had a good gpa

Same but i got my first Bs this semester. My buddy was worried for me. He’s older than me so It’s understandable

 

[StarvedEpi]

brutal youngest child pill, people think they got it the best becuase they get hassled the least but parents just give the least shits about them most of the time, specially if there have different needs such as autism.

 

[hypernormie]

Yes, becoming blackpilled made me realize the many ways my parents neglected me.

I wasn’t ever hungry or anything but they basically gave me the bare minimum level of attention and guidance necessary for me to not end up in jail and even then they almost failed.

What makes it doubly worse is that both of my parents were doing very well financially during my childhood, they just really didn’t direct any of those finances towards my development.

Consider that my mom wanted to put me in a sport (I turned out to be highly athletic) but never did because my dad never showed any initiative. Like wtf?? So because my dad didn’t show any initiative you didn’t either??? My mom isn’t some effeminate pushover either, she’s a giga type A career woman, yet she couldn’t muster the bare minimum level of effort to direct me towards some sport herself. Just a complete lack of any sense of responsibility, and this complete lack of any sense of responsibility has been a theme interacting with then my whole life. It’s like they had kids but the idea that they should bare any responsibility over how those kids turn out is offensive to them. What’s more contradictory is how proudly they will boast their hand in my accomplishments yet if any flaws arise those are solely my doing.

In high school I picked up skateboarding and became rather good but basically gave it up because (on top of my current health issues preventing me from engaging in this hobby) I have no future in it at my age because it would take too long to completely master at the level necessary for a professional career. I would have needed to start skating at least 5-10 years before I actually did to have a shot at making it. But I actually had this opportunity. I expressed interest in skateboarding from an early age and my parents took me to get skateboarding lessons, but when it was time to go down the ramp I chickened out and started crying (I was very young.) upon crying and being scared my parents just sort of gave up on the whole thing. It wasn’t until later when I was watching videos of pro skater parents introducing their kids to skating that I realized how disengaged my parents were. Children freaking out and being scared of going my down their first ramp is very common but unlike my parents, those pro skater parents encourage their kids and help them see that they aren’t in danger or straight up force them to confront their fears. The kids usually very quickly realize they are making a big deal out of nothing and gain the confidence needed to develop further. My parents just said “fuck it” and moved on. A common theme. Had my parents been more concerned with my development I very well may have started skateboarding sooner and would have a real shot at a pro career given my latent abilities, but they didn’t so I didn’t. It’s like the idea that they would have to proactively help my development is anathema to them. They don’t seem to be able to comprehend that concept, which is bizarre because I routinely see far less fortunate and “less intelligent” parents who seem to understand this.

I was fortunate enough to have parents that would take me to skateboard lessons in the first place but not fortunate enough to have parents that cared enough about me to want to help me develop more than what would happen naturally and that is a very interesting form of neglect. You don’t realize how little they did for you because you recognize they did some stuff but the problem is they didn’t do nearly as much as they could have given the resources they had at their disposal ,even though they may have done more than others with less resources.

I almost would have preferred my mom made far less money than she did if instead her callous and selfish career oriented temperament was traded for a typical homely, loving and devoted mother. I benefited very little from my parents resources so them having those resources was basically pointless in my life.

When you look into rich and successful people there is a common theme of having a substantial amount of parental support and investment. Those who get ahead get ahead often because they were given more resources and attention than their peers at the most crucial stages of development and often even beyond that.

Not to mention the hidden damages this does to one’s personality and psyche. When your parents neglect you, you walk around more neurotic, less trusting and behave in less social ways as a coping mechanism. To this day I find it difficult to trust people or fully relax in anything endeavor or situation where I have to depend on someone else. This is a real hindrance.

It’s really unfortunate however I do not regret where I am now because many live their whole life in naivety and ignorance and the fact that so many things have went wrong in my life has forced me to see things as they actually are. I don’t hate my parents but I do look down on them for being so shortsighted. Even then i don’t believe in free will so I don’t even look down on them judgmentally I just see their strategies for living and achieving their goals as very chaotic and foolish. I feel empathy for them as victims of the great American experiment, smart enough to gain some value from the dissociated social fabric but not smart enough to insulate themselves from the costs associated with it.

 

[jeremyy]

Honor your mother and father, regardless of how they raised you.

Even if they forced you to eat goyslop everyday and hit you with an anvil that got you injured and had to go to the hospital for that?

 

[jeremyy]

How did they have 13 years until my teenage years to mold me into whatever they wanted yet never did, how did they pay so little attention to my development and nutrition

Seriously, the very fact that you had so much unrestricted internet access and lack of guidance that you stumbled upon this site proves how little your parents gave a shit,especially ur father

They always make me eat goyshit, it pisses me off. I really need to deblost

 

[CookieGuy]

Professional Bluepillers

 

[Archimedes]

Even if they forced you to eat goyslop everyday and hit you with an anvil that got you injured and had to go to the hospital for that?

You don't have to like them. But yes you should honor them.

 

[hypernormie]

This is kinda true most athletes and gifted kids parents heavily invest and live through them.

The best athletes on the teams I played on all had involved parents and all the kids in advanced classes etc had involved parents

Most peoples parents failed them

The only thing that makes it a bit easier is realizing that very many people’s parents failed them

There are tons of gifted and talented kids out there born to stupid or neglectful parents

The luck of being born to an intelligent, caring and/or wealthy family is whole other pill on its own

 

[drucys123]

How did they have 13 years until my teenage years to mold me into whatever they wanted yet never did, how did they pay so little attention to my development and nutrition

Seriously, the very fact that you had so much unrestricted internet access and lack of guidance that you stumbled upon this site proves how little your parents gave a shit,especially ur father

Brutally true

 

[the_machinist_786]

It's fine tbh since I've no friends

Abe so jaa na gandu kyun bakchodi pel raha

 

[sauceboss]

The only thing that makes it a bit easier is realizing that very many people’s parents failed them

Their are tons of gifted and talented kids out there born to stupid or neglectful parents

The luck of being born to an intelligent, caring and/or wealthy family is whole other pill on its own

Yeah that’s the brutal truth about potential if you don’t have an environment or support network around to develop that potential into what it could be athletically or intellectually etc it means nothing.

You could be the next floyd mayweather or elon musk and not even know it while your working at McDonald’s because your environment and family didn’t cultivate you to your full potential.

That’s Also the difference also in how most rich successful families think about raising kids compared to average people . They view it as raising a successful heir to their legacy or raising their child to be elite. The average person just plops out a kid and goes “uh uh I’ll hope for the best and just work hard” while not doing anything else but provide the basic amenities to survive and maybe a vacation or 2.

It’s actually incredibly moronic and insane.

 

[hypernormie]

Yeah that’s the brutal truth about potential if you don’t have an environment or support network around to develop that potential into what it could be athletically or intellectually etc it means nothing.

You could be the next floyd mayweather or elon musk and not even know it while your working at McDonald’s because your environment and family didn’t cultivate you to your full potential.

That’s Also the difference also in how most rich successful families think about raising kids compared to average people . They view it as raising a successful heir to their legacy or raising their child to be elite. The average person just plops out a kid and goes “uh uh I’ll hope for the best and just work hard”.

It’s actually incredibly moronic and insane.

Incredibly moronic and insane is correct