It’s not even about getting girls anymore for me

[germanlooks]

I obv want to look good to have more success with girls and all that but that’s not really the main thing for me.
I probably could put effort in with personality and get somehow a gf with my current stats. But I feel like this won’t make me truly happy.

Instead it just bothers me so much that I can’t look how I want to look like. I don’t even need to be a Tyler Maher like gigachad. Just some physical fixes and I would be fine.
It’s impossible to live a comfortable happy life if you aren’t comfortable in your looks.
It’s like being forced to wear clothing which you don’t like and which doesn’t suit you.
Everytime I go to the barber I leave depressed because the outcome doesn’t look even close to the picture I show him. Just because my face, skull and hairline doesn’t look as good as the guy on the picture I show.
Everytime I see pictures of me I get depressed because I look bad on them. How am I supposed to post nice photos on Instagram when I look like shit on all of them?
I fell like my personality doesn’t match my looks. I want to do things, behave a certain way and have a individual style but it doesn’t work with my looks.

And then I have to go to college and after that wageslaving for the rest of my life. All that for what?

it’s over.

 

[Carnivore]

Instead it just bothers me so much that I can’t look how I want to look like.

Can relate tbh.

 

[StrangerDanger]

spot on

 

[Deleted member 13332]

I obv want to look good to have more success with girls and all that but that’s not really the main thing for me.
I probably could put effort in with personality and get somehow a gf with my current stats. But I feel like this won’t make me truly happy.

Instead it just bothers me so much that I can’t look how I want to look like. I don’t even need to be a Tyler Maher like gigachad. Just some physical fixes and I would be fine.
It’s impossible to live a comfortable happy life if you aren’t comfortable in your looks.
It’s like being forced to wear clothing which you don’t like and which doesn’t suit you.
Everytime I go to the barber I leave depressed because the outcome doesn’t look even close to the picture I show him. Just because my face, skull and hairline doesn’t look as good as the guy on the picture I show.
Everytime I see pictures of me I get depressed because I look bad on them. How am I supposed to post nice photos on Instagram when I look like shit on all of them?
I fell like my personality doesn’t match my looks. I want to do things, behave a certain way and have a individual style but it doesn’t work with my looks.

And then I have to go to college and after that wageslaving for the rest of my life. All that for what?

it’s over.

i always felt like not enough, insecurities that stop me from enjoying life and there is no way escaping that mentality its like body dismorphia on much deeper level

 

[Carnivore]

i always felt like not enough, insecurities that stop me from enjoying life and there is no way escaping that mentality its like body dismorphia on much deeper level

BDD is hell tbh.

 

[Need2Ascend]

Ja same, so habe ich schon immer gedacht. Konnte nie wirklich so sein wie ich mich innerlich wirklich fühle, wegen dem Äußeren, und das spiegelt sich in allem wieder. Kann einen echt zerstören und es gibt eigentlich keine andere Lösung als am Aussehen zu arbeiten, weil sich selbst was vorzumachen ist unmöglich.
Allein schon in den Spiegel zu schauen und sich jedes mal krass zu fühlen, weil man sein gutes robustes Gesicht sieht ist mit die beste Basis die man im Leben haben kann.

 

[thisend]

I obv want to look good to have more success with girls and all that but that’s not really the main thing for me.
I probably could put effort in with personality and get somehow a gf with my current stats. But I feel like this won’t make me truly happy.

Instead it just bothers me so much that I can’t look how I want to look like. I don’t even need to be a Tyler Maher like gigachad. Just some physical fixes and I would be fine.
It’s impossible to live a comfortable happy life if you aren’t comfortable in your looks.
It’s like being forced to wear clothing which you don’t like and which doesn’t suit you.
Everytime I go to the barber I leave depressed because the outcome doesn’t look even close to the picture I show him. Just because my face, skull and hairline doesn’t look as good as the guy on the picture I show.
Everytime I see pictures of me I get depressed because I look bad on them. How am I supposed to post nice photos on Instagram when I look like shit on all of them?
I fell like my personality doesn’t match my looks. I want to do things, behave a certain way and have a individual style but it doesn’t work with my looks.

And then I have to go to college and after that wageslaving for the rest of my life. All that for what?

it’s over.

Take the crimepill.

 

[owlofathena]

Everyday I wish I had Andreas Eriksen exact eye area or just was him in general but mainly his eye area am jealous of. I have great cheekbones like his but that's the main thing for me and would like better hairline