its not much about looks after 5psl

[Deleted member 1140]

literally just be above average facially and then other factors such as money, body, height, personality, status become more important


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[Deleted member 275]

You need to be 5PSL in your youth so you can obtain a 5PSL personality. If you've never struggled with women and social status due to being 5PSL in your youth, your mind develops to value and obtain different things in life. Women are just a 'given' in your life and not worth further effort.

 

[Deleted member 1140]

You need to be 5PSL in your youth so you can obtain a 5PSL personality. If you've never struggled with women and social status due to being 5PSL in your youth, your mind develops to value and obtain different things in life. Women are just a 'given' in your life and not worth further effort.

yea true

i was threated badly at young age cuz i wasnt soft maxxrd ugly clothes and glasses and i constantly seek validation by girls, especially jbs now

my personality is pretty low inhib tho

maybe its not so fucked cuz i started being „normal“ and got girl validation at 18

 

[Deleted member 275]

yea true

i was threated badly at young age cuz i wasnt soft maxxrd ugly clothes and glasses and i constantly seek validation by girls, especially jbs now

my personality is pretty low inhib tho

maybe its not so fucked cuz i started being „normal“ and got girl validation at 18

Yeah becoming normal at 18yo saved u tbh. Good shit man, once ur softmaxxed there's not much you can do about looks anymore anyways. Might aswell focus on other shit in your life.

Maybe if it was easy to get 6PSL or 7PSL through hard work and effort, it would be worth it to go for that. But it's bs in the real world.

 

[Deleted member 616]

You need to be 5PSL in your youth so you can obtain a 5PSL personality. If you've never struggled with women and social status due to being 5PSL in your youth, your mind develops to value and obtain different things in life. Women are just a 'given' in your life and not worth further effort.

This is brutal to admit but true. Basically your personality = your looks in your formative years, apart from extreme outliers. After that, it’s way easier to improve your looks than fix your mental damage because at least you have some control over the former.

People love to say how you have to compensate with NTness if you’re not chad. But at this point, looks becomes a compensation for my non NTness.

 

[Deleted member 275]

it’s way easier to improve your looks than fix your mental damage

This 100% man. Changing your personality after your teens becomes almost impossible. At best one can change the perception people have of your personality by changing the way you look.

 

[Deleted member 616]

At best one can change the perception people have of your personality by changing the way you look.

Yes, your personality slowly improves as people start to treat you better based on your new looks. But deep down you’ll remain insecure until idk when.

 

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