It’s ok to be alone

[Deleted member 21467]

being alone is so underrated. yes u will battle with depression because you’ll miss talking to people or hanging out with friends but once you get used to being alone then you’ll feel fine.

you don’t need anyone in this life but yourself, you can’t count on anyone but yourself.

if you feel like you don’t get enough spotlight you didn’t need it in the first place. You don’t need a gf and a family and friends to be happy.

My friends don’t talk about anything interesting unless it’s us as a group.

people are not special there’s no reason to cry over not having anyone. You can never keep someone in your life forever. People come in and out of your life always

 

[Deleted member 42399]

 

[Eriot Lodger]

This doesn't work in practice. There's no lonely people who aren't chronically miserable.

 

[Deleted member 84899]

 

[Deleted member 21467]

This doesn't work in practice. There's no lonely people who aren't chronically miserable.

Everyone can be subjected to misery no matter their situation, even people with family and friends will sometimes resent their situation.

It’s the only way for some people. The thing is with incels or lonely men they never really had a choice to connect with people so they can only see the good in being alone.

 

[Eriot Lodger]

Everyone can be subjected to misery no matter their situation, even people with family and friends will sometimes resent their situation.

It’s the only way for some people. The thing is with incels or lonely men they never really had a choice to connect with people so they can only see the good in being alone.

Always make the best of the situation, but if you stick your head in the sand and delude yourself then you're never gonna do anything about it. Attempting to remedy the situation is still worth it, even if there's only a small chance of success imo.