It’s over for people here thinking some girl looking at them is an IOI

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Like are you niggas being serious? I don’t ever post about that shit let alone girls idk randomly talking to me because even that isn’t an IOI in my mind. An IOI is if the girl tells you she wants to fuck or date you these niggas are delusional
 
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Like are you niggas being serious? I don’t ever post about that shit let alone girls idk randomly talking to me because even that isn’t an IOI in my mind. An IOI is if the girl tells you she wants to fuck or date you these niggas are delusional
It's a coping mechanism ig because reality is brutal. It fucks with your mind knowing that no woman gives a fuck about you, and never will.
 
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It's a coping mechanism ig because reality is brutal. It fucks with your mind knowing that no woman gives a fuck about you, and never will.
Brutal
 
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sometimes if im real bold i be starin at foids on the street
 
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Girls generally aren’t overt about wanting guys dipshit. They give off hints (IOIs) and expect the guy to act if he’s interested.

Just because you don’t get IOIs doesnt mean they don’t exist.
 
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Girls generally aren’t overt about wanting guys dipshit. They give off hints (IOIs) and expect the guy to act if he’s interested.

Just because you don’t get IOIs doesnt mean they don’t exist.
Let me guess you're the type of nigga to say "cashier talked to me she wanna lick my asshole"
 
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100% Guys, if a girl is making sustained eye contact or double checking, they aren't interested, they are just looking at people. So definitely don't pursue any women looking at you, only pursue the women that make it blatantly clear that they want to fuck you or date you.

High IQ stuff OP (y)
 
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100% Guys, if a girl is making sustained eye contact or double checking, they aren't interested, they are just looking at people. So definitely don't pursue any women looking at you, only pursue the women that make it blatantly clear that they want to fuck you or date you.

High IQ stuff OP (y)
Maybe accurate in party setting but everyone says this and their referring to them being on the bus and some girl stares at them for two seconds
 
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Yea if they actually found you attractive they would ask for ur ig or sumshit
 
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It's too funny shattering these peoples reality. Girls that liked me always initiate convo on social media or ask me for socials irl. But again sometimes if it's in a party setting it could be real I'm still autistic in that matter
 
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Like are you niggas being serious? I don’t ever post about that shit let alone girls idk randomly talking to me because even that isn’t an IOI in my mind. An IOI is if the girl tells you she wants to fuck or date you these niggas are delusional
How do u know if u don't approach her
 
Maybe accurate in party setting but everyone says this and their referring to them being on the bus and some girl stares at them for two seconds
Yeah, they are dumb as fuck. People simply look at people. Guys don't understand that when women have an actual IOI, they will just walk right up to you and tell you that. But yeah, in the party scene, eye contact is the primary method of attraction just for sussing out stranger dangers.
 
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How do u know if u don't approach her
I mean there are real IOIs but it isn't like girls staring at u in the train or something which is what I'm referring to here mainly
 
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100% Guys, if a girl is making sustained eye contact or double checking, they aren't interested, they are just looking at people. So definitely don't pursue any women looking at you, only pursue the women that make it blatantly clear that they want to fuck you or date you.

High IQ stuff OP (y)
Lol double checking so if a girl looks you up and down 3+ times thats not an ioi? Kek. Just looking around bro
 
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Lol double checking so if a girl looks you up and down 3+ times thats not an ioi? Kek. Just looking around bro
Nah, I'm joking, OP is unironically one the dumbest fuckers I have encountered on here so far.
 
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what if she walks right past you almost bumping into you
 
girls don't give subhumans eye contact and they especially don't smile at them or make small talk

non-autists can easily distinguish politeness versus genuine interest
 
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girls don't give subhumans eye contact and they especially don't smile at them or make small talk

non-autists can easily distinguish politeness versus genuine interest
This is looksmax buddy
 
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Nah, I'm joking, OP is unironically one the dumbest fuckers I have encountered on here so far.
Who the FUCK r you dawg 😭😭Mods be letting anyone into the website nowadays
 
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Lol double checking so if a girl looks you up and down 3+ times thats not an ioi? Kek. Just looking around bro
This is very different from a girl just looking at you which people here believe is a real ioi
 
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This is very different from a girl just looking at you which people here believe is a real ioi
Only a legit autist would believe a simple glance is an IOI, it was always over for them. Sustained eye contact has been the start of 9/10 of my relationships, I don't approach without eye contact. So either you are speaking to pure autists, who this won't matter to, or you unironically have autism yourself. :lul:
 
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i used to think that and it resulted in brutal rejections
 
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I never look at girls I'm not interested twice and I look for like 1 second. So if she likes u she will look more than once and eye contact over 3 seconds. This is an IOI
 
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Only a legit autist would believe a simple glance is an IOI, it was always over for them. Sustained eye contact has been the start of 9/10 of my relationships, I don't approach without eye contact. So either you are speaking to pure autists, who this won't matter to, or you unironically have autism yourself. :lul:
Mainly referring to this tbh. People here genuinely believe some girl stared at them on the train and it’s an ioi. I am autistic around girls tbh but I’ve seen brutal rejections from people saying a girl that was staring at them is interested so I never considered it ioi to myself
 
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Mainly referring to this tbh. People here genuinely believe some girl stared at them on the train and it’s an ioi. I am autistic around girls tbh but I’ve seen brutal rejections from people saying a girl that was staring at them is interested so I never considered it ioi to myself
Yeah, but those guys are kind of doomed anyways, if we are being real. I don't say that with glee, I'm aware of how fucked it is for mentalcels.
 
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This is very different from a girl just looking at you which people here believe is a real ioi
Its how she looks at you. The up and down stare if you're not an ugly guy is a.good thing. Actually come to think of it, i only do it when i see a girl who looks really good however if it comes with a disgust face thats bad
 
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Its how she looks at you.
Problem is, and this is the scary part, the mentalcels can see the distinction. They can't see subtleties in emotions and facial expressions. Crazy.
 
Its how she looks at you. The up and down stare if you're not an ugly guy is a.good thing. Actually come to think of it, i only do it when i see a girl who looks really good however if it comes with a disgust face thats bad
Looking good bro

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Only a legit autist would believe a simple glance is an IOI, it was always over for them. Sustained eye contact has been the start of 9/10 of my relationships, I don't approach without eye contact. So either you are speaking to pure autists, who this won't matter to, or you unironically have autism yourself. :lul:
I never look at girls I'm not interested twice and I look for like 1 second. So if she likes u she will look more than once and eye contact over 3 seconds. This is an IOI
if a girl makes eye contact with you repeatedly while walking down hallways, like multiple times, is that an ioi? like you guys make eye contact repeatedly, is that an ioi?
 
if a girl makes eye contact with you repeatedly while walking down hallways is that an ioi? like you guys make eye contact repeatedly, is that an ioi?
Nah, @Blackgymmax brought it to my attention, I forgot the people that struggle with this stuff struggle with interpreting emotions. So in that example you listed, I would say it depends on how she was looking at you. For me, if it's quick and we are in a school setting and I know I could see her again, I wouldn't move on just those quick looks, but if she did it again, that's highish probability. But even then, people look at you way kind of way when they are interested, that's not something I can explain, at all.

Maybe, I could say, the eyes are softer, it's a softer look. It's different from the "I'm just looking at you", the "I'm just looking at you seems more direct, slightly intimidating. The interest look is a soft and sort of wondering look, as if they are looking all around at you.
 
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Problem is, and this is the scary part, the mentalcels can see the distinction. They can't see subtleties in emotions and facial expressions. Crazy.
Personally i can only tell after the fact. Usually in the moment i think nothing of it and think shes being nice or something or maybe i have food on my mouth
 
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Problem is, and this is the scary part, the mentalcels can see the distinction. They can't see subtleties in emotions and facial expressions. Crazy.
a few times when its happened i literally looked behind me on both sides to see if there was something behind me that she was starring at
 
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Let me guess you're the type of nigga to say "cashier talked to me she wanna lick my asshole"
Ya ur right retard, the only way girls express interest is by walking up and explicitly saying they want to fuck.

Holy fuck the autists on this site are next level
 
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Like are you niggas being serious? I don’t ever post about that shit let alone girls idk randomly talking to me because even that isn’t an IOI in my mind. An IOI is if the girl tells you she wants to fuck or date you these niggas are delusional
its delusional to think every girl is low inhib as fuck and ask for a fuck just randomly
you guys sometimes
 
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The best IOI is proximity not eye contact.

If you’re at a bar or club or anywhere really and chick is making an effort to get near you, that’s an easy open
 
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Nah, @Blackgymmax brought it to my attention, I forgot the people that struggle with this stuff struggle with interpreting emotions. So in that example you listed, I would say it depends on how she was looking at you. For me, if it's quick and we are in a school setting and I know I could see her again, I wouldn't move on just those quick looks, but if she did it again, that's highish probability. But even then, people look at you way kind of way when they are interested, that's not something I can explain, at all.

Maybe, I could say, the eyes are softer, it's a softer look. It's different from the "I'm just looking at you", the "I'm just looking at you seems more direct, slightly intimidating. The interest look is a soft and sort of wondering look, as if they are looking all around at you.
so in the scenario i listed we would make eye contact pretty intensely when we walked past each other. in this scenario she looked at me with a deadpan face. i remember one time a while later she was looking at me from the back and looked really happy for a brief second but when she noticed i saw her she walked away really quickly.

idk if this was an ioi or not, i was a ltn and she was a htb
 
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so in the scenario i listed we would make eye contact pretty intensely when we walked past each other. i remember one time a while later she was looking at me from the back and looked really happy for a brief second but when she noticed i saw her she walked away really quickly.

idk if this was an ioi or not, i was a ltn and she was a htb

I can't really tell off these descriptions, I would honestly have to see it through your eyes. But, in most cases, if you find a girl looking at more than 3 times, she is interested. But depending on who you are, you have to navigate it properly, because some girls will actually freeze if you just outright approach them, I want to say most get highly nervous, so if you are in a class setting work your way to casual conversation, don't lead with intentions of dating. Working your way to the convo could be had to working through her friends, especially if she has guy friends, or just being around her. Depending on the setting, like work and school, some girls that are interested will not always look, but they will find a way to be closer to you, like distance wise. Navigating that can't really be explained but just be aware of how they work their proximity.

I'm saying this as a rather high inhib guy, so I work on probability with women, the different looks, distance, speech, etc, I slowly build up a decent probably of assurance then I work towards the move. But these are in setting with equal people, so they are pursued with serious intentions by me. At a store or out and about, it's usually double takes or a sustained stare and any type of smiling that tips me off.



One important thing, a girl can like you, but your approach could 100% fuck it up. Consider that when approaching a women you actually value.
 
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I can't really tell off these descriptions, I would honestly have to see it through your eyes. But, in most cases, if you find a girl looking at more than 3 times, she is interested. But depending on who you are, you have to navigate it properly, because some girls will actually freeze if you just outright approach them, I want to say most get highly nervous, so if you are in a class setting work your way to casual conversation, don't lead with intentions of dating. Working your way to the convo could be had to working through her friends, especially if she has guy friends, or just being around her. Depending on the setting, like work and school, some girls that are interested will not always look, but they will find a way to be closer to you, like distance wise. Navigating that can't really be explained but just be aware of how they work their proximity.

I'm saying this as a rather high inhib guy, so I work on probability with women, the different looks, distance, speech, etc, I slowly build up a decent probably of assurance then I work towards the move. But these are in setting with equal people, so they are pursued with serious intentions by me. At a store or out and about, it's usually double takes or a sustained stare and any type of smiling that tips me off.



One important thing, a girl can like you, but your approach could 100% fuck it up. Consider that when approaching a women you actually value.
how could the approach fuck it up if the girl likes you? what would you say not to do?
 
how could the approach fuck it up if the girl likes you? what would you say not to do?
One girl that vocally expressed interest to me, she even used to grope me, I was actually interested in her because she had a bubbly personality and the face to match. She was sitting at a table alone, I went to approach her, and she just froze up smiling, it was cringe as fuck, I just walked away. I probably could have played it better even after her freezing but I just hate awkward girls. I'm saying be careful with awkward girls, which a lot of girls actually are. You can identify the girls with confidence if you know what to look for, they don't second guess their movement and they talk a lot and loudly, those are the girls you can game, the shy girls have to be approached with some sense.

I guess this goes to @skorp point in his thread. lol But I guess, growing up in bad environments, you come to realize most people are scared, men and women, when you realize that, you adjust your approach depending on how scared they are.
 
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unless you are socially retarded its easy to difference an ioi with normal behaviour

u just feel if a girl is attracted to you. if she looks at you differently, many times within seconds, looks at you longer than an usual look etc

if a girl jzst looks at u once or twice it means jackshit
 
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Only P in V is an IOI.
 
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Like are you niggas being serious? I don’t ever post about that shit let alone girls idk randomly talking to me because even that isn’t an IOI in my mind. An IOI is if the girl tells you she wants to fuck or date you these niggas are delusional
I’d a girl talks to you that’s an ioi
 
Like are you niggas being serious? I don’t ever post about that shit let alone girls idk randomly talking to me because even that isn’t an IOI in my mind. An IOI is if the girl tells you she wants to fuck or date you these niggas are delusional
No sober girls tell she wants to fuck you unless its a party setting. Most they would do is intitate small talks like i find you cute/ ask for social etc.
 
Once (so to speak) a girl asked me to cum on her face, even that was not an IOI
 

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