its so difficult for me right now

[BearBoy]

My father has been diagnosed with mouth gum cancer and i aleardy had enough problems and now I hear this

Oral cancer or gum cancer please tell me there is a high chance to survive this

 

[CtrlAltDelete]

I'm sorry OP ngl I went through a similar thing

If it's early stages it's manageable I think with a high survival chance. How's your dad's condition?

 

[Pietrosiek]

Im sorry man

 

[n0rthface]

Idk sorry tho bro

 

[Deleted member 11758]

bro i almost JFL reacted becasue it’s so close to the so sad emote, then i would’ve looked like a dick head

 

[BearBoy]

I'm sorry OP ngl I went through a similar thing

If it's early stages it's manageable I think with a high survival chance. How's your dad's condition?

Í dont know man but he is working hard 10 - 12 hours as a mechanic and comes home tired

but he lost his teeth at early age and had gum problems

I just wish i didnt have to go through all this

 

[WontStopNorwooding]

This cant be happening bro...

 

[BearBoy]

This cant be happening bro...
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Its my first time i have been crying like this man

He is the only person I have in my life if he is gone i dont know what i can do man

 

[n0rthface]

Its my first time i have been crying like this man

He is the only person I have in my life if he is gone i dont know what i can do man

I hear it’s better if they catch it early, so look on the bright side.

 

[BearBoy]

I'm sorry OP ngl I went through a similar thing

If it's early stages it's manageable I think with a high survival chance. How's your dad's condition?

Please man tell me what the chances are to survive this, i am just sad fuck he had both his knees broken, surgery a new knee, back problems and takes opioids, now got mouth cancer and uses caffeine and cigarettes since young age

do you think if i helped him stop the cigarettes and caffeine it will go away?

he is a very good immunity and never gets sick

 

[CtrlAltDelete]

Please man tell me what the chances are to survive this, i am just sad fuck he had both his knees broken, surgery a new knee, back problems and takes opioids, now got mouth cancer and uses caffeine and cigarettes since young age

do you think if i helped him stop the cigarettes and caffeine it will go away?

he is a very good immunity and never gets sick

According to what I know it's survival rate is high but he REALLY needs to stop smoking to not worsen his condition. I understand that he feels the need to smoke to relieve himself of stress, but sit down with him and tell him to quit smoking if he cares about you because your mental health is worsening because of his condition. He'll understand.

Caffeine I don't think it's problematic, but then again consult with your doctor. He got gum cancer because of the smoking, not because of anything else, I'm %90 sure.

 

[BearBoy]

According to what I know it's survival rate is high but he REALLY needs to stop smoking to not worsen his condition. I understand that he feels the need to smoke to relieve himself of stress, but sit down with him and tell him to quit smoking if he cares about you because your mental health is worsening because of his condition. He'll understand.

Caffeine I don't think it's problematic, but then again consult with your doctor. He got gum cancer because of the smoking, not because of anything else, I'm %90 sure.

He has been smoking since he was 16 - 18 and now is almost 50

his parents died early dont know reason

but my dad looks like he has acromegaly very thick bones like wrists, should we also test him for hormones?

 

[BearBoy]

Thanks to everyone on here who supports me and my father

 

[CtrlAltDelete]

He has been smoking since he was 16 - 18 and now is almost 50

his parents died early dont know reason

but my dad looks like he has acromegaly very thick bones like wrists, should we also test him for hormones?

I have no reason to believe he has a hormonal problem since you said he works with his hands.

But honestly your doctor knows better, I am just an internet autist. What you should do is get your dad away from the cigarettes ngl, he's just worsening his condition. Tell him to get a better alternative.

 

[BearBoy]

I have no reason to believe he has a hormonal problem since you said he works with his hands.

But honestly your doctor knows better, I am just an internet autist. What you should do is get your dad away from the cigarettes ngl, he's just worsening his condition. Tell him to get a better alternative.

Alright i will try my best thanks brother

 

[Pietrosiek]

Its my first time i have been crying like this man

He is the only person I have in my life if he is gone i dont know what i can do man

What about your mother? How old are u?

 

[BearBoy]

What about your mother? How old are u?

I am 18

i just wont be the same if my father is gone

 

[Pietrosiek]

I am 18

i just wont be the same if my father is gone

Yes, hes a good man to u, its sad to hear. Close family are the most important people in our life

 

[BearBoy]

Yes, hes a good man to u, its sad to hear. Close family are the most important people in our life

I dont know man life always fucks with the right people

 

[coolguy1]

According to what I know it's survival rate is high but he REALLY needs to stop smoking to not worsen his condition. I understand that he feels the need to smoke to relieve himself of stress, but sit down with him and tell him to quit smoking if he cares about you because your mental health is worsening because of his condition. He'll understand.

Caffeine I don't think it's problematic, but then again consult with your doctor. He got gum cancer because of the smoking, not because of anything else, I'm %90 sure.

OP can give him nicotine lozenges or pouches
EDIT: Wait nvm patches would be better

 

[oldcelloser]

My father has been diagnosed with mouth gum cancer and i aleardy had enough problems and now I hear this

Oral cancer or gum cancer please tell me there is a high chance to survive this

put your father on chemo / doctors help asap
keto asap (0 glucides / sugar) ONLY protein and fats(meat, animal fat, olives, coconut, dairy)
listen to what ive said pls
it will save his life