It's so easy to be friendless as an adult

[Deleted member 15674]

I already can feel me pushing my friends away. Mon - Fri I have work, gym and training. So I am legit way too busy to even see anyone. The weekends, I am doing some work like planning. As a kid maintaining any form of relationship never took effort, you always saw them. Now it is so hard, you need to actually make time and effort for your friends, it's unironically so hard. Sad to say, but the feeling of friendlessness is something only NEETs and otherwise people who aren't busy feel. I only ever feel lonely on sunday because I usually am not doing much at that time.

 

[the BULL]

friends are child's stuff. it becomes all about the grind and the pussy

 

[Adonis]

I don't like people anyways

 

[AlexBrown84]

Yep I got no friends all my friends are dead

The last time I did friend related activities other than girls from tinder that end in having sex was with @Chinacurry and that was a month ago literally

 

[Chinacurry]

Yep I got no friends all my friends are dead

The last time I did friend related activities other than girls from tinder that end in having sex was with @Chinacurry and that was a month ago literally
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It'd a cold world bhai

 

[AlexBrown84]

It'd a cold world bhai

Plz go Japan with me

 

[Prettyboy]

It has upsides too though. I get to spend less time with friends nowadays but when we do meet, we spend the time with high quality activities that are very memorable

 

[Deleted member 22611]

When I am working I am very busy too. To be honest I don't feel a need for friends. I think I attract people somehow as I often get invited out and people are receptive to staying in touch with me, but I might just have some sort of deep seated issues with letting people get close. Plus most people are boring normies, it is very hard to keep in touch with them even if I somehow like some of them for their character more than anything. Genuine introverts aren't common at all. I'd like to know some climbing friends to go out and climb though, I think a friendship centered around a hobby or a creative interest has a good chance for growth.

 

[Deleted member 22611]

And while it might sound cringe, my exes were probably the closest thing to genuine friends. Like I'd do all of my hobbies and involve them in my retarded country skipping antics and some adventures. I think it helped that they were so devoted that they were willing to fuck up their own life for my sake. How can someone just be in a lukewarm relationship is beyond me. I'd rather be in permanent slaying mode with ONS and short flings than have a very hollow LTR, which is another reason why I can't relate to most guys as those are the kinds of relationships they are stuck with usually. I'd get on with my ex in a heartbeat again if I wasn't a philanderer at heart.

 

[hebbewem]

Maybe do less training. And go out with friends instead

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Youre supposed to make friends at work and have fun with them there. That's what normies do.

 

[Deleted member 22611]

Youre supposed to make friends at work and have fun with them there. That's what normies do.

It's really beneficial to some work settings as some normoids will do free overtime and will guilt trip their friends into doing it as well since they're happy to work for free. I personally can rarely make friends at work, I despise most people when it comes to work mentality as they think like slaves. I can respect a guy digging trenches as long as he has a good mindset and isn't a completely subservient cuck.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Maybe do less training. And go out with friends instead

even if I did that, I'd see them for an hour at most

Youre supposed to make friends at work and have fun with them there. That's what normies do.

No one my age at work sadly, I'm considering leaving quite soon tbh

 

[Deleted member 20652]

I don't like people anyways

 

[Deleted member 20652]

Friends is cope imo (in my opinion)

It's all about having money

 

[Deleted member 20652]

Friends really is a cope

I have friends but I'm depressive as fock

Only thing that could cure my depression overnight is getting employed n a chance to make money

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Youre supposed to make friends at work and have fun with them there. That's what normies do.

work environment just isnt conducive to friend making like school and uni are.

 

[Adonis]

Only thing that could cure my depression overnight is getting employed n a chance to make money

Massive cope.
I am employed rn but it changed nothing for my mood

 

[Deleted member 17578]

work environment just isnt conducive to friend making like school and uni are.

I find it easier to make friends at my new job than at school/uni. But could be cuz its a STEM uni with autistic subhumans only.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Massive cope.
I am employed rn but it changed nothing for my mood

This. Working is a waste of time unless you enjoy the time you work.

 

[Deleted member 20652]

Massive cope.
I am employed rn but it changed nothing for my mood

It's because you don't know how to use money. I would use money for locationmaxing to asia

 

[Deleted member 15674]

work environment just isnt conducive to friend making like school and uni are.

How old are your work mates

 

[Deleted member 14815]

brutal bhai
some niggas i used to hang out with in high school, id walk past them at the mall like complete strangers

 

[Deleted member 19442]

brutal bhai
some niggas i used to hang out with in high school, id walk past them at the mall like complete strangers

That sounds like a case of high inhib. It happens to me with acquaintances, mustered up the energy to say hello to an old acquaintance and it felt nice