I’ve Ascended, now what

[John_Sory74]

I’ve gone from like ltn to hmtn-lhtn facially,grew my frame, grew taller, fixed my skin and colouring. Probably gone from an ltn to htn overall. But now what. Do I keep pursuing better looks at the cost of my confidence in social settings and overall happiness in life. Or do I just try forget this and live my life to the fullest. I’m thinking this because I see men who I’m leagues above looks wise act 10x more confident than me and are able to socially function. This lookism shit has improved my looks but tanked my self confidence. Any thoughts?

 

[therealdeal877]

Man you are at the easiest part of this shit if its not larp

Being confidence socially is literally a positive feedback loop
People treat you well > you become more confident > further boosts how people perceive you

So just make an ntmaxxing stack take pregab for example you are good to go but honestly probably you dont even need this

If you really have the looks you won already

 

[xXXxZeusxXXx]

this is high iq take, but what you want? If you pursue looks just to pursue looks is kinda pointless
But if you doing it for foids it's at least a point(shitt analogy)
You could improve your looks and have confidence, without cherry picking every little autistic flaw.
You really gotta decide and figure out what you reallly want to.
Pick 1 if you can't shoot 2 rabbits with 1 bullet yk what i mean

 

[Whatsamaxilla__]

I’ve gone from like ltn to hmtn-lhtn facially,grew my frame, grew taller, fixed my skin and colouring. Probably gone from an ltn to htn overall. But now what. Do I keep pursuing better looks at the cost of my confidence in social settings and overall happiness in life. Or do I just try forget this and live my life to the fullest. I’m thinking this because I see men who I’m leagues above looks wise act 10x more confident than me and are able to socially function. This lookism shit has improved my looks but tanked my self confidence. Any thoughts?

HAVE FUN!
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[xXXxZeusxXXx]

Man you are at the easiest part of this shit if its not larp

Being confidence socially is literally a positive feedback loop
People treat you well > you become more confident > further boosts how people perceive you

So just make an ntmaxxing stack take pregab for example you are good to go but honestly probably you dont even need this

If you really have the looks you won already

is pregab = being socially fluid? or is it an illusion of it
genuine question

 

[John_Sory74]

Man you are at the easiest part of this shit if its not larp

Being confidence socially is literally a positive feedback loop
People treat you well > you become more confident > further boosts how people perceive you

So just make an ntmaxxing stack take pregab for example you are good to go but honestly probably you dont even need this

If you really have the looks you won already

Yeah but I can just take pregab for the rest of my life

 

[John_Sory74]

this is high iq take, but what you want? If you pursue looks just to pursue looks is kinda pointless
But if you doing it for foids it's at least a point(shitt analogy)
You could improve your looks and have confidence, without cherry picking every little autistic flaw.
You really gotta decide and figure out what you reallly want to.
Pick 1 if you can't shoot 2 rabbits with 1 bullet yk what i mean

yeah i get that, but like bro i swear lookism shit is permanently burnt into my brain when I look at someone I literally analyse there flaws and compare myself to them or even when I’m walking though my campus I always have in the back of my mind fo make sure like I look good which sounds so gay and corny but it’s true

 

[xXXxZeusxXXx]

yeah i get that, but like bro i swear lookism shit is permanently burnt into my brain when I look at someone I literally analyse there flaws and compare myself to them or even when I’m walking though my campus I always have in the back of my mind fo make sure like I look good which sounds so gay and corny but it’s true

i can relate to this, the more i spend time on the forum the more i think about peoples faces JFL
my normie friend(someone i know of) not sure if he was on the forums or not, but he was hella insecure, nk legit got 5 cm shoe lifts, keep in mind mfer was tall, ltn facially, but good presentation, his gf was mtb or something like that, she was cute ngl.
and he legit got his phone out and started to make sure his hair is on point, gayest shit i've ever seen. the guy legit always had his presentation on point, holy mental health crisis

 

[John_Sory74]

i can relate to this, the more i spend time on the forum the more i think about peoples faces JFL
my normie friend(someone i know of) not sure if he was on the forums or not, but he was hella insecure, nk legit got 5 cm shoe lifts, keep in mind mfer was tall, ltn facially, but good presentation, his gf was mtb or something like that, she was cute ngl.
and he legit got his phone out and started to make sure his hair is on point, gayest shit i've ever seen. the guy legit always had his presentation on point, holy mental health crisis

Fr it’s actually bad. I think I need to find the balance of improving and maintaining myself and my looks without it being like the only thing I think about. But it’s just so easy to be pulled back down that hole of over analysation and comparison

 

[xXXxZeusxXXx]

Fr it’s actually bad. I think I need to find the balance of improving and maintaining myself and my looks without it being like the only thing I think about. But it’s just so easy to be pulled back down that hole of over analysation and comparison

there is just some things you will not get over, you can supress the thoughts but they will be there more or less.
Find the balance and really decide and commit to your end goal/result.