I've become too nice

Its not that im super attractive, i just get some compliments every now and then, but i dont think this whole thing has anything to do with my attractiveness, cuz i was looking the same a year ago but things were hella different
It’s the people man
 
The beta male is a coward. They wear a mask of positivity that hides the fangs of an envious wild beast. The beta male shall smile in your face and try to curry favor because they have no Inherent value of their own hence why they instinctively form groups of their own to accrue power. They will lie and manipulate quite in fact like the Jew in order to get what that want which is ultimately sexual companionship. They are afraid of confrontation because they ultimately know deep down that they are no threat to anyone, gene their feminine social tactics. If you have a daughter watch the men she is around carefully for if he is a nice guy he will not be able to protect her more importantly, he would’ve only swayed your daughter through and not genuine merit through their actions and genetics. Indeed they are the scum of the earth. if you suffer a nice guy you’ll end up with a dagger in your back.
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Yeah it seems like you need to find better people
Where tf am i supposed to go and do that? Clubs dont work, only hoes and weird guys in there with a few exceptions, uni? I already know most people in there and talk to them too but were not friends, i was close with like 5-6 people and now its only 1
 
Ok then how do i find real friends? Like people who want to hang out with me and will actually text me or call me
Begin by not allowing people to disrespect you. Be nice and talk with people in the context of the stuff of common interests that you do in your life. If you don't have anything to talk about, just be formal. Carry conversations and don't think too seriously about that, because real friend is something extremely hard to find on earth.
 
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Where tf am i supposed to go and do that? Clubs dont work, only hoes and weird guys in there with a few exceptions, uni? I already know most people in there and talk to them too but were not friends, i was close with like 5-6 people and now its only 1
Join uni clubs that interest you, off the bat your already around people that’s in uni and same interests
 
It’s the people man
Ive been trying everything man, ive tried being mean, being happy and goofy, being chill and nonchalant, no matter what they wont approach me, im always the one that has to approach them. At this point its easier to get a gf than a friend
 
Ive been trying everything man, ive tried being mean, being happy and goofy, being chill and nonchalant, no matter what they wont approach me, im always the one that has to approach them. At this point its easier to get a gf than a friend
then try that instead
 
Begin by not allowing people to disrespect you. Be nice and talk with people in the context of the stuff of common interests that you do in your life. If you don't have anything to talk about, just be formal. Carry conversations and don't think too seriously about that, because real friend is something extremely hard to find on earth.
Ive been doing EXACTLY that and have managed to keep 1-2 people close, but by "close" i mean they know some personal things about me and we hang out when we are in uni, outside of that we dont rly talk, and im always the one to text them first to start a conversation or ask them to hang out
 
then try that instead
I did lol, i broke up in october after a 1.5 years long relationship, and in December i got a new girl that was from the same friend group and same uni as mine. Thats the crazy bitch i told u about before, the one i broke up with cuz i couldnt put up with her bs anymore
 
No, that's achieved through being alone. Loneliness is a feeling, and it's not a good one.
Being alone is good. Living with others only leads to confrontation, which I would answer with brutality and then I would be jailed for the rest of my life. I only looksmaxx because I want to fuck, I will never get married or live with a girl or other people.
 
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I did lol, i broke up in october after a 1.5 years long relationship, and in December i got a new girl that was from the same friend group and same uni as mine. Thats the crazy bitch i told u about before, the one i broke up with cuz i couldnt put up with her bs anymore
Hmm then idk finding friends is lowkey hard
 
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Being alone is good. Living with others only leads to confrontation, which I would answer with brutality and then I would be jailed for the rest of my life. I only looksmaxx because I want to fuck, I will never get married or live with a girl or other people.
The thing is, i never asked anything too absurd from anyone, and i know how to respect peoples boundaries. But i also have my boundaries and want people to respect them the way i respect theirs. And i think thats the normal. But if it is, then why doesnt anyone want to be in my life?
 
Ive been doing EXACTLY that and have managed to keep 1-2 people close, but by "close" i mean they know some personal things about me and we hang out when we are in uni, outside of that we dont rly talk, and im always the one to text them first to start a conversation or ask them to hang out
They aren't really interested in you. Just keep being a good mate for convenience purposes and expect to not ever talk with them again as soon as you guys finish the university.
 
Hmm then idk finding friends is lowkey hard
Exactly man, and this bitch got me so down bad that even this convo were having rn feels like a blessing to me, the fact that we are able to communicate like normal human beings, even tho its completely normal. She was ignoring me like craaaazy
 
Exactly man, and this bitch got me so down bad that even this convo were having rn feels like a blessing to me, the fact that we are able to communicate like normal human beings, even tho its completely normal. She was ignoring me like craaaazy
Do u have a job
 
The thing is, i never asked anything too absurd from anyone, and i know how to respect peoples boundaries. But i also have my boundaries and want people to respect them the way i respect theirs. And i think thats the normal. But if it is, then why doesnt anyone want to be in my life?
I was answering the other guy. But yeah if no one wants to be in your life at the moment then so be it they are not relevant at all man
 
They aren't really interested in you. Just keep being a good mate for convenience purposes and expect to not ever talk with them again as soon as you guys finish the university.
Ofc were never gonna talk after uni lmao ive been knowing that since last year. But again, why cant i just find 1-2 good people that are genuinely interested in me and want to spend time with me?
 
Do u have a job
Nah im focusing on uni rn cuz im getting anxious that i wont get my degree if i dont lock in, but I'm thinking of getting a job for the weekends only. Easy 300-350/month
 
I was answering the other guy. But yeah if no one wants to be in your life at the moment then so be it they are not relevant at all man
Ive been through this again when i was in high school, and i thought once i graduate school that this shit wont happen again, that my life will be normal and i wont be this lonely again, and now its happening again man
 
Easy place to make friends
Idk how good i am with that tho. Im good with starting a convo, being extroverted in general, show interest etc but finding an actual friend? That would mean he wants to text me, hang out with me outside the job, be there for me etc. Idk how to get someone to do all that
 
Thats being alone. Im lonely, i need at least someone, i only have some stupid girls snapping me their walls or trying to get to know me but i want friends, real friends, people who will be there for me

Just make the girls your friends with benefits

You can have 10 friends that you have sex with all the time.

Male friends are fake and trash, they will betray you for pussy unlike female friends.
 
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Just make the girls your friends with benefits

You can have 10 friends that you have sex with all the time
Are these her real boobs? (Girl in ur avi)
 
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Where tf am i supposed to go and do that? Clubs dont work, only hoes and weird guys in there with a few exceptions, uni? I already know most people in there and talk to them too but were not friends, i was close with like 5-6 people and now its only 1
THE LIBRARY
 
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THE LIBRARY
Unironically yes, the library and the church are 2 of the best places i could find genuine people. The only problem is, when it comes to guys, its usually weirdos or losers there, unlike girls. U can find both normal and weird girls in these places
 
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Its ok we can both play pretended as dark triad lowinhib chads on org
 
My brain might have gone full bluepill mode, im way too nice but also way too sensitive, to the point where i take almost anything personally and i exist for others. Im too available and this might have pushed people away from me. How do i reset???????
Relatable, women don’t like nice guys. They want badboys. So I’m extra doomed.
 
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Ur here since Aug 2023, u rarely post yet u have a negative post rep ratio. Pathetic
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Bare in mind he joined forums the same year as me
 
muhmuh saying that just to get mogged by 2022cel
also what is there to be proud about? joining an incel site earlier than a diff nigga? :lul:
Yes lol now go cry
 

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