I've fucked up SO MANY CHANCES at not being a loser it's comical

[Danish_Retard]

Anyone else feel the same?

Of course with hindsight it's easy to see all your mistakes, but fuck man, I've turned down so many invitations, never invited anyone myself and I didn't looksmaxx for 1,5 years even after finding blackpill.

I've always been one to seek out knowledge before taking action, I finally did that with socialising and I'm realising just how much I've missed out on because of my lack of action, it's a lot easier to get a social circle than I thought.

'Then again, my actions then there decided by my previous experiences, it's only natural. Also I only think a small minority of previously abused dogs just suddenly turn their life around.

IDK what to do now tho, I think I'll reach out to some old acquaintances and friends and just see if I can recreate some social bonds...

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Best you can do is looksmax now and practice being nt and going out.

 

[Deleted member 16853]

Same, I fucked up so much times in highschool, I've had women try and talk to me, But I was either too scared to give a reponse, or said something absolutely autistic

 

[Toth's thot]

what are the benefits of having a social circle other than sex

 

[Danish_Retard]

Best you can do is looksmax now and practice being nt and going out.

I'm dead set on turning my life around. But fuck man it's gonna be hard mentally, physically and economically.

I'm gonna work and softmaxx for a year and then get the few surgeries I need, then I'll travel to some other countries and stay in hostels to maxx social skills.

I'll try creating a social circle meanwhile, but the problem is most people who should've been good candidates gave up on me a good while back because I was such a fucking loser that never even tried.

 

[Deleted member 19896]

what are the benefits of having a social circle other than sex

you have sex with your social circle?

 

[Toth's thot]

you have sex with your social circle?

i used to
now i dont have one

 

[Deleted member 18244]

I'm dead set on turning my life around. But fuck man it's gonna be hard mentally, physically and economically.

I'm gonna work and softmaxx for a year and then get the few surgeries I need, then I'll travel to some other countries and stay in hostels to maxx social skills.

I'll try creating a social circle meanwhile, but the problem is most people who should've been good candidates gave up on me a good while back because I was such a fucking loser that never even tried.

Don’t look at it as a hard journey, it’s a good thing tbh plus you’ll feel motivated by improving as time goes by and people treat you better.

What surgeries are you getting? Whats your cap softmaxxed? Travelling and staying in hostels sounds like a fun experience ngl

 

[Kristin]

can't blame urself forever. Just blame yourself once and move on tbh

 

[Yliaster]

what are the benefits of having a social circle other than sex

Networking.Having a good social circle is essential today especially if you're trying to build/maintain an online presence.Women get giga turned off by home body men who don't socialize or that take pics alone etc.

A good Social Circle is basically like being on a Team.

 

[Danish_Retard]

i used to
now i dont have one

NT degeneracy beyond my comprehension man jfl.

I'll never get how normies fuck people in their social circle, gotta be awkward af.

Don’t look at it as a hard journey, it’s a good thing tbh plus you’ll feel motivated by improving as time goes by and people treat you better.

What surgeries are you getting? Whats your cap softmaxxed? Travelling and staying in hostels sounds like a fun experience ngl

Yeah you're right. It won't be that hard since you'll probably see incremental benefits about every 3 months.

I'm not sure about surgeries yet;
I definitely need rhino and a hair transplant (NW2 at 18)

I strongly want something for my deformed lips and something to give me a chin. Some say I need bimax, I'm not sure, I think a chin implant or genio would be good enough.

And for the "not really needed" ones:
Blepharoplasty for excessive NCT hooding
Zygoimplants or fat transplants

Then there are the autistic ones that I'll very likely never get:
Voice deepening surgery
Shoulder widening surgery.
Lower eyelid tightening

I think my absolute limit from softmaxxing is around high tier normie SMV. I'm avg height, average-ish frame with an ogre high pre-natal test face. Assuming fillers as a softmaxx here.


And yeah, travelling sounds fun as fuck, I'm so behind in life experience and social skills, so it's for more than just pleasure too though.

can't blame urself forever. Just blame yourself once and move on tbh

This is a really good mindset, I need to adopt this mindset asap.

 

[khvirgin]

what are the benefits of having a social circle other than sex

you dont see the benefit of having friends?

 

[Pendejo]

I've always been one to seek out knowledge before taking action, I finally did that with socialising and I'm realising just how much I've missed out on because of my lack of action, it's a lot easier to get a social circle than I thought.

Tell us.

 

[Toth's thot]

you dont see the benefit of having friends?

no because most people are snakes anyway

 

[n0rthface]

NT degeneracy beyond my comprehension man jfl.

I'll never get how normies fuck people in their social circle, gotta be awkward af.


Yeah you're right. It won't be that hard since you'll probably see incremental benefits about every 3 months.

I'm not sure about surgeries yet;
I definitely need rhino and a hair transplant (NW2 at 18)

I strongly want something for my deformed lips and something to give me a chin. Some say I need bimax, I'm not sure, I think a chin implant or genio would be good enough.

And for the "not really needed" ones:
Blepharoplasty for excessive NCT hooding
Zygoimplants or fat transplants

Then there are the autistic ones that I'll very likely never get:
Voice deepening surgery
Shoulder widening surgery.
Lower eyelid tightening

I think my absolute limit from softmaxxing is around high tier normie SMV. I'm avg height, average-ish frame with an ogre high pre-natal test face. Assuming fillers as a softmaxx here.


And yeah, travelling sounds fun as fuck, I'm so behind in life experience and social skills, so it's for more than just pleasure too though.


This is a really good mindset, I need to adopt this mindset asap.

Why voice deepening? take test

 

[Danish_Retard]

Tell us.

wdym

Why voice deepening? take test

I don't want to cruise for a long time due to potential longevity issues.

If I were to get voice-deepening surgery it'd be after I've gotten everything else and at that point I'll already have taken roids.

 

[Pendejo]

wdym

The knowledge about socializing you got.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

no because most people are snakes anyway

you spelling @Leonardo DiCaprio wrongly

 

[Danish_Retard]

The knowledge about socializing you got.

I'd have to write essays upon essays of knowledge that I have barely tested myself.

I've just read a lot of books on it, some redpill, some normie.

F.x. Dale Carnagies "How to Win Friends and Influence People", now personally I thought it was a boring read that was too long, but I've implemented a lot of principles, probably forgotten a lot of them too now lol. (And they did work)

Been reading almost every article on this blog too: https://www.succeedsocially.com/
It's pretty basic and anyone not autistic most likely wouldn't get that much out of it, but I am limited genetically and environmentally so I need the basics spelled out for me. He's written a book that's a lot more concise, I recommend it a lot.

"Improve Your Social Skills" is written by an autist too and I learned a lot.

There's a book on body language from a former FBI agent that was very good too.


Also, getting extremely hammered removes my autism and anxiety, and makes me way more social.

 

[Pendejo]

I'd have to write essays upon essays of knowledge that I have barely tested myself.

I've just read a lot of books on it, some redpill, some normie.

F.x. Dale Carnagies "How to Win Friends and Influence People", now personally I thought it was a boring read that was too long, but I've implemented a lot of principles, probably forgotten a lot of them too now lol. (And they did work)

Been reading almost every article on this blog too: https://www.succeedsocially.com/
It's pretty basic and anyone not autistic most likely wouldn't get that much out of it, but I am limited genetically and environmentally so I need the basics spelled out for me. He's written a book that's a lot more concise, I recommend it a lot.

"Improve Your Social Skills" is written by an autist too and I learned a lot.

There's a book on body language from a former FBI agent that was very good too.


Also, getting extremely hammered removes my autism and anxiety, and makes me way more social.

Bookmarked.

 

[Deleted member 19548]

I'd have to write essays upon essays of knowledge that I have barely tested myself.

I've just read a lot of books on it, some redpill, some normie.

F.x. Dale Carnagies "How to Win Friends and Influence People", now personally I thought it was a boring read that was too long, but I've implemented a lot of principles, probably forgotten a lot of them too now lol. (And they did work)

Been reading almost every article on this blog too: https://www.succeedsocially.com/
It's pretty basic and anyone not autistic most likely wouldn't get that much out of it, but I am limited genetically and environmentally so I need the basics spelled out for me. He's written a book that's a lot more concise, I recommend it a lot.

"Improve Your Social Skills" is written by an autist too and I learned a lot.

There's a book on body language from a former FBI agent that was very good too.


Also, getting extremely hammered removes my autism and anxiety, and makes me way more social.

dw brø think u can make friends throughout life if u are socially savvy enough keep working on it

 

[Deleted member 4430]

dw brø think u can make friends throughout life if u are socially savvy enough keep working on it

there is no hope for 23 yo mate

 

[Deleted member 19548]

there is no hope for 23 yo mate

cry for me and my girl colleagues

 

[Deleted member 4430]

cry for me and my girl colleagues

indeed i cry with laughter that they are disgusted by your overweight body and that you are a punching bag of their gossips behind your back, meanwhile you interpret it as ioi

 

[Deleted member 19548]

indeed i cry with laughter that they are disgusted by your overweight body and that you are a punching bag of their gossips behind your back, meanwhile you interpret it as ioi

seethe rupert u have never spoken to a girl since nursery

 

[BoneDensity]

I found that lowering my IQ made me significantly more social , easy going and NT

 

[Deleted member 16677]

I'm dead set on turning my life around. But fuck man it's gonna be hard mentally, physically and economically.

I'm gonna work and softmaxx for a year and then get the few surgeries I need, then I'll travel to some other countries and stay in hostels to maxx social skills.

I'll try creating a social circle meanwhile, but the problem is most people who should've been good candidates gave up on me a good while back because I was such a fucking loser that never even tried.

I’m in a similiar situation, good luck man. Will rope if things haven’t improved by the time I’m 22-23

 

[Pendejo]

I found that lowering my IQ made me significantly more social , easy going and NT

How do you lower your IQ?

 

[Danish_Retard]

Bookmarked.

Yet no reacts?

Also what has helped the most is to just spend 20 minutes every day writing down what I did wrong and right socially. Now, there's a lot of days I don't do this because I am not social, but when you are, it can be quite beneficial.

F.x. if you're better socially when drunk you can try to notice why and reflect on that. The problem with this is that when I get drunk, I get really drunk so I can't always remember everything.

I’m in a similiar situation, good luck man. Will rope if things haven’t improved by the time I’m 22-23

You don't need to be that hard on yourself brother. Self-compassion is the best thing I've ever learnt, ded srs. Beating yourself up over your failures will do you nothing.

And remember to set easy goals, watch this video about it.

I found that lowering my IQ made me significantly more social , easy going and NT

How do you lower your IQ?

alcol

 

[Harold O'brien]

why would you view yourself as a loser? just view yourself as a winner instead

 

[Danish_Retard]

why would you view yourself as a loser? just view yourself as a winner instead

I can't endure cognitive dissonance. That's also what made me blackpilled/redpilled despite growing up with a feminist single mother, entirely female teachers and no male role models. I couldn't endure the cognitive dissonance of losing 30kg and the clash of that experience with my beliefs so I became blackpilled.

 

[BoneDensity]

How do you lower your IQ?

Bonesmashing

 

[Harold O'brien]

I can't endure cognitive dissonance. That's also what made me blackpilled/redpilled despite growing up with a feminist single mother, entirely female teachers and no male role models. I couldn't endure the cognitive dissonance of losing 30kg so I became blackpilled.

easy solution: start acting like a winner

 

[Kristin]

This is a really good mindset, I need to adopt this mindset asap.

Ngl I used to have so many regrets but recently I’ve adopted this mindset and realized that I was just making the best decisions I could for myself at the time with no hindsight. Therefore the best option is to just learn and move on tbh.

 

[reborn]

Anyone else feel the same?

Of course with hindsight it's easy to see all your mistakes, but fuck man, I've turned down so many invitations, never invited anyone myself and I didn't looksmaxx for 1,5 years even after finding blackpill.

I've always been one to seek out knowledge before taking action, I finally did that with socialising and I'm realising just how much I've missed out on because of my lack of action, it's a lot easier to get a social circle than I thought.

'Then again, my actions then there decided by my previous experiences, it's only natural. Also I only think a small minority of previously abused dogs just suddenly turn their life around.

IDK what to do now tho, I think I'll reach out to some old acquaintances and friends and just see if I can recreate some social bonds...

I am a 40 year old virgin with a BMI of 40. Does that make you feel any better about yourself?

 

[Danish_Retard]

Does that make you feel any better about yourself?

Not really man tbh. If anything it makes me feel kind of bad for getting the chance to turn my life around at a young age.

Also, even if like 10% of the male population is worse off socially than me, that doesn't negate the 90% that has it better. I'd like to at least reach the median in social experience.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Anyone else feel the same?

Of course with hindsight it's easy to see all your mistakes, but fuck man, I've turned down so many invitations, never invited anyone myself and I didn't looksmaxx for 1,5 years even after finding blackpill.

I've always been one to seek out knowledge before taking action, I finally did that with socialising and I'm realising just how much I've missed out on because of my lack of action, it's a lot easier to get a social circle than I thought.

'Then again, my actions then there decided by my previous experiences, it's only natural. Also I only think a small minority of previously abused dogs just suddenly turn their life around.

IDK what to do now tho, I think I'll reach out to some old acquaintances and friends and just see if I can recreate some social bonds...

If you think about what if all day you will go insane.

I missed out on 20 grand this year alone by being one week off an investment now I'm in the hole 4 grand. It was partially my fault and part bad luck. All you can do is move forward if I remember correct you are 18-19 like me you have time to mend all these mistakes do not go quietly into that good night...