I've just been labelled as "enigmatic" by a female coworker in her 40s. Should I take this as a bad thing?

[Xangsane]

It's not the first time someone referred to me as having an "enigmatic personality". I wonder if this is a bad thing.

 

[Deleted member 19548]

it is a sexier version of quiet

 

[Xangsane]

it is a sexier version of quiet

Thing is, I'm not that eerily quiet. Introverted yes, but I do like having one-on-one conversations.

 

[LightSkinNoob]

This is an extreme sign that your non-NT, holy fuck brutal, this means your a weirdo

 

[Deleted member 15069]

I think it’s good because she just called you mysterious instead of weird.

 

[Xangsane]

This is an extreme sign that your non-NT, holy fuck brutal, this means your a weirdo

Huh? How? My coworker is really nice towards me...

 

[Xangsane]

I think it’s good because she just called you mysterious instead of weird.

Huh? How? My coworker is really nice towards me...

Is she making fun of me?

 

[Deleted member 15069]

Is she making fun of me?

Ask her if she wants to know more about you (since she thinks you’re so enigmatic JFL)

 

[Xangsane]

Ask her if she wants to know more about you (since she thinks you’re so enigmatic JFL)

I've worked with her for a few months now, and she always told me that I have a very unique personality and manner I communicate with the people who come to see me. She also told me that I put even the most unruly patients at ease, like they're in in a state of trance, that "many people here can't" and that I have a unique perspective on different things when we talk sometimes with other coworkers.

Huh?

 

[Deleted member 15069]

I've worked with her for a few months now, and she always told me that I have a very unique personality and manner I communicate with the people who come to see me. She also told me that I put even the most unruly patients at ease, like they're in in a state of trance, that "many people here can't".

Huh?

Guessing you work in healthcare

Ask her out mate. She doesn’t seem weirded out by you

 

[Xangsane]

Guessing you work in healthcare

Ask her out mate. She doesn’t seem weirded out by you

I do yes. It's been pretty calm this afternoon after a busy morning.

She's married

 

[Deleted member 15069]

I do yes. It's been pretty calm this afternoon after a busy morning.

She's married

She probably just likes you maybe not in a sexual way then. It’s a good sign she didn’t call you weird though JFL, means she thinks you’re good looking

 

[fauxfox]

You worry too much about insignificant things

 

[Xangsane]

She probably just likes you maybe not in a sexual way then. It’s a good sign she didn’t call you weird though JFL, means she thinks you’re good looking

I'm happy to hear it. I get treated very nicely by my female (mostly older) coworkers, just like the other guys who work here, but they like to initiate lots of conversations with me. These are mostly married women.

 

[Xangsane]

You worry too much about insignificant things

Maybe.

 

[Hueless]

She called u a school shooter but dw we can shoot up ur school anytime i got ur back

 

[Aesthetics_III]

this entire thread really puts in perspective how retarded and autistic this site truly is

 

[johncruz12345]

Good looking chada get called enigmatic.

Incels are called weirdos.

 

[currylightskin]

she wants your cock little boy

 

[the BULL]

no, that's the epitome of misteryous dark arab guy. if you really look close to your morphed pic i can see it happening

 

[Deleted member 17791]

Who cares what a 40 something old cow thinks? You mog her ass. Simple as.

 

[Xangsane]

She called u a school shooter but dw we can shoot up ur school anytime i got ur back

I'd never wish that to happen.

 

[Xangsane]

this entire thread really puts in perspective how retarded and autistic this site truly is

How?

 

[Xangsane]

Good looking chada get called enigmatic.

Incels are called weirdos.

See below, what do you think?

I'm happy to hear it. I get treated very nicely by my female (mostly older) coworkers, just like the other guys who work here, but they like to initiate lots of conversations with me. These are mostly married women.

 

[Xangsane]

she wants your cock little boy

I doubt it. She's being nice.

 

[Xangsane]

no, that's the epitome of misteryous dark arab guy. if you really look close to your morphed pic i can see it happening

See below. What do you think?

I'm happy to hear it. I get treated very nicely by my female (mostly older) coworkers, just like the other guys who work here, but they like to initiate lots of conversations with me. These are mostly married women.

I try to include the other guys in the conversations with these middle-aged co-workers but they get ignored by these women and I don't know why. They seem much more extroverted and NT than me too.

 

[Xangsane]

Who cares what a 40 something old cow thinks? You mog her ass. Simple as.

She's someone's mother...

 

[the BULL]

Who cares what a 40 something old cow thinks? You mog her ass. Simple as.

it really depends jfl if you fell for the all 30 yo + girls are ugly meme

 

[Xangsane]

it really depends jfl if you fell for the all 30 yo + girls are ugly meme

She's a normie south Asian becky, but is married with children.

 

[Deleted member 17791]

She's someone's mother...

and?

 

[Xangsane]

and?

Here, take a look at this. What do you think?

I'm happy to hear it. I get treated very nicely by my female (mostly older) coworkers, just like the other guys who work here, but they like to initiate lots of conversations with me. These are mostly married women.

See below. What do you think?

I try to include the other guys in the conversations with these middle-aged co-workers but they get ignored by these women and I don't know why. They seem much more extroverted and NT than me too.

She's a normie south Asian becky, but is married with children.

 

[Deleted member 17791]

She's a normie south Asian becky, but is married with children.

So my point stands. Why do you care about her opinion? She's not prime stacy.

 

[the BULL]

See below. What do you think?

I try to include the other guys in the conversations with these middle-aged co-workers but they get ignored by these women and I don't know why. They seem much more extroverted and NT than me too.

maybe they treat you as their kid?? you are funnier/chiller than your co-workers?? they're flirting with you?? what do i know, way too many variables

 

[Xangsane]

So my point stands. Why do you care about her opinion? She's not prime stacy.

I like to listen to many different points of view as long as they're not making others upset and they have good intentions.

 

[Xangsane]

maybe they treat you as their kid?? you are funnier/chiller than your co-workers?? they're flirting with you?? what do i know, way too many variables

It's weird because my other male coworkers are far more NT than me.

 

[currylightskin]

I doubt it. She's being nice.

She wants mogger Arab children

 

[Deleted member 17791]

I like to listen to many different points of view as long as they're not making others upset and they have good intentions.

Yeah but some have more weight to them.

 

[Xangsane]

She wants mogger Arab children

Here, have a read of this and tell me what you think.

Here, take a look at this. What do you think?

See this quote and look at the things attached to that post.

 

[the BULL]

It's weird because my other male coworkers are far more NT than me.

maybe there are inner groups?? maybe talking with someone your own age is more likely to be misunderstood as flirting??

 

[Xangsane]

maybe there are inner groups?? maybe talking with someone your own age is more likely to be misunderstood as flirting??

I do talk to people my age.

 

[Deleted member 17525]

It's not the first time someone referred to me as having an "enigmatic personality". I wonder if this is a bad thing.

Idk what that means but if a foid called me that I'd make it so awkward for her that she wouldn't say anything about me ever again

 

[Xangsane]

Idk what that means but if a foid called me that I'd make it so awkward for her that she wouldn't say anything about me ever again

Why?

 

[Gerardwayfan]

they probably suspect ur gay

 

[Xangsane]

they probably suspect ur gay

I'm not though

 

[Deleted member 17525]

Why?'

I believe that women came to this world from one of the Adams ribs and a rib and a human will never be equal therefore she needs to know her place

 

[Enfant terrible]

milf wants you

 

[OldRooster]

Mostly likely she was just vocabulary flexing. She read that word somewhere the day before, and was itching to use it. Solipsistic bitch.