Ive never had a best friend

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polonaecel

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All the friends ive gotten is through proximity and luck
Ive never met someone on my own and became friends with them
Im heavily socially impaired because i dont go outside and when i do i dont talk to anyone
When my parents used to make me go outside id just sit at a bench and do nothing
Adult life wont be much better
I imagine myself just drinking alone at my house or alone at a barstool
Im doomed to this life of subhumanity and its too late to fix
Nobody initiates conversations with me, ive never gotten close enough to someone to call them my best friend and i dont think i ever will, all my current friends are gonna leave school and never talk to me again and ill never be able to make friends as an adult
Its over man
 
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Same I’m never there n.1
 
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All the friends ive gotten is through proximity and luck
Ive never met someone on my own and became friends with them
Im heavily socially impaired because i dont go outside and when i do i dont talk to anyone
When my parents used to make me go outside id just sit at a bench and do nothing
Adult life wont be much better
I imagine myself just drinking alone at my house or alone at a barstool
Im doomed to this life of subhumanity and its too late to fix
Nobody initiates conversations with me, ive never gotten close enough to someone to call them my best friend and i dont think i ever will, all my current friends are gonna leave school and never talk to me again and ill never be able to make friends as an adult
Its over man
@Mr. Squarepants
 
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All the friends ive gotten is through proximity and luck
Ive never met someone on my own and became friends with them
Im heavily socially impaired because i dont go outside and when i do i dont talk to anyone
When my parents used to make me go outside id just sit at a bench and do nothing
Adult life wont be much better
I imagine myself just drinking alone at my house or alone at a barstool
Im doomed to this life of subhumanity and its too late to fix
Nobody initiates conversations with me, ive never gotten close enough to someone to call them my best friend and i dont think i ever will, all my current friends are gonna leave school and never talk to me again and ill never be able to make friends as an adult
Its over man
Can you truly say you’ve tried your best?
 
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All the friends ive gotten is through proximity and luck
Ive never met someone on my own and became friends with them
Im heavily socially impaired because i dont go outside and when i do i dont talk to anyone
When my parents used to make me go outside id just sit at a bench and do nothing
Adult life wont be much better
I imagine myself just drinking alone at my house or alone at a barstool
Im doomed to this life of subhumanity and its too late to fix
Nobody initiates conversations with me, ive never gotten close enough to someone to call them my best friend and i dont think i ever will, all my current friends are gonna leave school and never talk to me again and ill never be able to make friends as an adult
Its over man
Sorry to hear that bro
 
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Try to go to a bar where football die hards go to watch matches and drink beer if youre that low

They old but funny ash
 
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All the friends ive gotten is through proximity and luck
Ive never met someone on my own and became friends with them
Im heavily socially impaired because i dont go outside and when i do i dont talk to anyone
When my parents used to make me go outside id just sit at a bench and do nothing
Adult life wont be much better
I imagine myself just drinking alone at my house or alone at a barstool
Im doomed to this life of subhumanity and its too late to fix
Nobody initiates conversations with me, ive never gotten close enough to someone to call them my best friend and i dont think i ever will, all my current friends are gonna leave school and never talk to me again and ill never be able to make friends as an adult
Its over man
same bhai
 
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I tried once, i failed because my social skills are horrible
Like anything it needs to be trained

I empathise with you, becoming socially confident and calm is 10x harder than looksmaxxing, but at the end of the day it needs to be done.

SSRIs, drugs, forcing yourself, whatever it takes you have to try
 
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I've never even had a friend.
 
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Like anything it needs to be trained

I empathise with you, becoming socially confident and calm
Fucking kill yourself lmao
Bluepiller cope
“Just be confident brooooooo”
@Nectar @Mr. Squarepants @Jenson
 
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Fucking kill yourself lmao
Bluepiller cope
“Just be confident brooooooo”
@Nectar @Mr. Squarepants @Jenson
- Complains about being too socially impaired to make friends

- Told to use recreational drugs and SSRIs to become less socially impaired

- Sees the buzzword “confidence” and his caveman brain immediately flips

Honestly if you’re this retarded I don’t think it’s inhibition which makes you friendless
 
- Complains about being too socially impaired to make friends

- Told to use recreational drugs and SSRIs to become less socially impaired

- Sees the buzzword “confidence” and his caveman brain immediately flips

Honestly if you’re this retarded I don’t think it’s inhibition which makes you friendless
If i use drugs ill end up killing myself with them intentionally or not, also youre fucking retarded if you think “confidence” is enough to reverse years of social impairment paired with subhuman looks
Im unnaproachable and as for any social skills i couldve developed its too late
 
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If i use drugs ill end up killing myself with them intentionally or not, also youre fucking retarded if you think “confidence” is enough to reverse years of social impairment paired with subhuman looks
Im unnaproachable and as for any social skills i couldve developed its too late
When I say drugs I’m telling you to drink or smoke weed on occasions, not every damn day

And obviously I don’t think that, I’m literally in the same boat as you, but you have to do something, if you really think it’s “too late” to develop any social skills (keep in mind you’re probably under 18 jfl) then go ahead and enjoy a miserable life completely at your own will
 
I imagine myself just drinking alone at my house or alone at a barstool
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When I say drugs I’m telling you to drink or smoke weed on occasions, not every damn day

And obviously I don’t think that, I’m literally in the same boat as you, but you have to do something, if you really think it’s “too late” to develop any social skills (keep in mind you’re probably under 18 jfl) then go ahead and enjoy a miserable life completely at your own will
Lmao keep coping with drugs
Drugs wont make me any less subhuman
Even if i develop my social skills to a normal level ill still be ugly and unapproachable
 
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Lmao keep coping with drugs
Drugs wont make me any less subhuman
Even if i develop my social skills to a normal level ill still be ugly and unapproachable
Obviously not

You still need to ascend, the drugs are there to help mask your social inhibition

You don’t want to ascend, you don’t want to use any method to improve/mask your social impairedness, so enjoy LDARing the rest of your life.

I mean seriously, you make a post complaining about this shit but reject all kinds of advice to help you. I think you need to just shut the fuck up and work on yourself already
 
That's life son.
It's not a fairytale
 
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Im aware life sucks, but you’d think mist people have a best friend or at least a friend who talks to them
You can make friends, even autists or social outcasts have friends they usually just gravitate naturally to people the same as them.
Or just get a dog
 
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Obviously not

You still need to ascend, the drugs are there to help mask your social inhibition

You don’t want to ascend, you don’t want to use any method to improve/mask your social impairedness, so enjoy LDARing the rest of your life.

I mean seriously, you make a post complaining about this shit but reject all kinds of advice to help you. I think you need to just shut the fuck up and work on yourself already
Just LOL if you think im capable of working on myself
Years of bullying and LDARing cant be undone because an incel told me to work on myself
I have so little motivation my parents think im anorexic because i wont get up and make food for myself
This cant just be undone in a day week or month
All of this is because somewhere during my childhood i failed to connect with people
 
You can make friends, even autists or social outcasts have friends they usually just gravitate naturally to people the same as them.
Or just get a dog
I have a cat which doesnt like me, also i dont really talk to anyone or go outside and when i do i never initiate conversations
 
I have a cat which doesnt like me, also i dont really talk to anyone or go outside and when i do i never initiate conversations
Well yeah you're not gonna make a friend if you say nothing or sit at home all day. That's water.
 
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Well yeah you're not gonna make a friend if you say nothing or sit at home all day. That's water.
Yeah and do you think its easy to make a friend after years of doing that?
 
Just LOL if you think im capable of working on myself
Years of bullying and LDARing cant be undone because an incel told me to work on myself
I have so little motivation my parents think im anorexic because i wont get up and make food for myself
This cant just be undone in a day week or month
All of this is because somewhere during my childhood i failed to connect with people
I don’t think you understand how similar the lives we are living truly are

What will separate us is the effort I made and the effort you didn’t. You can call it anything you want but in the end you’re just lazy.

I can help you further in PMs if you wish, but if you truly have no desire to chase a better life and to jump on the pursuit of happiness, then it really is over for you
 
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I don’t think you understand how similar the lives we are living truly are

What will separate us is the effort I made and the effort you didn’t. You can call it anything you want but in the end you’re just lazy.

I can help you further in PMs if you wish, but if you truly have no desire to chase a better life and to jump on the pursuit of happiness, then it really is over for you
Laziness is what is slowly killing me
You cant expect me to just instantly change and make an effort after years and years of laziness
My mindset is so fucked i cant get anything except school stuff done
Yes, im lazy because thats what i doomed myself too by not interacting socially with others enough as a kid
And my mindset wont change, it never will it truly is over
I appreciate the offer but ill never be able to better myself
I made this post to vent about my struggles not ask for advice
However i commend you for managing to make a change
 
Laziness is what is slowly killing me
You cant expect me to just instantly change and make an effort after years and years of laziness
My mindset is so fucked i cant get anything except school stuff done
Yes, im lazy because thats what i doomed myself too by not interacting socially with others enough as a kid
And my mindset wont change, it never will it truly is over
I appreciate the offer but ill never be able to better myself
I made this post to vent about my struggles not ask for advice
However i commend you for managing to make a change
I haven’t actually changed yet, I’m in the process, but all I know is I’d rather suffer making an effort, even if it ends up futile, than go back to how I was suffering before

Don’t give up hope so early, you’re still a teen
 
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All the friends ive gotten is through proximity and luck
Ive never met someone on my own and became friends with them
Im heavily socially impaired because i dont go outside and when i do i dont talk to anyone
When my parents used to make me go outside id just sit at a bench and do nothing
Adult life wont be much better
I imagine myself just drinking alone at my house or alone at a barstool
Im doomed to this life of subhumanity and its too late to fix
Nobody initiates conversations with me, ive never gotten close enough to someone to call them my best friend and i dont think i ever will, all my current friends are gonna leave school and never talk to me again and ill never be able to make friends as an adult
Its over man
Gym is a good place to find friends
Sounds dumb but worked for me
 
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You shouldnt try to adjust your social skills for an actual friendship. They should accept you for who you are and you should feel peaceful with them
 
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