I've noticed guys who experience very long spells become asexual

[Jason Voorhees]

I've noticed in long-term incel/virginity spells guys who go years or decades without any action often end up in this weird asexual like state where libido just tanks or feels irrelevant not true asexuality which is innate lack of attraction, but more like a defensive shutdown. constant rejection, frustration, and blue balling wears down the drive until porn barely does anything, fantasies fade and the whole "need" for sex becomes numb or burdensome. Hormones might still be there but psychologically the brain adapts by downregulating desire to avoid the pain of wanting something that never comes it's a coping mechanism, like emotional calluses.

 

[mcmentalonthemic]

Meanwhile @Skitsuna who became gay

I disagree tbh, I notice them becoming EXTREMELY pussy hungry, would kill their mother for pussy, it's brutal

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Acquiescence @davidlaidisme67 @ltnbrownacnecel

 

[Blackpillirony]

I've noticed in long-term incel/virginity spells guys who go years or decades without any action often end up in this weird asexual like state where libido just tanks or feels irrelevant not true asexuality which is innate lack of attraction, but more like a defensive shutdown. constant rejection, frustration, and blue balling wears down the drive until porn barely does anything, fantasies fade and the whole "need" for sex becomes numb or burdensome. Hormones might still be there but psychologically the brain adapts by downregulating desire to avoid the pain of wanting something that never comes it's a coping mechanism, like emotional calluses.

Sexual suicide, our animalistic goal is to reproduce and pass down our genes. If one can't he's just condemned to jerking off and not feel anything for anyone

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@imontheloose @Klasik616 @Beastimmung

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[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

I had this when I was younger but after talking to girls and jerking off again to nudes my brain went crazy and I would jerk off in public and cum ropes 7x a day until I couldn't sit down

I feel like hormones are to weird to say anything definitive about it

 

[HundredManSlayer]

this might be happening to me right now

 

[kash Register]

I've noticed in long-term incel/virginity spells guys who go years or decades without any action often end up in this weird asexual like state where libido just tanks or feels irrelevant not true asexuality which is innate lack of attraction, but more like a defensive shutdown. constant rejection, frustration, and blue balling wears down the drive until porn barely does anything, fantasies fade and the whole "need" for sex becomes numb or burdensome. Hormones might still be there but psychologically the brain adapts by downregulating desire to avoid the pain of wanting something that never comes it's a coping mechanism, like emotional calluses.

i had a friend lke this but he turned into a fag

 

[davidlaidisme67]

I've noticed in long-term incel/virginity spells guys who go years or decades without any action often end up in this weird asexual like state where libido just tanks or feels irrelevant not true asexuality which is innate lack of attraction, but more like a defensive shutdown. constant rejection, frustration, and blue balling wears down the drive until porn barely does anything, fantasies fade and the whole "need" for sex becomes numb or burdensome. Hormones might still be there but psychologically the brain adapts by downregulating desire to avoid the pain of wanting something that never comes it's a coping mechanism, like emotional calluses.

You literally become so defeated that your brain is like what even is the point of creating your libido when there’s no way for you to even lose your virginity

 

[Luquier]

I've noticed in long-term incel/virginity spells guys who go years or decades without any action often end up in this weird asexual like state where libido just tanks or feels irrelevant not true asexuality which is innate lack of attraction, but more like a defensive shutdown. constant rejection, frustration, and blue balling wears down the drive until porn barely does anything, fantasies fade and the whole "need" for sex becomes numb or burdensome. Hormones might still be there but psychologically the brain adapts by downregulating desire to avoid the pain of wanting something that never comes it's a coping mechanism, like emotional calluses.

I mean I still get horny and jerk off

But I don’t rlly understand why other males care so much about getting laid. It’s not that important tbh

 

[Jason Voorhees]

You literally become so defeated that your brain is like what even is the point of creating your libido when there’s no way for you to even lose your virginity

this might be happening to me right now

I've read some stories on reddit about guys report feeling "post sexual" after 5-10+ years or a dry relief from the constant horniness torment but also emptiness, like part of being a man got erased

 

[Jason Voorhees]

I mean I still get horny and jerk off

But I don’t rlly understand why other males care so much about getting laid. It’s not that important tbh

I don't think sex is all that either i even made a thread about it but that doesn't change the fact that women and even men to a good extent use the mate choices of other women as a heuristic to help determine a guys worth. if you're a virgin after a certain age it's probably because tons of women rejected you which means there's probably something wrong with you.

 

[Incelforeever]

Getting there

 

[Luquier]

I had this when I was younger but after talking to girls and jerking off again to nudes my brain went crazy and I would jerk off in public and cum ropes 7x a day until I couldn't sit down

I feel like hormones are to weird to say anything definitive about it

That’s true as well

Talking to girls again will overstimulate you

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Getting there

WHat happened to your looksmaxing and getting a gf and shit.

 

[Luquier]

I don't think sex is all that either i even made a thread about it but that doesn't change the fact that women and even men to a good extent use the mate choices of other women as a heuristic to help determine a guys worth. if you're a virgin after a certain age it's probably because tons of women rejected you which means there's probably something wrong with you.

I’ve never approached a woman before

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

That’s true as well

Talking to girls again will overstimulate you

Yeah but like barely at the time like asking for directions or small talk with a cashier

 

[Luquier]

Yeah but like barely at the time like asking for directions or small talk with a cashier

Yep, dry spells make you really delusional

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

fr our brains love to go into autopilot and stick to previous behaviour

with sexuality it seems to be the same thing

 

[Outlander]

I'm a KHHV in my 20s and I've yet to see a decrease in libido. Still often jack off 4+ times a day and can do 7 or so if I really want to. In all seriousness having a high libido when you don't have access to real women is just torture

 

[tarkdriad33]

They usually turn gay, happens in prison aswell

 

[Incelforeever]

WHat happened to your looksmaxing and getting a gf and shit.

“Incelforeever”

 

[Jason Voorhees]

I'm a KHHV in my 20s and I've yet to see a decrease in libido. Still often jack off 4+ times a day and can do 7 or so if I really want to. In all seriousness having a high libido when you don't have access to real women is just torture

Have you considered losing it to an escort?

 

[Outlander]

Have you considered losing it to an escort?

Yes but I decided it wasn't worth giving my hard earned money to a whore who doesn't even put any effort in to get it. Not to mention the std risk is real and I don't think it would make me feel much better psychologically since it's fake and not real desire. Might even make me feel worse idk

 

[tarkdriad33]

Yes but I decided it wasn't worth giving my hard earned money to a whore who doesn't even put any effort in to get it. Not to mention the std risk is real and I don't think it would make me feel much better psychologically since it's fake and not real desire. Might even make me feel worse idk

There wont be real desire either way, unless youre good looking

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Yes but I decided it wasn't worth giving my hard earned money to a whore who doesn't even put any effort in to get it. Not to mention the std risk is real and I don't think it would make me feel much better psychologically since it's fake and not real desire. Might even make me feel worse idk

I think it would be a low effort reset button. It breaks the mental barrier of never been inside a woman gets the first time anxiety out of the way in a controlled setting, not saying it is ideal but it's a pragmatic exit ramp from the virginity prison for guys who are stuck and tired of rotting. People are different but even if you ascended fucking random women isn't going to be very validating or fulfilling either imo. You should aim for an LTR with a woman you have genuine feelings for ideally

 

[Deleted member 136057]

I've noticed in long-term incel/virginity spells guys who go years or decades without any action often end up in this weird asexual like state where libido just tanks or feels irrelevant not true asexuality which is innate lack of attraction, but more like a defensive shutdown. constant rejection, frustration, and blue balling wears down the drive until porn barely does anything, fantasies fade and the whole "need" for sex becomes numb or burdensome. Hormones might still be there but psychologically the brain adapts by downregulating desire to avoid the pain of wanting something that never comes it's a coping mechanism, like emotional calluses.

I lowkey see this happening to me rn and im 19

In 5 years ill probably be asexual if i dont even sniff pussy

 

[Outlander]

I think it would be a low effort reset button. It breaks the mental barrier of never been inside a woman gets the first time anxiety out of the way in a controlled setting, not saying it is ideal but it's a pragmatic exit ramp from the virginity prison for guys who are stuck and tired of rotting. People are different but even if you ascended fucking random women isn't going to be very validating or fulfilling either imo. You should aim for an LTR with a woman you have genuine feelings for ideally

Mostly agree here

 

[brotato78]

this might be happening to me right now

Same bro

I even had googled it couple days ago to see what it was abt

 

[imontheloose]

@imontheloose @Klasik616 @Beastimmung

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May as well have used me as an example

 

[clock]

I've noticed in long-term incel/virginity spells guys who go years or decades without any action often end up in this weird asexual like state where libido just tanks or feels irrelevant not true asexuality which is innate lack of attraction, but more like a defensive shutdown. constant rejection, frustration, and blue balling wears down the drive until porn barely does anything, fantasies fade and the whole "need" for sex becomes numb or burdensome. Hormones might still be there but psychologically the brain adapts by downregulating desire to avoid the pain of wanting something that never comes it's a coping mechanism, like emotional calluses.

These are the same type of mfs that fall for the pred catch videos too. They get to a point like this then get baited in by a girl that looks like she’s 20 but claims to be 14. Then they ofc keep texting her because they just need to experience it. It’s a sad and dark hole to fall into, it’s so overlooked.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

I've noticed in long-term incel/virginity spells guys who go years or decades without any action often end up in this weird asexual like state where libido just tanks or feels irrelevant not true asexuality which is innate lack of attraction, but more like a defensive shutdown. constant rejection, frustration, and blue balling wears down the drive until porn barely does anything, fantasies fade and the whole "need" for sex becomes numb or burdensome. Hormones might still be there but psychologically the brain adapts by downregulating desire to avoid the pain of wanting something that never comes it's a coping mechanism, like emotional calluses.

I’m asexual as well but I goon a lot also. It’s not a coping mechanism for me, I’ve always been this way.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

May as well have used me as an example

Do you have this too? I thought you wanted a cupcake

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Bump

 

[imontheloose]

Do you have this too? I thought you wanted a cupcake

Don’t like sex anymore. Thing of the past now. My cupcake and I would not partake in it. I honestly don’t imagine myself entering a relationship much. I don’t really like the affection side anymore

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Don’t like sex anymore. Thing of the past now. My cupcake and I would not partake in it. I honestly don’t imagine myself entering a relationship much. I don’t really like the affection side anymore

What do you want then? Why are you getting surgeries? The main motivation for me had always been a loving secure LTR

 

[imontheloose]

What do you want then? Why are you getting surgeries? The main motivation for me had always been a loving secure LTR

BDD after pretty much a decade of this

 

[Yliaster]

As long as Men have Testosterone surging through our Bodies its almost impossible to become Asexual.
Another user in the comments said something which I agree with that most men ultimately will just resort
to masturbation in order to scratch their itch but with the result being that overtime you are going to become
numb and alienated from your Humanity.

Further evidence of this are those guys who become obsessed with Hentai/Waifus to the point of almost attaching
their identities to these fictional characters due to becoming soo alienated from their female sexual counterparts

 

[emo-ogre666]

I definitely agree but I think its more of a phase then an actual state that does not go away. For me I did not even get turned on to porn, or care about slaying anymore for a couple weeks; then it comes back.

 

[donpuro]

loving secure LTR

really nigga

doesn’t exist btw

 

[Jason Voorhees]

really nigga

doesn’t exist btw

I found a cute gf that loves me

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Bump

 

[Acquiescence]

MSTOW maxxing is a survival mechanism

 

[L1mbal]

I've noticed in long-term incel/virginity spells guys who go years or decades without any action often end up in this weird asexual like state where libido just tanks or feels irrelevant not true asexuality which is innate lack of attraction, but more like a defensive shutdown. constant rejection, frustration, and blue balling wears down the drive until porn barely does anything, fantasies fade and the whole "need" for sex becomes numb or burdensome. Hormones might still be there but psychologically the brain adapts by downregulating desire to avoid the pain of wanting something that never comes it's a coping mechanism, like emotional calluses.

I mean i slay but im still a v and i have started to not like sex that much, like not like its a need for life, i just like kisses and hugs

 

[Leevi]

I've noticed in long-term incel/virginity spells guys who go years or decades without any action often end up in this weird asexual like state where libido just tanks or feels irrelevant not true asexuality which is innate lack of attraction, but more like a defensive shutdown. constant rejection, frustration, and blue balling wears down the drive until porn barely does anything, fantasies fade and the whole "need" for sex becomes numb or burdensome. Hormones might still be there but psychologically the brain adapts by downregulating desire to avoid the pain of wanting something that never comes it's a coping mechanism, like emotional calluses.

thats side effects of being indian.

 

[Kurdishcoper]

i was in this kind of state for around a month or two before after a really disgusting experience which i will not talk about to anyone and so i just stopped masturbating or having any sexual thoughts until i accidentally saw porn on my phone and that retriggered my desires

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

I've noticed in long-term incel/virginity spells guys who go years or decades without any action often end up in this weird asexual like state where libido just tanks or feels irrelevant not true asexuality which is innate lack of attraction, but more like a defensive shutdown. constant rejection, frustration, and blue balling wears down the drive until porn barely does anything, fantasies fade and the whole "need" for sex becomes numb or burdensome. Hormones might still be there but psychologically the brain adapts by downregulating desire to avoid the pain of wanting something that never comes it's a coping mechanism, like emotional calluses.

How can I achieve this state. Haven’t had sex in 5 years I demand this at once

I’m done, I don’t want any sexual attr or desire I’m completely done I’ll never get it anyways I’m too poor to move my location so ima die alone here and at this point idc. I’ll prob end up as a cuck marrying or dating a ugly whore who cheats on me but I’ll put up with it cos I know it’s either that or inceldom

So how can I sign up to this

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

I'm a KHHV in my 20s and I've yet to see a decrease in libido. Still often jack off 4+ times a day and can do 7 or so if I really want to. In all seriousness having a high libido when you don't have access to real women is just torture

I relate man it’s hell on earth

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

i was in this kind of state for around a month or two before after a really disgusting experience which i will not talk about to anyone and so i just stopped masturbating or having any sexual thoughts until i accidentally saw porn on my phone and that retriggered my desires

I went here as well for 2 months last year

Forgotten when but I lost all desire and attr to women I was happy tbh for once I was FREEEE. Then unfortunately I forgotten how but it all came back

 

[Kurdishcoper]

I went here as well for 2 months last year

Forgotten when but I lost all desire and attr to women I was happy tbh for once I was FREEEE. Then unfortunately I forgotten how but it all came back

yes it really did feel great for some time, basically felt like my dick and balls had been cut off lol