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I've come to my own conclusion that slaying is completely pointless, draining, and a gigantic waste of time. Why should I constantly seek validation through sex? If you slay for validation it says a lot about your self-worth, how you view yourself and others. And that's what slaying is; to fill in the hole and gap of validation one desprately desires. You see this mentality with whores thus the trivial phrase "Women lack respect/self-worth for themselves nowadays." If you feel like you need to say you obviously lacked some sort of validation as a child or during puberty.
For me it was realizing that all my friends were having sex and in highschool and all of a sudden I started caring about something(my virginity) I really didnt need to care about in the first place. I wanted to feel validated because I didnt have anything else that could validate me. I didnt care for sex, sure I got horny but I rubbed one out, sex was the last thing on my mind.
Let me get some things straight, its normal to yearn for a lover's touch and affection and acceptance - to slay and actively try to have sex with as many women as possible is not normal. The key word is actively. Real chads dont actively seek for many partners, real men have sex soley for bonding/procreation with their partner.
Slaying is a gigantic waste of time, if you really just wanted to bust a nut you'd rub one out but no, you seek the validarion you desprately crave; slaying isnt the healthiest option for this. Spend your time and energy on more productive things like making more money, reading books and hobbies those are more worthwhile.
thats all. If you read it all I aplaud you.
For me it was realizing that all my friends were having sex and in highschool and all of a sudden I started caring about something(my virginity) I really didnt need to care about in the first place. I wanted to feel validated because I didnt have anything else that could validate me. I didnt care for sex, sure I got horny but I rubbed one out, sex was the last thing on my mind.
Let me get some things straight, its normal to yearn for a lover's touch and affection and acceptance - to slay and actively try to have sex with as many women as possible is not normal. The key word is actively. Real chads dont actively seek for many partners, real men have sex soley for bonding/procreation with their partner.
Slaying is a gigantic waste of time, if you really just wanted to bust a nut you'd rub one out but no, you seek the validarion you desprately crave; slaying isnt the healthiest option for this. Spend your time and energy on more productive things like making more money, reading books and hobbies those are more worthwhile.
thats all. If you read it all I aplaud you.
