SecularIslamist
𝕯𝖝𝕯 intersectional feminist and Islamist jihadi
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Oneitises, ex-gf, crushes, classmates, former colleagues.... There have been so many people I know that I once considered maybe I had a chance with. Now I am seeing them all grow up. Get married. Have children. Descend.
It's truly a bittersweet feeling. Social media has been such a bad invention for humanity. Back in the 90s or even 2000s without the internet capturing every moment people just said bye and that was that.
It would have been better if I saw my oneitis on the last day at school (approx 9:40am Thursday 16th May 2013).
Instead, Ive been seeing every update, profile change, liked post, even stalked her friends hoping to get an update. I did this for years. I don't do this anymore. But the memory of it made me immobile and had long lasting consequences.
It's truly a bittersweet feeling. Social media has been such a bad invention for humanity. Back in the 90s or even 2000s without the internet capturing every moment people just said bye and that was that.
It would have been better if I saw my oneitis on the last day at school (approx 9:40am Thursday 16th May 2013).
Instead, Ive been seeing every update, profile change, liked post, even stalked her friends hoping to get an update. I did this for years. I don't do this anymore. But the memory of it made me immobile and had long lasting consequences.