"Jealous Ex sent current BF videos of us having sex"

[Giorgio]

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I have posted this on relationship advice with very little response, honestly this is probably the better place for this.
Me (F28) and my BF (M28) have been dating for a little over 2 years now. Things up until recently have been amazing. He’s attractive, confident, funny, super attentive of me and my needs, makes me feel beautiful every second I’m with him, and (because this matters on this issue) is amazing in bed like eyes rolling to the back of my head amazing.
About 2 months ago my ex, who I broke up with on very poor terms, found my current BF’s socials (I’ve had him blocked on everything of mine since our split) and sent him 5 videos we had made during our time together of us having sex. When he had let me know about what my ex had done later that night I was down right embarrassed and was filled with rage at this sorry excuse for a man I call my ex. But in further discussing things with my boyfriend I could sense something was off about him, for the first time since I’ve met him it felt like there was a crack in his armor. No matter how many times that night he told me he was fine and that this wasn’t getting to him I could see discomfort in his eyes. In the 2 months since this has happened sex has slowed down quite a bit for us (we were sleeping together 5-6 a week only have had sex twice since the incident). In those 2 times we had since I can feel the anxious energy permeating off him. His whole demeanor when being intimate has changed since that day.
Watching the videos it is incredibly obvious to see my ex is very well endowed. My current boyfriend is average in this department but like I said the sex has been downright otherworldly with him and I wouldn’t change anything about him. I don’t know if it is my ex’s size effecting him as much as the way I acted towards my ex and what I was wearing in the videos. My ex had/has a real kink for being praised and so through out all the videos I’m telling him how great his big dick is, how no body can fuck me like he can(this turned out to be a big lie!), etc all while wearing a collar and leash or some other kink related outfit.
I don’t know how to approach this with out coming off as the girlfriend just saying things to make her boyfriend feel better. In researching how to approach this I have read that situations like this can be one of the most crushing things to man’s self confidence and esteem and even being approached on the subject by their SO can be a anxious nightmare for them. How should I go about this? What should I say/do to reassure him? This man is the love of my life and the person I hope to build a family and life with I just want help him get out of this funk.

- ex with a bigger dick

- she was with him younger

- she did acts for him she would never do for her BF

- she displayed far stronger attraction to her ex than to her BF, never even praising current bf for the sex

- she says h bf was a "sociopathic asshole" so we all know who dumped who, classic case of a bad boy chad

- her "attempts to save the relationship" seem more like attempts to not let her beta get away

thoughts? Is it even possible to find a relationship where this has not happened (but without you knowing since getting sent the video evidence is rare)?

another case of it being over because her current BF was not a perfect perfect chad throughout his entire life

 

[Ken]

BRUTAL. This is why I cant take non-virgin females seriously.

 

[MoggerGaston]

This is why you only LTR jb-virgins.

 

[ElySioNs]

The bf should just send him a video fucking the gf and having her scream his name and how much she loves him, how hes the best partner shes had

 

[Ken]

The bf should just send him a video fucking the gf and having her scream his name and how much she loves him, how hes the best partner shes had

I doubt he would care. He got to have sex with her when she was younger and hotter. That would give him the validation of knowing it affected their relationship.

 

[ElySioNs]

I doubt he would care. He got to have sex with her when she was younger and hotter. That would give him the validation of knowing it affected their relationship.

Tbh on second thought, he should just ignore it because he does give the ex the feeling that he affected his emotions to the point he felt like he had to respond back, hes probably fucked mentally but its all in his head

 

[Giorgio]

The bf should just send him a video fucking the gf and having her scream his name and how much she loves him, how hes the best partner shes had

obviously it's a AF/BB type of a situation, why would the current BF care if he mogged him?

and she never acted like that towards the BF, I think that's the biggest problem

 

[Tusseleif]

Now the current bf see her for the whore she is. It’s over for men that he didn’t outright dump her immediately after seeing the vids, but beta cucks usually don’t do that

 

[Giorgio]

Now the current bf see her for the whore she is. It’s over for men that he didn’t outright dump her immediately after seeing the vids, but beta cucks usually don’t do that

being a whore for your partner is not bad, but being a whore for random men and then giving your guy far less sexually is what is a problem

every guy wants a women that is a whore, but just for him

 

[Trilogy]

I swear I've seen this posted on r/relationshipadvice before JFL

 

[Giorgio]

I swear I've seen this posted on r/relationshipadvice before JFL

don't you think this is a rather common situation in today's age?

even if this was a LARP, this is happening a lot, and even more cases where the woman does not get exposed
dare I say almost every woman to some degree engages in this behavior

 

[MoggerGaston]

I doubt he would care. He got to have sex with her when she was younger and hotter. That would give him the validation of knowing it affected their relationship.

Only power-move would've been to reply to him right away that he's fucking the girl he's still thinking about 3 years later like the little incel bitch he is. And then block him.

And then start finding a replacemnt for his girlfriend since the girl is a useless whore. Zoning out of the relationship and starting to cheat on her untill you find a decent fwb and it makes more sense to just break-up all together.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Now the current bf see her for the whore she is. It’s over for men that he didn’t outright dump her immediately after seeing the vids, but beta cucks usually don’t do that

It's best to start cheating on her and finding a replacement fwb/gf before ditching her tbh.

 

[Giorgio]

Only power-move would've been to reply to him right away that he's fucking the girl he's still thinking about 3 years later like the little incel bitch he is. And then block him.

And then start finding a replacemnt for his girlfriend since the girl is a useless whore. Zoning out of the relationship and starting to cheat on her untill you find a decent fwb and it makes more sense to just break-up all together.

except the EX is not the incel bitch but the current BF is

and most likely the BF can't "just get" a fwb, and then the would be running into the same problem but with a different girl
how many women do you think there are that did not get pumped and dumped by chad when younger?

this is the reason why I posted the thread - basically if you're an average guy (a sub chad, in any sense), you will almost always be getting cucked to some degree

it's not a situation specific problem, it's a problem with the male life experience

 

[BoneDensity]

Only power-move would've been to reply to him right away that he's fucking the girl he's still thinking about 3 years later like the little incel bitch he is. And then block him.

And then start finding a replacemnt for his girlfriend since the girl is a useless whore. Zoning out of the relationship and starting to cheat on her untill you find a decent fwb and it makes more sense to just break-up all together.

darktriad badboy, mirin

 

[MoggerGaston]

except the EX is not the incel bitch but the current BF is

Not true. The ex is obviously mentally ill and struggling. A chad wouldn't be thinking about some girl 3 years later to the point he starts sending old porn to her new boyfriend lol.

and most likely the BF can't "just get" a fwb, and then the would be running into the same problem but with a different girl
how many women do you think there are that did not get pumped and dumped by chad when younger?

Ye obviously it's going to be hard. But staying with the current girl is no option.

this is the reason why I posted the thread - basically if you're an average guy (a sub chad, in any sense), you will almost always be getting cucked to some degree

Yeah which is why u need to run numbers game. And not be loyal to some average girl (whore).

it's not a situation specific problem, it's a problem with the male life experience

Adapt

 

[AspiringMogger]

Spoiler: Text

I have posted this on relationship advice with very little response, honestly this is probably the better place for this.
Me (F28) and my BF (M28) have been dating for a little over 2 years now. Things up until recently have been amazing. He’s attractive, confident, funny, super attentive of me and my needs, makes me feel beautiful every second I’m with him, and (because this matters on this issue) is amazing in bed like eyes rolling to the back of my head amazing.
About 2 months ago my ex, who I broke up with on very poor terms, found my current BF’s socials (I’ve had him blocked on everything of mine since our split) and sent him 5 videos we had made during our time together of us having sex. When he had let me know about what my ex had done later that night I was down right embarrassed and was filled with rage at this sorry excuse for a man I call my ex. But in further discussing things with my boyfriend I could sense something was off about him, for the first time since I’ve met him it felt like there was a crack in his armor. No matter how many times that night he told me he was fine and that this wasn’t getting to him I could see discomfort in his eyes. In the 2 months since this has happened sex has slowed down quite a bit for us (we were sleeping together 5-6 a week only have had sex twice since the incident). In those 2 times we had since I can feel the anxious energy permeating off him. His whole demeanor when being intimate has changed since that day.
Watching the videos it is incredibly obvious to see my ex is very well endowed. My current boyfriend is average in this department but like I said the sex has been downright otherworldly with him and I wouldn’t change anything about him. I don’t know if it is my ex’s size effecting him as much as the way I acted towards my ex and what I was wearing in the videos. My ex had/has a real kink for being praised and so through out all the videos I’m telling him how great his big dick is, how no body can fuck me like he can(this turned out to be a big lie!), etc all while wearing a collar and leash or some other kink related outfit.
I don’t know how to approach this with out coming off as the girlfriend just saying things to make her boyfriend feel better. In researching how to approach this I have read that situations like this can be one of the most crushing things to man’s self confidence and esteem and even being approached on the subject by their SO can be a anxious nightmare for them. How should I go about this? What should I say/do to reassure him? This man is the love of my life and the person I hope to build a family and life with I just want help him get out of this funk.

- ex with a bigger dick

- she was with him younger

- she did acts for him she would never do for her BF

- she displayed far stronger attraction to her ex than to her BF, never even praising current bf for the sex

- she says h bf was a "sociopathic asshole" so we all know who dumped who, classic case of a bad boy chad

- her "attempts to save the relationship" seem more like attempts to not let her beta get away

thoughts? Is it even possible to find a relationship where this has not happened (but without you knowing since getting sent the video evidence is rare)?

another case of it being over because her current BF was not a perfect perfect chad throughout his entire life

Nigga had her acting like a pornstar and the new boyfriend never had that experience with her. What cement this is the fact that his dick is bigger. He legit got mogged by the ex and the girlfriend positively reinforced the mogging (by being loud in the videos).

I’m Ngl I feel bad for the boyfriend but there is no way to recover from this. He gotta cut ties unfortunately.

 

[futuregigamogger]

every guy wants a women that is a whore, but just for him

this.

 

[itisoverboyos]

This is why you only LTR jb-virgins.

How to find virgins? And what if they just lie, get hymen repair surgery, etc.? Absolutely brutal if u assume she’s virgin, marry, then turns out it’s a fraud. I’d rather just know tbh

 

[StOverBuddyBoyos]

What a fucking joke this world is, even if you ascend you will always be held back by her past. Fuck this gay ass faggot earth

 

[Deleted member 19174]

Over for that nigga. Somebody send him a bathmate asap

 

[NFA PB]

he pulled a @quemirasmanv2

 

[x052xxxx52111111]

Spoiler: Text

I have posted this on relationship advice with very little response, honestly this is probably the better place for this.
Me (F28) and my BF (M28) have been dating for a little over 2 years now. Things up until recently have been amazing. He’s attractive, confident, funny, super attentive of me and my needs, makes me feel beautiful every second I’m with him, and (because this matters on this issue) is amazing in bed like eyes rolling to the back of my head amazing.
About 2 months ago my ex, who I broke up with on very poor terms, found my current BF’s socials (I’ve had him blocked on everything of mine since our split) and sent him 5 videos we had made during our time together of us having sex. When he had let me know about what my ex had done later that night I was down right embarrassed and was filled with rage at this sorry excuse for a man I call my ex. But in further discussing things with my boyfriend I could sense something was off about him, for the first time since I’ve met him it felt like there was a crack in his armor. No matter how many times that night he told me he was fine and that this wasn’t getting to him I could see discomfort in his eyes. In the 2 months since this has happened sex has slowed down quite a bit for us (we were sleeping together 5-6 a week only have had sex twice since the incident). In those 2 times we had since I can feel the anxious energy permeating off him. His whole demeanor when being intimate has changed since that day.
Watching the videos it is incredibly obvious to see my ex is very well endowed. My current boyfriend is average in this department but like I said the sex has been downright otherworldly with him and I wouldn’t change anything about him. I don’t know if it is my ex’s size effecting him as much as the way I acted towards my ex and what I was wearing in the videos. My ex had/has a real kink for being praised and so through out all the videos I’m telling him how great his big dick is, how no body can fuck me like he can(this turned out to be a big lie!), etc all while wearing a collar and leash or some other kink related outfit.
I don’t know how to approach this with out coming off as the girlfriend just saying things to make her boyfriend feel better. In researching how to approach this I have read that situations like this can be one of the most crushing things to man’s self confidence and esteem and even being approached on the subject by their SO can be a anxious nightmare for them. How should I go about this? What should I say/do to reassure him? This man is the love of my life and the person I hope to build a family and life with I just want help him get out of this funk.

- ex with a bigger dick

- she was with him younger

- she did acts for him she would never do for her BF

- she displayed far stronger attraction to her ex than to her BF, never even praising current bf for the sex

- she says h bf was a "sociopathic asshole" so we all know who dumped who, classic case of a bad boy chad

- her "attempts to save the relationship" seem more like attempts to not let her beta get away

thoughts? Is it even possible to find a relationship where this has not happened (but without you knowing since getting sent the video evidence is rare)?

another case of it being over because her current BF was not a perfect perfect chad throughout his entire life

Unbelievably brutal. I would never recover tbh. Glad my dick is not average.

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

So brutal yeah sure it was his kink that she praised his big dick it was her body reacting to his cock. The brutality of seeing this video I can’t even imagine let alone that your gf did videos with someone else would be enough to end it right there

 

[x052xxxx52111111]

So brutal yeah sure it was his kink that she praised his big dick it was her body reacting to his cock. The brutality of seeing this video I can’t even imagine let alone that your gf did videos with someone else would be enough to end it right there

Tbh I think this is the most brutal mog imaginable. Mogged into oblivion and back sadly.

 

[Deleted member 2381]

Absolutely fucking brutal

I'd do anything to find out the size of my gf's ex

I need to know if I dick mog him, it would be a huge weight off my shoulders

 

[Deleted member 24371]

i feel sick

 

[Anchor_Ship]

Not a word of that post read but the biggest security is looking good . Normies don’t really understand this that is why they try and brag about having a hot gf because they are low value . If a girl tries to get back at you it simply does not matter if you mog because nothing can hurt you

 

[Deleted member 24371]

Not a word of that post read but the biggest security is looking good . Normies don’t really understand this that is why they try and brag about having a hot gf because they are low value . If a girl tries to get back at you it simply does not matter if you mog because nothing can hurt you

i feel better now thank you

 

[Deleted member 2381]

Not a word of that post read but the biggest security is looking good . Normies don’t really understand this that is why they try and brag about having a hot gf because they are low value . If a girl tries to get back at you it simply does not matter if you mog because nothing can hurt you

No amount of looking good is going to make up for a small cock

 

[Deleted member 24371]

No amount of looking good is going to make up for a small cock

Full-Time Chodemaxxer​

 

[Anchor_Ship]

No amount of looking good is going to make up for a small cock