hardyy.
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The other day, I was spending time with two of my current closest friends, (I don’t particularly have many friends other than these two as of right now) and I glanced down at his phone whilst we were conversing.
To my dismay, I saw what must have been dozens of messages and ‘snaps’ from neurotypical girls and popular boys.
It frustrates me that a male in relatively close proximity to me facially experiences a completely different lifestyle than me due to lower inhibition and social ability.
For context - I am 6’1, above average facially, sophisticated, intelligent and have a bright future in academics. Yet, I have never kissed or held hands with a girl, or even had a girlfriend for that matter. Why do females lack the ability to look past my neurodivergence, or even just give me a chance?
Everywhere I look, I see girls of my age gravitating toward obnoxious, extroverted douche bags, and yet they complain about how men never treat them right. If they were to give a more introverted or neurodivergent person a chance, they would have a much better time in the dating world. (My NT friend isn’t a douche, I was just speaking generally)
To my dismay, I saw what must have been dozens of messages and ‘snaps’ from neurotypical girls and popular boys.
It frustrates me that a male in relatively close proximity to me facially experiences a completely different lifestyle than me due to lower inhibition and social ability.
For context - I am 6’1, above average facially, sophisticated, intelligent and have a bright future in academics. Yet, I have never kissed or held hands with a girl, or even had a girlfriend for that matter. Why do females lack the ability to look past my neurodivergence, or even just give me a chance?
Everywhere I look, I see girls of my age gravitating toward obnoxious, extroverted douche bags, and yet they complain about how men never treat them right. If they were to give a more introverted or neurodivergent person a chance, they would have a much better time in the dating world. (My NT friend isn’t a douche, I was just speaking generally)