JFL @ state of looksmax

[Mongrelcel]

Its amazing how your life experience and opinions are different when you're 6'4
"getting checked out" lmao imagine if you never got checked out you would have come to different conclusions

 

[Deleted member 756]

Looks matter the most, but it is advisable to also work on your personality, wealth and status

 

[Warlord]

One of the realest posts here was written by a diagnosed autist. Props to @copingvolcel

"The Dangerous Power that Online Echochambers Have on the Younger Generations (millenials and younger):

Tbh, I regret signing up on this site and wasting so much time when I could have been learning useful things instead. I didn't know when I signed up that the vast majority of the users here are just teenagers who are far younger than me, I assumed that they were at least my age or older but I was such a fool to think that.

As you can probably see I have started to post less and less, now I just visit the site once in a while to check my notifications out of habit, but I have stopped posting on new threads because I know that it's a waste of time. The truth is that I only came here out of boredom because I didn't know what to do with my life and instead of seeking solutions, I just buried my head in the sand and came here to kill time instead of doing things that would actually help me. Without the pandemic, I never would have even made an account here.

And I don't reject the idea of the black pill that looks matter when trying to attract someone, what I do reject however is this groupthink mentality that is highly prevalent in online cults like mgtow, incel, black pill, TRP and PUA. Nobody who is really a part of those groups is capable of thinking for themselves, they constantly ask others to validate them and to tell them what to believe in because otherwise, they would be completely lost. The black pill community is wrong about most of the things that it talks about, most of it comes from stereotypes and misinterpretations that could easily be beaten by real experience.

I used to believe that maybe incels had a point, that maybe some of their actions were justifiable because maybe they were being mocked or ridiculed for their looks, but then when I started to see so much proof to the contrary everywhere around me, I started to discover how toxic those internet communities can be to someone's self esteem, beliefs and opinions. Like nazi propaganda, it can completely reshape how people view the world, and the ones who are the most vulnerable are most often kids and teenagers because they are much more naive than adults and can easily be lied to and manipulated.

Most of the new looksmax users are mocked for their physical appearance and told that because they don't have the looks of a supermodel, they must kill themselves ot that their life is going to be hell and that they will never get what they want but the truth is that they/you are wrong about this subject. Women don't all thirst for supermodels and the small percentage of women on tinder doesn't speak for the entire female population, and if anything, those women on tinder are actually the lowest quality women you will find, maybe not in terms of physical appearance but definitely in their personality and the way that they treat their boyfriend or other people.

However, the main problem with this forum isn't even one of those things, it is the fact that this forum's users have only one goal in life, which is to get laid as much as possible, their only goal is based around thirst and letting themselves be controlled by their sex drive, and although we shouldn't become monks like the mgtow, becoming obsessed with it so much isn't a path to success or happiness either. There has to be a balance, nobody in this world who ever became successful in life ever reached that point by being obsessed with getting laid. So, the problem with the looksmaxxing community is that they focus on an unattainable ideal that they think will bring paradise on Earth for them only, but if they can't reach it they will feel miserable. The truth is that happiness is a state of mind, and self control is the best way to reach it, not hedonism.

This forum preaches hedonism and calls self control cope and claims that it is toxic, which is complete nonsense meant to drive the brainwashed sheep into a miserable existence of unattainable goals and short term pleasure that leaves them forever dissatisfied with their life. I joined while knowing a big part of this information already and thinking that I would be strong enough to resist the indoctrination, but clearly I underestimated your ability to brainwash people, and although, you haven't won this fight, I haven't been 100% resilient.

Because of this toxic site, I have doubted myself much more than before and I started to trust this site's users more than I should have, and I started to believe that there was something wrong with me, and that the girls who checked me out weren't actually telling me to approach them, but then when I looked back at my past experiences, I realized something. No matter how much bullshit this site claims, if there were no pandemic and I were to go out, I would be able to get laid quite easily, I wouldn't even have to talk to 100 women to be able to have sex since I was already getting checked out the few times that I went out.

There are some things that this site's users are right about though like when they recommend men who have a recessed jaw to get a jaw surgery, that will definitely help them. But the vast majority of people don't need plastic surgery. And one of the biggest problems with this site, one that has made me decide to stop being as active is that guys who look normal are told that they are ugly because they don't match the site's beauty standards. Because, while I completely agree than an ugly guy should looksmax to maximize his chances, a guy who is average looking shouldn't have to go above and beyond to get what he wants since if it were the case, then most blue pilled men would be incels.

The black pill assumes that most men are incels because they think that simps are incels but that is not actually the case, it is in our nature as men to want to help and support women so it is normal, it does not cause those men to be unable to find someone, it just means that they will rather help a woman than one of their closest friends if they see the possibility of getting laid, that is because they are unable to see that they are thinking with their dick. But those men do manage to find someone, they may not be Chads, and they may not be hooking up, but they are definitely having sex with someone that they love, so they aren't incels.

So, when you tell normies that they should rope, you may ruin a decent guy's self esteem and make it even more difficult for him to get a girlfriend because he will think that every time a girl checks him out, it's all in his head or that if she really liked him, she would approach. Maybe you guys don't realize it but everything that you say on this site is powerful enough to change someone's beliefs by making them doubt themselves and act in a way that drives them away from their goals, not towards them. And that is one of the reasons why guys like @larsanova69 @ArvidGustavsson and @Amnesia are still on here even though they look far above average and are able to get laid with ease. Because when you are part of such a cult, even when you are at the top rank and you have gained the respect of the group, it's still not enough, just like a steroid user who has reached the most impressive physique of his dreams, he will still inject steroids to get bigger.

Meanwhile, out there, there are guys who look just as average as me who were never brainwashed by such toxic things as the black pill and they are so confident that they can not only succeed with the women who check them out but they are also able to approach random women and get some success there too, they're not afraid of failure because nobody was able to create powerful doubts in their mind so although they are uglier, they get laid more, and they are happier in general because they don't have limiting beliefs. "

Fuck is this faggot on about, I don't give a shit about women. I want to make money and only go on this forum for the ments

 

[Deleted member 8244]

I want to be looksmaxxed, I don’t want to lose my virginity to a land whale.

The reason I love this site is for the positive posts I see, the weight loss transformations, the surgery’s, how being healthier made people more confident and the “no excuses” attitude. I’ve caged more times here than on instagram.

The best posts I’ve seen are where people made a positive change in their lives because of their determination.

The Bluepill preaches that you are fine the way you are and to keep being a fatty and you’ll get girls. This is garbage mentality and sets you up for failure.

This site teaches you can change your own life through hard work and power in yourself whether it be for weight loss or surgery, it’s truly a Chad mentality.

Sure someone who sees this site or the word “incel” on a surface level can only see it in a bad way. But when I see the word “rope” being used, it’s usually as a joke as the person being rated is normie or above, or when someone is fat and thought they looked good. It comes from a place of encouragement.

In short, this site is full of good people trying to help others reach their fullest potential . It’s not a fake shithole of clout. Yes there are many offensive things said, but everybody is offensive so who cares.

 

[Deleted member 756]

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