Joining a new school is one of the most thrilling and challenging things of all time

[mycokismyglock]

I moved 3 times from elementary all the way to 8th grade and each time I got to change my personality and mannerisms since I’ve done it many times I have the exact formula on how to make friends and join already established groups, it’s also weird because I think there are clones of people they all act,talk and dress the same maybe I should make a guide especially since school is starting

 

[7nclave]

I moved 3 times from elementary all the way to 8th grade and each time I got to change my personality and mannerisms since I’ve done it many times I have the exact formula on how to make friends and join already established groups, it’s also weird because I think there are clones of people they all act,talk and dress the same maybe I should make a guide especially since school is starting

what’s the formula?

 

[U1fur]

just wear bootcut jeans for style and basic slimfit shirts brutal.

 

[mycokismyglock]

what’s the formula?

The formula is at first to be known as the “nonchalant guy” who doesn’t speak often from there you can meet some people who you are comfortable with I suggest looking into clubs or sports at this stage it is vital to exchange phone numbers or snap and send them memes and talk outside and eventually sit next to them and after a while start referring to them as “bro” from there you have officially made a friend

 

[CheezyPoof]

Very relatable I rarely hear people discuss this. Yes, many times when I was in a new place I would just start fresh and I could create a whole new personality that I thought would benefit me. Actually it didn’t work bad at all it seemed quite natural. But on the other hand for the longest time I had no sense of having an own identity at all, I barely even understood that concept. For example if people would talk about “finding your identity” it would be very hard for me to understand what that even would look like. So that was an issue bc you can live like that but basically you’re just larping your whole life but it’s worse because you don’t even know who you are w/o the larp. So yeah only much later did I get better at that and mostly it involved caring less about other people’s opinions about how you should be

 

[7nclave]

The formula is at first to be known as the “nonchalant guy” who doesn’t speak often from there you can meet some people who you are comfortable with I suggest looking into clubs or sports at this stage it is vital to exchange phone numbers or snap and send them memes and talk outside and eventually sit next to them and after a while start referring to them as “bro” from there you have officially made a friend

don’t speak often??
how the hell am i gonna make friends then
i thought u had to put urself out there