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So I recently made a thread about my oneitis getting in a relationship and leaving me.

Well turns out the guy she left me for is the guy she dated in the past before and was crazily in love with.

He left her but he decided to come back and since he was her first, she just couldn’t help but feel more connected to him.

Water thread I know but I got to experience it first hand and it’s honestly really worrying because I’ll never be anyone’s first (unless I pedomaxx) and every woman I will ever date will never share an unique experience with me, she will always be thinking about the guy(s) in her past.

I see women talk about how guys that care about body count are just insecure because they don’t wanna be compared, well I admit it, I am insecure.

It’s not even more so about the comparison and being able to match the standard set by her ex, it’s the simple fact that he has imprinted on her mind and soul. She may have left him physically, but he will always be there. I am a believer in soul ties now.

The redpillers are right about women losing their ability to pair bond and being more low inhib with each body.
 
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Her first
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Her husband
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So I recently made a thread about my oneitis getting in a relationship and leaving me.

Well turns out the guy she left me for is the guy she dated in the past before and was crazily in love with.

He left her but he decided to come back and since he was her first, she just couldn’t help but feel more connected to him.

Water thread I know but I got to experience it first hand and it’s honestly really worrying because I’ll never be anyone’s first (unless I pedomaxx) and every woman I will ever date will never share an unique experience with me, she will always be thinking about the guy(s) in her past.

I see women talk about how guys that care about body count are just insecure because they don’t wanna be compared, well I admit it, I am insecure.

It’s not even more so about the comparison and being able to match the standard set by her ex, it’s the simple fact that he has imprinted on her mind and soul. She may have left him physically, but he will always be there. I am a believer in soul ties now.

The redpillers are right about women losing their ability to pair bond and being more low inhib with each body.
Its ok bro you will find your gal
 
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This pill isn’t even really brutal tbh
 
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How old are you

JBF is feasible even in your early 20s if you go for sheltered girls whose 1st boyfriends were shit to them
 
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If she isn’t KHHV I don’t want her
You dont need to be her first first. Just be the "first guy who treated her nice" type of beat

Or even better. Just mog her exes
 
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This pill isn’t even really brutal tbh
Imagine not being Brooke shields first and having some other man having taken that from you…
 
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You dont need to be her first first. Just be the "first guy who treated her nice" type of beat

Or even better. Just mog her exes
Yeah so you pick up the leftovers like a scavenger…
 
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Yeah so you pick up the leftovers like a scavenger…
80% of relationships are ended by the girl so most likely its the guys who are leftovers

If you find a nonroastie girl with top tier personality who falls in love with you, not taking her vcard wont even begin to be an issue
 
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I will never be someone's first either. That ship has already sailed I'm afraid.
 
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How old are you

JBF is feasible even in your early 20s if you go for sheltered girls whose 1st boyfriends were shit to them
19

You dont need to be her first first. Just be the "first guy who treated her nice" type of beat

Or even better. Just mog her exes
That’s fair I suppose, but the chances of finding a women with a low body count + LTRs + the chance of her having a bad ex are getting slimmer by the day.

Most men are love bombers simps to their girlfriends anyways.

And about the mogging thing, the guy she left me for, I mogged him to gandy and back, not just face but height and frame too yet she still left.

I’m pretty NT too before you ask and social skills kinda come naturally to me so I don’t think it’s because I’m autistic even though on here I might come off as that way at times. I’m good at putting on a mask.
 
So I recently made a thread about my oneitis getting in a relationship and leaving me.

Well turns out the guy she left me for is the guy she dated in the past before and was crazily in love with.

He left her but he decided to come back and since he was her first, she just couldn’t help but feel more connected to him.

Water thread I know but I got to experience it first hand and it’s honestly really worrying because I’ll never be anyone’s first (unless I pedomaxx) and every woman I will ever date will never share an unique experience with me, she will always be thinking about the guy(s) in her past.

I see women talk about how guys that care about body count are just insecure because they don’t wanna be compared, well I admit it, I am insecure.

It’s not even more so about the comparison and being able to match the standard set by her ex, it’s the simple fact that he has imprinted on her mind and soul. She may have left him physically, but he will always be there. I am a believer in soul ties now.

The redpillers are right about women losing their ability to pair bond and being more low inhib with each body.
Real, feel bad for u man
 
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Real, feel bad for u man
This is going to sound odd as fuck but in a way finding this information out was relieving. It would have hurt so much more if she just left me for a random who she had just met.

Obviously I’m still a bit hurt, but I have been relieved and I’m able to let go because I understand it’s not me at all, nothing I could have done or been would have kept her. She was a lost cause the moment her first came back into the picture.
 
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This is going to sound odd as fuck but in a way finding this information out was relieving. It would have hurt so much more if she just left me for a random who she had just met.

Obviously I’m still a bit hurt, but I have been relieved and I’m able to let go because I understand it’s not me at all, nothing I could have done or been would have kept her. She was a lost cause the moment her first came back into the picture.
U dont need a pluricummed one, u ll find a virgin
 
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U dont need a pluricummed one, u ll find a virgin
Hopefully, I go to a very liberal party university so most women here are sluts.

Let’s hope some of them aren’t and let’s hope those some are attracted to me lol
 
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Only works if you’re Chad, I JBF’d one girl for a six month relationship and she dumped me for a rich guy and never contacted me again.
 

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