Just Be First Theory (JBF)

[shandingo]

JBF , is not a meme. A girl you meet in HS does not have a instagram dms from athletes , rappers and ballers and can not access dating apps till she turns 18. She is also in a small dating pool , your competition is likely only the other guys at her high school.

There is never an easier time to bag a wifey than pre-18. Anecdotally speaking , the only healthy couples who are still together , getting married and having babies I know are the couples who met in high school .

The whole red pill cope of wait till your 30+ and high value man , just to beta buxx for some ran-through foids who is going to sum up each key attribute of all her exs and compare the total to you.

If you are over 25 it’s over . The more guys she dates the more baggage she has. Find a girl young and marry young. The average relationship post 18 is a jestermaxxing and/or beta buxxing ephemeral frequent nightmare.

As soon as a girl hits 18 her SMV is infinite . Act before that is the case . I guarantee most of the “exceptions” to the BP you see started out as HS relationships.

My biggest regret is not doing this , learn from my mistakes. I literally had Aryan foids actually like my brown ass , and was actually quite popular with foids as a”friend” but could easily have got at least 1 relationship. Every exception to the Blackpill I’ve seen also occurred around this time.

 

[Punjabi Waffen]

JBF , is not a meme. A girl you meet in HS does not have a instagram dms from athletes , rappers and ballers and can not access dating apps till she turns 18. She is also in a small dating pool , your competition is likely only the other guys at her high school.

uncle its not the 2000's

 

[Chadeep]

You should look for how many of these JBF Relationship Lasts. Every relationship gets derailed when foid goes to college

 

[Joeseminate]

 

[Pale God]

 

[shandingo]

uncle its not the 2000's

I’m in my mid 20s , perhaps in Gen Alpha this isn’t a thing anymore , I don’t hang with the kids these days but at least this was my experience. Still we can learn some lessons from this.

You should look for how many of these JBF Relationship Lasts. Every relationship gets derailed when foid goes to college

According to the X tweet a lot more than other ways of meeting , anecdotally true in my life too. Nevertheless , things are bad I agree but shifting the odds from worse to bad is importnst.

Important lessons we can take :
- competition is everything , if she has a better option she will take it.
- Avoid dating app foids , infinite options
- Avoid foids with large social circle / public instagram , infinite options
- Avoid ran-through foids , obvious
- geomaxx where the competition is lower.

It’s all about being her best option and if you can’t improve change the competition.

 

[shandingo]

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I’ve just seen that all you do is post this image

 

[Quetila]

 

[MoneyMaka]

yea the boomers succeeded in making sure that relationships dont last, forcing everyone to go to college to even have a chance at a financially stable life

but the solution is not fight the trend, it's to just rise above it
just accept that relationships aren't real
situationships and short term things are how the world works

you can't enslave a girl for her whole life anymore
so what do you do?
pump and dump maxxing (simply chase tail when you need sex)
or monkey branch maxing (just abandon ship before the hypergamous foid turns on you)

 

[shandingo]

yea the boomers succeeded in making sure that relationships dont last, forcing everyone to go to college to even have a chance at a financially stable life

but the solution is not fight the trend, it's to just rise above it
just accept that relationships aren't real
situationships and short term things are how the world works

you can't enslave a girl for her whole life anymore
so what do you do?
pump and dump maxxing (simply chase tail when you need sex)
or monkey branch maxing (just abandon ship before the hypergamous foid turns on you)

So you think the monogamous and nuclear family is dead for most people. Don’t think that’s true , most people will get married have kids albeit in a toxic low quality relationship.

It all depends on the foid you court , not all foids are the same even if they share the general underlying mating principle .

 

[MoneyMaka]

So you think the monogamous and nuclear family is dead for most people. Don’t think that’s true , most people will get married have kids albeit in a toxic low quality relationship.

It all depends on the foid you court , not all foids are the same even if they share the general underlying mating principle .

correct people will get married but the quality is getting worse and worse and not worth it

currently 60% of age 40 men are married
so not everyone even marries.
expected to get much worse than that when gen z reaches that age id argue below half
then, marriages end up in divorce more and more
yes, marriages will exist but the stability of them, and the actual quality of marriages will never be like pre 70s

things are not getting better as time goes on
things aren't improving
the economy, the affordability of children, marriage, and the positions of men relative to women are not moving in the right direction for marriages and long term stable relationships to move beyond their current state

Thus, we are forced to evolve past marriage as a structure

 

[shandingo]

correct people will get married but the quality is getting worse and worse and not worth it

currently 60% of age 40 men are married
so not everyone even marries.
expected to get much worse than that when gen z reaches that age id argue below half
then, marriages end up in divorce more and more
yes, marriages will exist but the stability of them, and the actual quality of marriages will never be like pre 70s

things are not getting better as time goes on
things aren't improving
the economy, the affordability of children, marriage, and the positions of men relative to women are not moving in the right direction for marriages and long term stable relationships to move beyond their current state

Thus, we are forced to evolve past marriage as a structure

I guess all one can do is increase their SMV as much as possible and marry in a low competition environment. Harvard released a study saying the number one predictor of life satisfaction is relationships , if not with foids , then friendships and family is going to be especially as important .

 

[Pale God]

I’ve just seen that all you do is post this image

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[shandingo]

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I mean it’s factually incorrect Indians shit on the street not on the toilet .