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NT theory can easily be rejected.
When I go on dates with girls that I mog (slightly) there's definite interest from her and our interactions are 'NT':
First date with girl that I mog: Success, but I was uninterested in seeing her again. This girl was quite experienced, talented, traveled and had a huge social circle. She was telling me about all the parties she's been to and the holidays she had. But me as the 'mentalcel' of this forum was considered 'NT' by her.
Now I go on a date with my looksmatch, had great banter, some similar interests, talked for a couple of hours, went for the makeout at the end in my appartement. She kissed me for a few seconds and then awkwardly stopped and said she had to go. Brutal rejection. Next day:
'I don't feel it good' 'no spark' 'no click' always the same shit with these looksmatched women.
Then when I go for girls (slightly) above my looksmatch:
They show interest at first, we have a bit of banter and good conversation probably because I am putting in extra effort to get a conversation going. But it's impossible to go on a date with them since they always end up flaking/ghosting due to lack of interest in my looks.
It's all looks looks looks. In the end dating feels like it comes down to dating A LOT of girls that are your looksmatch, but where due to personal taste you somehow find eachother more attractive than seeing eachother as your looksmatch. And that increased spike of interest leads to NT interactions and a LTR/FWB.
Any looks mismatch will always result in 1 person having all the power in the relationship and treated like a god.
But what's wrong with dating your looksmatch? Nothing. I am attracted to my looksmatch.
But a looksmatch nowadays is too boring for most women because they can get chad for ONS/FWB and aren't looking for anything stable yet in their youth. So their looksmatch isn't that interesting to them in their youth as they rather mess around with better looking guys that make them feel better. They want that 'spark' on the first-date, which they can only get with chad.
Just like we men would fuck around with stacies in our youth instead of settling down with a looksmatched becky, if we had the choice. Women have this choice and most take it.
Which leads to inceldom for men.
When I go on dates with girls that I mog (slightly) there's definite interest from her and our interactions are 'NT':
First date with girl that I mog: Success, but I was uninterested in seeing her again. This girl was quite experienced, talented, traveled and had a huge social circle. She was telling me about all the parties she's been to and the holidays she had. But me as the 'mentalcel' of this forum was considered 'NT' by her.
Now I go on a date with my looksmatch, had great banter, some similar interests, talked for a couple of hours, went for the makeout at the end in my appartement. She kissed me for a few seconds and then awkwardly stopped and said she had to go. Brutal rejection. Next day:
'I don't feel it good' 'no spark' 'no click' always the same shit with these looksmatched women.
Then when I go for girls (slightly) above my looksmatch:
They show interest at first, we have a bit of banter and good conversation probably because I am putting in extra effort to get a conversation going. But it's impossible to go on a date with them since they always end up flaking/ghosting due to lack of interest in my looks.
It's all looks looks looks. In the end dating feels like it comes down to dating A LOT of girls that are your looksmatch, but where due to personal taste you somehow find eachother more attractive than seeing eachother as your looksmatch. And that increased spike of interest leads to NT interactions and a LTR/FWB.
Any looks mismatch will always result in 1 person having all the power in the relationship and treated like a god.
But what's wrong with dating your looksmatch? Nothing. I am attracted to my looksmatch.
But a looksmatch nowadays is too boring for most women because they can get chad for ONS/FWB and aren't looking for anything stable yet in their youth. So their looksmatch isn't that interesting to them in their youth as they rather mess around with better looking guys that make them feel better. They want that 'spark' on the first-date, which they can only get with chad.
Just like we men would fuck around with stacies in our youth instead of settling down with a looksmatched becky, if we had the choice. Women have this choice and most take it.
Which leads to inceldom for men.
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