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Best Judge post I‘ve seen, though I didn‘t see many.im not 16 and I know that it's just not easy to go from zero to something great at that age. I wasn't trying to put him down just stating the facts. he said this is not his first account so he has a reason for staying here.
it depends on his starting point and what he wants. its just simply impossible to get out of the safe zone and try something when you are several years behind other people. most people wouldn't even be able to take the first step because they wouldn't be able to cross when the stigma that the people around you will starting to give you.
for example, it's practically impossible to make friends because you're outside of social circles and they'll know why you're outside these circles and if you don't have anything to offer, you're out.
you cant start a business or learn something but you are many years behind and many people at this age already have a career and a life to live until they die.
You can have a wife, family and children for sure, but again youre a few years behind in the grind in terms of money or experience, and the woman you marry will simply recognize it.
its just how i see it. it doesn't mean it's an all-encompassing truth or anything. something unexpected can always happen that turns your cards in any direction, but there are certain barriers that are difficult to pass