"Just go outside bro" = "Just tap into your rich extensive social circle and date women u already know brah" Not cold approach

[ferbite666]

When women and NT normies give this advice it implies that you already have what's in the title + have at least an avg-above avg social media profiles + Be Giga NT. When they say "Go outside dude, I see ugly guys with hot girls all the time" most of them aren't referring to spamming cold approach. Even tho that's how most of us interpret that advice because that's our only option. Trying to build attraction with women at school or work that you see often, literally feels like you're climbing a mountain with a 100lb backpack if you're not NT and low inhib. And I say this from exp, I remember when I started a new job I literally drank everyday for the first week so I could give the best first impression and have a good reputation off rip, but I found that after a few weeks passed and they saw my normal autist self, I started to go back to being side character that women dgaf about. It was so brutal.

Imagine everyday having to go up to the women you like and want to plant seeds with at your job/work and having to come up with something funny/witty to say to them everyday and compete with other dudes in the environment also tryna do the same thing. Not possible without drugs/alcohol tbh. How do you non NT niggas cope with this?

 

[MoggerGaston]

I rarely see attractive women outside, they are all in chad's bedroom.

'Just go outside bro' is terrible advice when you are chad, cuz then you are leaving all your women alone in your bedroom.

'Just go to chad's bedroom' is legit advice for sub-chads. Start banging on his door.

 

[Deleted member 90941]

When women and NT normies give this advice it implies that you already have what's in the title + have at least an avg-above avg social media profiles + Be Giga NT. When they say "Go outside dude, I see ugly guys with hot girls all the time" most of them aren't referring to spamming cold approach. Even tho that's how most of us interpret that advice because that's our only option. Trying to build attraction with women at school or work that you see often, literally feels like you're climbing a mountain with a 100lb backpack if you're not NT and low inhib. And I say this from exp, I remember when I started a new job I literally drank everyday for the first week so I could give the best first impression and have a good reputation off rip, but I found that after a few weeks passed and they saw my normal autist self, I started to go back to being side character that women dgaf about. It was so brutal.

Imagine everyday having to go up to the women you like and want to plant seeds with at your job/work and having to come up with something funny/witty to say to them everyday and compete with other dudes in the environment also tryna do the same thing. Not possible without drugs/alcohol tbh. How do you non NT niggas cope with this?

I can beat NTs at their own game of social dominance. Socialising with normies is like a game of chess. I'm always 1 step ahead of them and can outwit them whenever they try to get one up on me. But it's very exhausting to keep that level of concentration. I suppose if I was in a social circle with blonde stacies in it, I'd be able to do it for far longer. But for some of us we actually valued friendship and companionship and when we got into the socialising scene amd learned the true nature of people, we instantly lost all interest and choose solitude instead.

The normie sociopath is a creature with no passion, sexuality nor drive for greatness. I'm so glad they all get divorced raped in the end.

 

[thereallegend]

What's the point in women when you're poor living paycheck to paycheck living off credit cards?

 

[Shahnameh]

When women offer this advice, it can seem like they are saying success will come without effort, because for many women, simply existing in a space can attract attention. They don't have to actively seek out or pursue dates as often. For men, though, success in dating usually requires effort—whether that’s making the first move, handling rejection, or maintaining the relationship.

 

[uksucks]

When women and NT normies give this advice it implies that you already have what's in the title + have at least an avg-above avg social media profiles + Be Giga NT. When they say "Go outside dude, I see ugly guys with hot girls all the time" most of them aren't referring to spamming cold approach. Even tho that's how most of us interpret that advice because that's our only option. Trying to build attraction with women at school or work that you see often, literally feels like you're climbing a mountain with a 100lb backpack if you're not NT and low inhib. And I say this from exp, I remember when I started a new job I literally drank everyday for the first week so I could give the best first impression and have a good reputation off rip, but I found that after a few weeks passed and they saw my normal autist self, I started to go back to being side character that women dgaf about. It was so brutal.

Imagine everyday having to go up to the women you like and want to plant seeds with at your job/work and having to come up with something funny/witty to say to them everyday and compete with other dudes in the environment also tryna do the same thing. Not possible without drugs/alcohol tbh. How do you non NT niggas cope with this?

great thread.

so many nornies/women are out of touch. they assume every guy goes to parties, has or can easily get into a broad social circle.

 

[Klasik616]

My parents always say that I have to go outside more but when I go outside nothing happens, even though I talk with people they don't ask for my number or anything and I simply do not exist.

 

[uksucks]

My parents always say that I have to go outside more but when I go outside nothing happens, even though I talk with people they don't ask for my number or anything and I simply do not exist.

Which country