Just got another rejection/friendzone. I cant COPE

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The girl I went out with ignored my text for a whole day and finally replied saying she just wanted to be friends and wasnt looking for a relationship. She says this even though she was already planning future dates at the beginning of our first. She was calling me tall and handome Going for the kiss ruined everything. I rushed it. Nothing was the same after that.

This happens everytime im lucky enough to get a date with a girl. I always get friendzoned. What am I doing wrong?
 
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Going for the kiss did not ruin it. Stop coping. I told you from the beginning she showed low interest. And you got hyped up from other users here. The whole time she's been low interest.
 
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^ what he said
 
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The girl I went out with ignored my text for a whole day and finally replied saying she just wanted to be friends and wasnt looking for a relationship. She says this even though she was already planning future dates at the beginning of our first. She was calling me tall and handome Going for the kiss ruined everything. I rushed it. Nothing was the same after that.

This happens everytime im lucky enough to get a date with a girl. I always get friendzoned. What am I doing wrong?
Odd that she called you tall and handsome at the beginning of the date and still rejected you. Maybe you were acting weird? Regardless, going on a date is good practice even if you end up getting rejected
 
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Just Be Curry
 
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She just wasn't into you, the kiss didn't ruin anything. At least you didn't waste your time on her.
 
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Odd that she called you tall and handsome at the beginning of the date and still rejected you. Maybe you were acting weird? Regardless, going on a date is good practice even if you end up getting rejected
I can think of two reasons

1. She was just being nice with the handsome compliment

2. She's talking to other guys that she likes more and is choosing someone else

If she thought he was fine,hot,sexy. No way she denies him and puts him in friend zone. Remember she was ignoring his texts in the beginning,but he shrugged it off.
 
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I can think of two reasons

1. She was just being nice with the handsome compliment

2. She's talking to other guys that she likes more and is choosing someone else

If she thought he was fine,hot,sexy. No way she denies him and puts him in friend zone. Remember she was ignoring his texts in the beginning,but he shrugged it off.
True, seemed like she was on the fence. Time to go monk mode and looksmax @Ken
 
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I can think of two reasons

1. She was just being nice with the handsome compliment

2. She's talking to other guys that she likes more and is choosing someone else

If she thought he was fine,hot,sexy. No way she denies him and puts him in friend zone. Remember she was ignoring his texts in the beginning,but he shrugged it off.
She might have just gone because her parents pressured her. Her family liked me a lot. They were treating me as if I was already married to her.
 
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You never did anything wrong. Don't blame yourself.
 
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U win sum you lose sum
 
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The girl I went out with ignored my text for a whole day and finally replied saying she just wanted to be friends and wasnt looking for a relationship. She says this even though she was already planning future dates at the beginning of our first. She was calling me tall and handome Going for the kiss ruined everything. I rushed it. Nothing was the same after that.

This happens everytime im lucky enough to get a date with a girl. I always get friendzoned. What am I doing wrong?
Did you two know each other irl or did you match on a dating app?
 

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