JUST GOT FRIENDZONED

[97baHater]

I just came back about 30 mins ago from a date with a JB. We went to get coffee and then started walking in the beach together. I asked her if she wanted to sit down on a bench together and she said yes. And so we found a bench and I sit kinda in the middle of it hoping she would also sit close to me. But jfl she sat at the very edge and kinda gave me a weird look. Since im so blackpilled i immedietly knew that it was over and so i asked her "what do u see me as". She just brutally says 'I cant see you as more than a friend...' something like that. Boys im not even gonna lie i almost teared up in that moment since this foid dragged me out here, wasted my time and energy only to say that to me. Anyways I kept my cool and larped saying 'I kinda felt the same way' JFL. After about 20 mins of akwardness her dad finally came to pick her up.

Boys, I need some lifefuel ASAP before I end up ropibg. Does this AT LEAST mean im a normie since im gl enough to at least be friendzoned?

 

[nathan]

try again with another women and don't take this personally
that's really all the advice I can give

 

[Chadeep]

Don't lose hope women do shit like this a get with a LTN.

 

[greycel]

I just came back about 30 mins ago from a date with a JB. We went to get coffee and then started walking in the beach together. I asked her if she wanted to sit down on a bench together and she said yes. And so we found a bench and I sit kinda in the middle of it hoping she would also sit close to me. But jfl she sat at the very edge and kinda gave me a weird look. Since im so blackpilled i immedietly knew that it was over and so i asked her "what do u see me as". She just brutally says 'I cant see you as more than a friend...' something like that. Boys im not even gonna lie i almost teared up in that moment since this foid dragged me out here, wasted my time and energy only to say that to me. Anyways I kept my cool and larped saying 'I kinda felt the same way' JFL. After about 20 mins of akwardness her dad finally came to pick her up.

Boys, I need some lifefuel ASAP before I end up ropibg. Does this AT LEAST mean im a normie since im gl enough to at least be friendzoned?

If you passed the date barrier then you were clearly good looking enough

You're just autistic af

And why tf did you jump to the gun and force her into a black or white decision of "what do you see me as?"

Always keep it in the grey nigtard
Anyways, think if you said anything that upset her, the vibe you gave off, or if you were too forward with her (she's a JB, u gotta be a bit chill mane)

 

[WhoTookVendetta]

I just came back about 30 mins ago from a date with a JB. We went to get coffee and then started walking in the beach together. I asked her if she wanted to sit down on a bench together and she said yes. And so we found a bench and I sit kinda in the middle of it hoping she would also sit close to me. But jfl she sat at the very edge and kinda gave me a weird look. Since im so blackpilled i immedietly knew that it was over and so i asked her "what do u see me as". She just brutally says 'I cant see you as more than a friend...' something like that. Boys im not even gonna lie i almost teared up in that moment since this foid dragged me out here, wasted my time and energy only to say that to me. Anyways I kept my cool and larped saying 'I kinda felt the same way' JFL. After about 20 mins of akwardness her dad finally came to pick her up.

Boys, I need some lifefuel ASAP before I end up ropibg. Does this AT LEAST mean im a normie since im gl enough to at least be friendzoned?

im a normie since im gl enough to at least be friendzoned?

KHHV talentless short ugly low IQ dicklet failure​

 

[TUSSELEIF]

 

[Deleted member 45760]

idk what to say to help you man
it didnt get any better for me hopefully it does for you

 

[vermillioncorefan]

I just came back about 30 mins ago from a date with a JB. We went to get coffee and then started walking in the beach together. I asked her if she wanted to sit down on a bench together and she said yes. And so we found a bench and I sit kinda in the middle of it hoping she would also sit close to me. But jfl she sat at the very edge and kinda gave me a weird look. Since im so blackpilled i immedietly knew that it was over and so i asked her "what do u see me as". She just brutally says 'I cant see you as more than a friend...' something like that. Boys im not even gonna lie i almost teared up in that moment since this foid dragged me out here, wasted my time and energy only to say that to me. Anyways I kept my cool and larped saying 'I kinda felt the same way' JFL. After about 20 mins of akwardness her dad finally came to pick her up.

Boys, I need some lifefuel ASAP before I end up ropibg. Does this AT LEAST mean im a normie since im gl enough to at least be friendzoned?

 

[Jamaldickjavontus]

I just came back about 30 mins ago from a date with a JB. We went to get coffee and then started walking in the beach together. I asked her if she wanted to sit down on a bench together and she said yes. And so we found a bench and I sit kinda in the middle of it hoping she would also sit close to me. But jfl she sat at the very edge and kinda gave me a weird look. Since im so blackpilled i immedietly knew that it was over and so i asked her "what do u see me as". She just brutally says 'I cant see you as more than a friend...' something like that. Boys im not even gonna lie i almost teared up in that moment since this foid dragged me out here, wasted my time and energy only to say that to me. Anyways I kept my cool and larped saying 'I kinda felt the same way' JFL. After about 20 mins of akwardness her dad finally came to pick her up.

Boys, I need some lifefuel ASAP before I end up ropibg. Does this AT LEAST mean im a normie since im gl enough to at least be friendzoned?

lol you cracked too early and asked what are we you’re not Chad you should’ve waited until yall are more comfortable and touchy and then so where that goes you folded too quickly dude

 

[Jamaldickjavontus]

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Nah I don’t blame her he folded to quickly if she was even going on a date with him then it was gonna lead somewhere oh well hope he learns form this

 

[Jamaldickjavontus]

If you passed the date barrier then you were clearly good looking enough

You're just autistic af

And why tf did you jump to the gun and force her into a black or white decision of "what do you see me as?"

Always keep it in the grey nigtard
Anyways, think if you said anything that upset her, the vibe you gave off, or if you were too forward with her (she's a JB, u gotta be a bit chill mane)

Agreed

 

[vermillioncorefan]

lol you cracked too early and asked what are we you’re not Chad you should’ve waited until yall are more comfortable and touchy and then so where that goes you folded too quickly dude

she didn’t like him bro she didn’t sit next to him on the bench that’s a classic move always works

 

[Jamaldickjavontus]

she didn’t like him bro she didn’t sit next to him on the bench that’s a classic move always works

Nah he prob was overthinking and moving too quickly and he said some stupid question like “what are we” too early

 

[97baHater]

If you passed the date barrier then you were clearly good looking enough

It was more of a friendly outing

You're just autistic af

Maybe

And why tf did you jump to the gun and force her into a black or white decision of "what do you see me as?"

Cause I don't like to lose time, she wasn't feeling me bro I felt it.

lol my ou have hit too early and asked what are we you’re not Chad you should’ve waited until yall are more comfortable and touchy and then so where that goes you folded too quickly dude

Anyways, think if you said anything that upset her, the vibe you gave off, or if you were too forward with her (she's a JB, u gotta be a bit chill mane)Always keep it in the grey nigtard

Ehh Idk man

idk what to say to help you man
it didnt get any better for me hopefully it does for you

It won't get any better trust.

KHHV talentless short ugly low IQ dicklet failure

That's the only reason why she said that.

 

[Jamaldickjavontus]

It was more of a friendly outing

Maybe

Cause I don't like to lose time, she wasn't feeling me bro I felt it.

Ehh Idk man

It won't get any better trust.



That's the only reason why she said that.

Try hanging out with her a couple more times but don’t be asking relationship related questions just act like a friend and then at some point initiate physical contact and see if she reciprocates

 

[greycel]

It was more of a friendly outing

No girl, let alone a JB, who will have the highest defence barriers set up for herself.. would go for a 1-1 "friendly outing"

Cause I don't like to lose time, she wasn't feeling me bro I felt it.

Think of it this way. There are a certain set of words you could've said, in a certain order, at a certain pacing... that would have resulted in a green light, and her wanting to pursue something with you.
If she was willing to be in a 1-1 scenario with you, there were many ways to reach this green light.

But you didn't

Explain everything you talked about, and specifically when did she stop smiling/laughing when she was with you. There must have been a time earlier before that.

For a JB, just make her smile/ laugh. Matters more so than normal because they tend to be more non primal, and pure in thought

 

[humanoidsub7]

try again with another women and don't take this personally
that's really all the advice I can give

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

I just came back about 30 mins ago from a date with a JB. We went to get coffee and then started walking in the beach together. I asked her if she wanted to sit down on a bench together and she said yes. And so we found a bench and I sit kinda in the middle of it hoping she would also sit close to me. But jfl she sat at the very edge and kinda gave me a weird look. Since im so blackpilled i immedietly knew that it was over and so i asked her "what do u see me as". She just brutally says 'I cant see you as more than a friend...' something like that. Boys im not even gonna lie i almost teared up in that moment since this foid dragged me out here, wasted my time and energy only to say that to me. Anyways I kept my cool and larped saying 'I kinda felt the same way' JFL. After about 20 mins of akwardness her dad finally came to pick her up.

Boys, I need some lifefuel ASAP before I end up ropibg. Does this AT LEAST mean im a normie since im gl enough to at least be friendzoned?

 

[twojei]

I just came back about 30 mins ago from a date with a JB. We went to get coffee and then started walking in the beach together. I asked her if she wanted to sit down on a bench together and she said yes. And so we found a bench and I sit kinda in the middle of it hoping she would also sit close to me. But jfl she sat at the very edge and kinda gave me a weird look. Since im so blackpilled i immedietly knew that it was over

Brother, shit. I know how it feels. She hasn't even uttered a fucking word, but you know the answer . Back in January I was with a girl at my house, and we were both sitting on the ends of the couch, and when I tried to close the distance by using my arm to hug her, she immediately pulls back and gets up. I swear I haven't felt a letdown like that in a long time. It made me feel suicidal.

 

[97baHater]

I swear I haven't felt a letdown like that in a long time. It made me feel suicidal

Literally me rn, it's over.

 

[twojei]

Literally me rn, it's over.

I guess at that time it hurt even more because I'm going through some hard shit in my life rn, but I don't know about you boyo, so take that into mind. At least, that means women don't find you repulsive, so there could be opportunity for you ahead.

If you passed the date barrier then you were clearly good looking enough

You're just autistic af

And why tf did you jump to the gun and force her into a black or white decision of "what do you see me as?"

Always keep it in the grey nigtard
Anyways, think if you said anything that upset her, the vibe you gave off, or if you were too forward with her (she's a JB, u gotta be a bit chill mane)

Yeah, I also think that what @greycel says here is correct. I remember that I also pressured her into telling me if she liked me or not, but women simply don't work that way, but that doesn't mean you should let a foid manipulate you, so you need to be very aware of that.

 

[capitulation]

Cause I don't like to lose time, she wasn't feeling me bro I felt it.

women like to waste time
unless you are a chad, you have no control over a relationship dynamics

at least you got a date, so probably not ugly. If you increase your opportunities, it will get better (it didnt for me )

 

[Darkeningstar]

You fucking autist, I can relate

 

[Darkeningstar]

A similar situation happened to me, and I was often used to being extremely direct and getting away with it, so I never developed any special social skills. As some have already written to you, girls will not go out 1-on-1 with you if they are not the least bit interested.