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Have you ever noticed how most PUA coaches are around 30 at least, most of the time even older?
I just realized why, and on top of that the tragic reality of young guys buying into it.
We all know looks are everything. But this obviously gets less and less true the older you are - at an older age, most GL guys are in a marriage or stable LTR. As such, the competition is a joke in comparison to when you are young. Further, there are factors that offset the importance of looks - you might be filthy rich, have accumulated good wealth or have a great career, or other status indicators within certain communities.
At a young age, however, you generally have absolutely nothing except your looks, and you have to compete against the best looking guys in the prime of their life.
The women that are accessible to PUA coaches are mostly girls that have completely given up Chad, or is hopelessly hoping to find him while being essentially a used up slut. Either way, many of them will be looking for status indicators a lot more than young girls.The super hot prime time staceys are obviously only off limits for these guys.
So then, how come PUAs say "looks don't matter"? Well, their PUA schtick is all about attempting to appear high value - when the competition is low, making the women BELIEVE you have high status (as the women are status chasers at this point rather than purely looks) can be a huge benefit. Obviously this only lasts for a short period of time: most likely, she will realize the PUA is autistic almost immediately, or at the very least realize that he is in fact not high status soon enough and just ignore him. But for those seconds, minutes, hours or even days that the PUA got her fooled, he is feeling SUCCESS, he is believing he has overcome his sub humanity. And that to him is better than not getting ANYWHERE.
That, I believe, is why PUAs can believe what they believe, and why they do what they do. Obviously the "success" PUA coaches age 30+ have will not apply to younger PUA trainees, as they will just fall flat and make a fool of themselves, since young girls ONLY cares about looks or EXTREME social status in a given social circle.
I just realized why, and on top of that the tragic reality of young guys buying into it.
We all know looks are everything. But this obviously gets less and less true the older you are - at an older age, most GL guys are in a marriage or stable LTR. As such, the competition is a joke in comparison to when you are young. Further, there are factors that offset the importance of looks - you might be filthy rich, have accumulated good wealth or have a great career, or other status indicators within certain communities.
At a young age, however, you generally have absolutely nothing except your looks, and you have to compete against the best looking guys in the prime of their life.
The women that are accessible to PUA coaches are mostly girls that have completely given up Chad, or is hopelessly hoping to find him while being essentially a used up slut. Either way, many of them will be looking for status indicators a lot more than young girls.The super hot prime time staceys are obviously only off limits for these guys.
So then, how come PUAs say "looks don't matter"? Well, their PUA schtick is all about attempting to appear high value - when the competition is low, making the women BELIEVE you have high status (as the women are status chasers at this point rather than purely looks) can be a huge benefit. Obviously this only lasts for a short period of time: most likely, she will realize the PUA is autistic almost immediately, or at the very least realize that he is in fact not high status soon enough and just ignore him. But for those seconds, minutes, hours or even days that the PUA got her fooled, he is feeling SUCCESS, he is believing he has overcome his sub humanity. And that to him is better than not getting ANYWHERE.
That, I believe, is why PUAs can believe what they believe, and why they do what they do. Obviously the "success" PUA coaches age 30+ have will not apply to younger PUA trainees, as they will just fall flat and make a fool of themselves, since young girls ONLY cares about looks or EXTREME social status in a given social circle.
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