Just how deep in the friendzone am I?(pics inside+long read)

[Alesund]

Some backstory:
-Girl is a 17 yr old american
-She was in my country last summer for a week
-A family friend introduced me to her and I decided to invite her to hang out
-We have a great time but me, the pussy that I was, made no advances bc she told me she has a boyfriend
-She leaves and we start texting and facetiming pretty much every other day
-She really wants me to come over for the summer and I'm feeling myself, I might actually be able to do something with her
-She brakes up with boyfriend and thanks me for telling her that he doesn't deserve(major simp moment)
-I jokingly ask her out for Valentines day but she tells me she already has one(it's her ex)
-I ignore her for a few weeks and we barely talk like we used to( like once per week)
-She finally sent me this yesterday
1)
2)

At this point, should I even bother talking to her anymore? I mog her boyfriend to death(a fugly 5'7 Ukraniancel immigrant) and I'm pretty sure when she sees my looksmaxxed self (currently gymcelling and beardmaxxing like crazy) she'll change her mind. Should I cut my losses or should I continue pursuing?

 

[turkproducer]

sounds like you’re in the friendzone

you might as well send her your gymcelled body in a selfie but hasn’t she seen you that way?

bro most of the time pursuing women is too much effort and it seems like she is just using you for attention

 

[Alesund]

sounds like you’re in the friendzone

you might as well send her your gymcelled body in a selfie but hasn’t she seen you that way?

bro most of the time pursuing women is too much effort and it seems like she is just using you for attention

She's already seen me shirtless and she was really impressed-she said I was looking really juicy. Unfortunately, when you're thousands of miles away it doesn't really matter now, does it?

 

[turkproducer]

She's already seen my shirtless and she was really impressed-she said I was looking really juicy. Unfortunately, when you're thousands of miles away it doesn't really matter now, does it?

lol u remind me of my old self but not as bad

what’s the point talking to women if you’re not gonna meet them? drop her

 

[ChaddeusPeuterschmit]

Its over. Stop talking to her and move on. Ur being a cuck.

 

[Alesund]

lol u remind me of my old self but not as bad

what’s the point talking to women if you’re not gonna meet them? drop her

I should be able to meet her this summer(towards the end of August). I'll be staying at her place for about a week(as long as this whole corona situation is under control by then).

 

[Mr_Norwood]

Oh god. it's so obvious

 

[Alesund]

Its over. Stop talking to her and move on. Ur being a cuck.

I don't know, man. This is probably my only chance at getting laid this summer, maybe even the year. Even if nothing happens, at least I won't be asking myself shit like "but what if..." or "if only I...".

 

[Deleted member 4671]

Its over. Stop talking to her and move on. Ur being a cuck.

I don't know, man. This is probably my only chance at getting laid this summer, maybe even the year. Even if nothing happens, at least I won't be asking myself shit like "but what if..." or "if only I...".

stop being a pussy, and ask her if she wants to come over and not be freinds you simp ass greycel

 

[ChaddeusPeuterschmit]

I don't know, man. This is probably my only chance at getting laid this summer, maybe even the year. Even if nothing happens, at least I won't be asking myself shit like "but what if..." or "if only I...".

Its over. Trust me, ur never fucking this girl. Move on.

 

[Mr_Norwood]

You're Danish or Norwegian i guess? Judging by your username?

 

[Alesund]

Oh god. it's so obvious

What tf is obvious?

 

[Deleted member 4671]

Its over. Trust me, ur never fucking this girl. Move on.

he might as well ask her than ditch her.

 

[Alesund]

stop being a pussy, and ask her if she wants to come over and not be freinds you simp ass greycel

I would if I could. She lives in the states and the only time when I'll be able to meet her is for a week this summer.

 

[DutchPrettyBoy]

Some backstory:
-Girl is a 17 yr old american
-She was in my country last summer for a week
-A family friend introduced me to her and I decided to invite her to hang out
-We have a great time but me, the pussy that I was, made no advances bc she told me she has a boyfriend
-She leaves and we start texting and facetiming pretty much every other day
-She really wants me to come over for the summer and I'm feeling myself, I might actually be able to do something with her
-She brakes up with boyfriend and thanks me for telling her that he doesn't deserve(major simp moment)
-I jokingly ask her out for Valentines day but she tells me she already has one(it's her ex)
-I ignore her for a few weeks and we barely talk like we used to( like once per week)
-She finally sent me this yesterday
1)
2)

At this point, should I even bother talking to her anymore? I mog her boyfriend to death(a fugly 5'7 Ukraniancel immigrant) and I'm pretty sure when she sees my looksmaxxed self (currently gymcelling and beardmaxxing like crazy) she'll change her mind. Should I cut my losses or should I continue pursuing?

ghost her.

 

[Alesund]

You're Danish or Norwegian i guess? Judging by your username?

No, I am not. What did you meant by obvious anyways?

 

[DutchPrettyBoy]

I don't know, man. This is probably my only chance at getting laid this summer, maybe even the year. Even if nothing happens, at least I won't be asking myself shit like "but what if..." or "if only I...".

it wont happen brooo

 

[HumidVent]

I would stop talking to her. Pain of rejection from a oneitis is brutal, almost drove me to suicide. Living with the pain of regret is better.

 

[Mr_Norwood]

She likes you.. she's just trying to tempt you with bait so you can make your move and express your feelings.

Foids don't write paragraphs and paragraphs for men in the friendzone.

 

[Deleted member 4671]

I would if I could. She lives in the states and the only time when I'll be able to meet her is for a week this summer.

then ask her if she wants to fuck this summer instead of simping and then move on no point wasting time on some girl who will give you nothing basically.

 

[Alesund]

I would stop talking to her. Pain of rejection from a oneitis is brutal, almost drove me to suicide. Living with the pain of regret is better.

You may be right. I'll think about it these next few days.

She likes you.. she's just trying to tempt you with bait so you can make your move and express your feelings.

Foids don't write paragraphs and paragraphs for men in the friendzone.

Can't tell if serious or not.

then ask her if she wants to fuck this summer instead of simping and then move on no point wasting time on some girl who will give you nothing basically.

I can't do that, she's kinda prude-ish + the only way that would work if I was a 7' prettyboy behemoth.

 

[Pillarman]

tell her you didn't read a word she wrote, then send a dick pic and block her

 

[Deleted member 4671]

You may be right. I'll think about it these next few days.


Can't tell if serious or not.


I can't do that, she's kinda prude-ish + the only way that would work if I was a 7' prettyboy behemoth.

you said shes dating a ukranian fag that you mog so just go and ask her to fuck you annoying normie cunt

 

[AutisticBeaner]

Some backstory:
-Girl is a 17 yr old american
-She was in my country last summer for a week
-A family friend introduced me to her and I decided to invite her to hang out
-We have a great time but me, the pussy that I was, made no advances bc she told me she has a boyfriend
-She leaves and we start texting and facetiming pretty much every other day
-She really wants me to come over for the summer and I'm feeling myself, I might actually be able to do something with her
-She brakes up with boyfriend and thanks me for telling her that he doesn't deserve(major simp moment)
-I jokingly ask her out for Valentines day but she tells me she already has one(it's her ex)
-I ignore her for a few weeks and we barely talk like we used to( like once per week)
-She finally sent me this yesterday
1)
2)

At this point, should I even bother talking to her anymore? I mog her boyfriend to death(a fugly 5'7 Ukraniancel immigrant) and I'm pretty sure when she sees my looksmaxxed self (currently gymcelling and beardmaxxing like crazy) she'll change her mind. Should I cut my losses or should I continue pursuing?

reminds me a lot about the situation i was in about a year ago. i, too, mogged her bf into oblivion. how much of an effect does all this have on your emotions? is this very important to you?

 

[Alesund]

you said shes dating a ukranian fag that you mog so just go and ask her to fuck you annoying normie cunt

The only problem is unlike him, I'm not around her so therefore I cannot demonstrate my mogability irl.

 

[HumidVent]

She likes you.. she's just trying to tempt you with bait so you can make your move and express your feelings.

Foids don't write paragraphs and paragraphs for men in the friendzone.

My oneitis would ask me out randomly to help pick out gifts for her parents, text me first every night and write paragraphs about stuff going on in her life, would mimic my body language, would look at me first when someone made a joke, etc. I fell in love with her and I asked her out and she rejected me.

So i wouldn't necessarily say that she likes him. Some woman are masters at manipulation.

 

[Rift]

Stop texting her and unfollow her on every social media. You Might as well be her lap dog with how deep you are in this friendzone

 

[Alesund]

reminds me a lot about the situation i was in about a year ago. i, too, mogged her bf into oblivion. how much of an effect does all this have on your emotions? is this very important to you?

Yes, it has a paramount effect on my emotions- no matter what I do, whether it be gymcelling or working or playing video games, I constantly think about her. I honestly wish I never met her.

 

[Mr_Norwood]

I'm 33 seen everything, done everything.

Women are really primitive and predictable. They don't write paragraphs trying to justify their actions to a 'friend'.
Subconsciously she's trying to tell you . "say you like me, say we have a future so i don't need to be with this poor-ass Ukrainian deadbeat and his hawwt handsome looks."

 

[AutisticBeaner]

Yes, it has a paramount effect on my emotions- no matter what I do, whether it be gymcelling or working or playing video games, I constantly think about her. I honestly wish I never met her.

Exactly how I was feeling tbh. sucks but it's not gonna last forever.

 

[Alesund]

I'm 33 seen everything, done everything.

Women are really primitive and predictable. They don't write paragraphs trying to justify their actions to a 'friend'.
Subconsciously she's trying to tell you . "say you like me, say we have a future so i don't need to be with this poor-ass Ukrainian deadbeat and his hawwt handsome looks."

You most definitely have a lot more life experience that me, but I'm starting to doubt she sees me as anything more than a friend. She's the type of girl to try to get along and be nice to everyone so maybe she's a tiny bit more empathetic than your average thot. I can assume that's why she wrote this novel, to try to ease out the conflict between us I guess.

Exactly how I was feeling tbh. sucks but it's not gonna last forever.

I know, but it doesn't mean It doesn't suck major ass right now. Did you at least manage to bang your oneitis, bro?

 

[LordGodcat]

"Just how deep in the friendzone am I?"

 

[KingOfRome]

As deep as a thick hairy cock in knajjd's asshole

 

[Truemaxxer]

her boyfriend "broke her heart" and she took him back so he can do better?
You seem like the gay best friend who also happens to be a fucking green card option in the future.
Its not something special if poor people trying to keep the contact with rich people.

And she even told the pastor you are her best friend, its over son.

 

[Alesund]

her boyfriend "broke her heart" and she took him back so he can do better?
You seem like the gay best friend who also happens to be a fucking green card option in the future.
Its not something special if poor people trying to keep the contact with rich people.

And she even told the pastor you are her best friend, its over son.

I told her she deserves better because she told me he used to "emotionally abuse her" aka arguing about couple shit. At that point I didn't really have any feeling towards her so I was just like you know what do.
Also, she's the american and I'm not, so I don't see how the green card option makes sense.

 

[.👽.]

Some backstory:
-Girl is a 17 yr old american
-She was in my country last summer for a week
-A family friend introduced me to her and I decided to invite her to hang out
-We have a great time but me, the pussy that I was, made no advances bc she told me she has a boyfriend
-She leaves and we start texting and facetiming pretty much every other day
-She really wants me to come over for the summer and I'm feeling myself, I might actually be able to do something with her
-She brakes up with boyfriend and thanks me for telling her that he doesn't deserve(major simp moment)
-I jokingly ask her out for Valentines day but she tells me she already has one(it's her ex)
-I ignore her for a few weeks and we barely talk like we used to( like once per week)
-She finally sent me this yesterday
1)
2)

At this point, should I even bother talking to her anymore? I mog her boyfriend to death(a fugly 5'7 Ukraniancel immigrant) and I'm pretty sure when she sees my looksmaxxed self (currently gymcelling and beardmaxxing like crazy) she'll change her mind. Should I cut my losses or should I continue pursuing?

Normally i would say text her because you seem like have a real friendship going on which is rare. But then i saw that you have feelings for her. That sucks. You will get hurt bro. I would just answer her and say not to write you again

 

[Alesund]

Normally i would say text her because you seem like have a real friendship going on which is rare. But then i saw that you have feelings for her. That sucks. You will get hurt bro. I would just answer her and say not to write you again

I suppose that may be for the best. I guess I'll really have to think about it.

 

[Alesund]

Normally i would say text her because you seem like have a real friendship going on which is rare. But then i saw that you have feelings for her. That sucks. You will get hurt bro. I would just answer her and say not to write you again

It's been barely more than a month and I can't believe how cucked of a mindset I had back then. Time really does help when it comes to forgetting others. I no longer feel anything about this subhuman AWALT cunt and I truly wonder why I found her fugly ass attractive.

 

[GetThatBread]

you’re simping hard for a girl that had major interest at first. Women hate when they like a guy and they send signals to him hoping he picks it up early on and doesn’t. Her attraction for you isn’t completely gone but it’s almost dead. If I were you I’d ghost her and if she texts first keep it cordial. LooksMax heavy and surprise her and when she is being reciprocal to your looks you become a man and take her by the hand. Right now she sees you as the bitch boy that can’t make the first move and is her back burner option if you ever step up. You should’ve asked her to fuck the week you met her

 

[Alesund]

you’re simping hard for a girl that had major interest at first. Women hate when they like a guy and they send signals to him hoping he picks it up early on and doesn’t. Her attraction for you isn’t completely gone but it’s almost dead. If I were you I’d ghost her and if she texts first keep it cordial. LooksMax heavy and surprise her and when she is being reciprocal to your looks you become a man and take her by the hand. Right now she sees you as the bitch boy that can’t make the first move and is her back burner option if you ever step up. You should’ve asked her to fuck the week you met her

Read above you, buddy boyo.I haven't talked to her for weeks and I couldn't care less. I just revisited this thread and I'm surprised by how a single girl had such a huge influence on me over the better part of a year.I also hope that whoever comes across this thread sees how pointless simping is.

 

[dasani water]

she is literally getting anxiety thinking about you wanting a relationship with her

 

[Alesund]

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she is literally getting anxiety thinking about you wanting a relationship with her

Damn, you sure do know how to read between the lines. What an absolute bitch, I guess all girls really are the same.

 

[Spartacus1-]

Update op? What happened afterward?

 

[Alesund]

Update op? What happened afterward?

Nothing happened tbh- I stopped talking to her after the msg and life just went on like before I met her For some reason, even if I force myself, I just can't feel anything for her. The only thing I feel bad for is how this is another dating failure of mine on top of dozens of others.

 

[Spartacus1-]

Nothing happened tbh- I stopped talking to her after the msg and life just went on like before I met her For some reason, even if I force myself, I just can't feel anything for her. The only thing I feel bad for is how this is another dating failure of mine on top of dozens of others.

What a chad. You matured and learned from your mistakes which is more to say on a lot of people. Did she msg you back after that or?

 

[Alesund]

What a chad. You matured and learned from your mistakes which is more to say on a lot of people. Did she msg you back after that or?

She did, it was a few days afterwards and she just asked me how my day was. We chatted for a few minutes and I could tell conversation was really dry and it almost felt like two acquaintances talking to each other and I realized how pointless all of this was. I finished the convo and I haven't looked back- she sent a single "hey" 2 weeks ago and I haven't bothered opening it.

 

[Spartacus1-]

She did, it was a few days afterwards and she just asked me how my day was. We chatted for a few minutes and I could tell conversation was really dry and it almost felt like two acquaintances talking to each other and I realized how pointless all of this was. I finished the convo and I haven't looked back- she sent a single "hey" 2 weeks ago and I haven't bothered opening it.

 

[Greeicy]

She did, it was a few days afterwards and she just asked me how my day was. We chatted for a few minutes and I could tell conversation was really dry and it almost felt like two acquaintances talking to each other and I realized how pointless all of this was. I finished the convo and I haven't looked back- she sent a single "hey" 2 weeks ago and I haven't bothered opening it.

Good job. Trust me, when females want you they will tell you that they like you or if you tell them first then they’ll tell you that they like you or love you back. No paragraphs, no mixed signals, NOTHING. It will be clear as day. Unfortunately, most males try to delude themselves even though they know the truth but their emotions cloud their judgement and logical thinking. I was gonna laugh at you for being such a clueless simp and how she’s a manipulative whore but i’m glad you moved on. She either wants you OR she doesn’t, no such thing as hesitation or mixed feelings, that’s all bluepilled BS.

 

[Deleted member 2298]

ask her if she eats ass

 

[BrettyBoy]

Don’t contact her until she stops having a boyfriend (except when she contacts you first) and once she stops having one try contacting her then and if you don’t end up benefiting from her, block her and move on.