Just how deep in the friendzone am I?(pics inside+long read)

[Alesund]

Good job. Trust me, when females want you they will tell you that they like you or if you tell them first then they’ll tell you that they like you or love you back. No paragraphs, no mixed signals, NOTHING. It will be clear as day. Unfortunately, most males try to delude themselves even though they know the truth but their emotions cloud their judgement and logical thinking. I was gonna laugh at you for being such a clueless simp and how she’s a manipulative whore but i’m glad you moved on. She either wants you OR she doesn’t, no such thing as hesitation or mixed feelings, that’s all bluepilled BS.

Indeed,son. After she broke up with her boyfriend, I confessed my feelings to her(major barf) a few weeks later and she told she just isn't ready for a relationship.Not even a week later she told me about a crush she had on this sleezy 12 yr old looking faggot with a disgusting pubelike moustache. She also for no goddamn reason told me about 2 or 3 dudes she saw that she found hot. Looking back and thinking about this feels me with rage and disgust, I swear to Allah I will never be such a simp ever again.

 

[Greeicy]

Indeed,son. After she broke up with her boyfriend, I confessed my feelings to her(major barf) a few weeks later and she told she just isn't ready for a relationship.Not even a week later she told me about a crush she had on this sleezy 12 yr old looking faggot with a disgusting pubelike moustache. She also for no goddamn reason told me about 2 or 3 dudes she saw that she found hot. Looking back and thinking about this feels me with rage and disgust, I swear to Allah I will never be such a simp ever again.

Yup. I feel you on looking back at things and feeling so much rage. I had some shit happen to me with my first GF and I always look back on how she treated me and compare how other guys got treated and I feel so much anger. Long story short version : if a female wants you, she will be in a relationship with you INSTANTLY NO QUESTIONS ASKED. Anything else is a waste of time and energy.

 

[Vermilioncore]

She’s a whore who needs to be exterminated like a cockroach. It’s that simple

 

[Alesund]

Yup. I feel you on looking back at things and feeling so much rage. I had some shit happen to me with my first GF and I always look back on how she treated me and compare how other guys got treated and I feel so much anger. Long story short version : if a female wants you, she will be in a relationship with you INSTANTLY NO QUESTIONS ASKED. Anything else is a waste of time and energy.

At least a girl found you attractive enough to be your gf and judging by the "first" part it means you've had at least two or more. I haven't as much as kissed a girl and getting treated by some mentally ill pathetic twat like some asexual being despite mogging the absolute shit out of all her crushes/boyfriend is destroying my mental health.

 

[ThreadMatters]

Not even reading that
But still knowing ur in deep shit when u write paragraphs for a bitch

 

[Greeicy]

At least a girl found you attractive enough to be your gf and judging by the "first" part it means you've had at least two or more. I haven't as much as kissed a girl and getting treated by some mentally ill pathetic twat like some asexual being despite mogging the absolute shit out of all her crushes/boyfriend is destroying my mental health.

Honestly bro, go for a female who may not be cute but you feel like will treat you well just for first time experience. Don’t keep aiming too high way above your looksmatch. I only had 2 GFs and the first one was so toxic that I wouldn’t want to call her as someone who I had a “relationship” with and the 2nd one we just kissed but never had sex and I never cared to be in LTR with her anyways. Just keep trying and talking to lots of females at once. Try hanging out with me in real life though because that’s how attraction grows.

 

[Alesund]

Honestly bro, go for a female who may not be cute but you feel like will treat you well just for first time experience. Don’t keep aiming too high way above your looksmatch. I only had 2 GFs and the first one was so toxic that I wouldn’t want to call her as someone who I had a “relationship” with and the 2nd one we just kissed but never had sex and I never cared to be in LTR with her anyways. Just keep trying and talking to lots of females at once. Try hanging out with me in real life though because that’s how attraction grows.

And that's the funniest part: She is as plain as they come, I would even say below average just based on facial aesthetics. I'm better looking than her, I'm more than a foot taller than her, she literally looks like a ugly midget next to me. I guess that's why it hurts so much.

 

[Greeicy]

And that's the funniest part: She is as plain as they come, I would even say below average just based on facial aesthetics. I'm better looking than her, I'm more than a foot taller than her, she literally looks like a ugly midget next to me. I guess that's why it hurts so much.

Just keep trying. Try social circles, classmates, female friends, etc...Talk to a lot and hang out with a lot of them and don’t get attached to only one of them. Eventually, you’ll find a female who likes you or you feel like that she likes you back. How tall are you tho? And are you sure you are not overrating yourself?

 

[Alesund]

I'm about 1.89m or 6'2.5 and while I'm definitely not gl by any means, I'm 110% sure I'm better looking than her. Anyways, I'll take your advice and try to make the best out of this situation. Thanks, Broskie <3 .

 

[Mr_Norwood]

I think the girl in question is living an internal struggle between her desires for Chad (her bf) .. and the foreign normie (you).

Women absolutely love the romantic notion of having a foreign boyfriend. Look at all the romance novels written and the movies.. about the girl (usually American or British) falling for that foreign guy...

You don't have the looks therefore it's not as cut and dry for her.

 

[karbo]

just stop fucking talking to this whore, nothing makes me more mad than whores using you as emotional support
the only time i talk to females is when i havent done homework and they send it to me

 

[Alesund]

I think the girl in question is living an internal struggle between her desires for Chad (her bf) .. and the foreign normie (you).

Women absolutely love the romantic notion of having a foreign boyfriend. Look at all the romance novels written and the movies.. about the girl (usually American or British) falling for that foreign guy...

You don't have the looks therefore it's not as cut and dry for her.

I do agree I have normie looks at best, but I literally mog her "Chad" boyfriend in every way possible- height, frame, face, fighting ability and etc. I guess I'm just not good looking enough for this sort of "love triangle".

 

[Mr_Norwood]

I do agree I have normie looks at best, but I literally mog her "Chad" boyfriend in every way possible- height, frame, face, fighting ability and etc. I guess I'm just not good looking enough for this sort of "love triangle".

Are you sure her bf is ugly? Can we have his photo?

 

[Greeicy]

I do agree I have normie looks at best, but I literally mog her "Chad" boyfriend in every way possible- height, frame, face, fighting ability and etc. I guess I'm just not good looking enough for this sort of "love triangle".

Imagine settling down for a love triangle. Bro, these manipulative whores will go to the extreme to keep their emotional tampon by their side. I had similar things happen to me and I can tell you that it wasn’t gonna go anywhere and your chances of her becoming your GF are as high as your chances of becoming president of Mars. I’m glad that you moved on because this seemed just a simple crush not someone you spent so much time with or an oneitis.

 

[Alesund]

Are you sure her bf is ugly? Can we have his photo?

I wouldn't say ugly If i have to as honest as possible, but definitely below average due to various reasons- a certified manlet barely taller her, unkempt greasy hair, has a somewhat ok face but definitely no more than average. I'm not gonna show a photo for obvious reasons but If I have to compare him to someone it looks like this dude(+bushier eyebrows and a sparse beard) I found on lookism:

Imagine settling down for a love triangle. Bro, these manipulative whores will go to the extreme to keep their emotional tampon by their side. I had similar things happen to me and I can tell you that it wasn’t gonna go anywhere and your chances of her becoming your GF are as high as your chances of becoming president of Mars. I’m glad that you moved on because this seemed just a simple crush not someone you spent so much time with or an oneitis.

I didn't say settle, I just said I'm not even attractive enough to be in this position. And yes, she definitely was a huge oneitis, probably the biggest one I've had mostly because I've actually talked to her for more than a few mins unlike with previous oneitises.

 

[Deleted member 6453]

if you have to ask, youre in it

 

[mulattomaxxer]

dude this girl is 1000s miles away from you. There are plenty of other women near to you. You need to let this girl go, you will find somebody else. I guess you can go meet this girl in august and try and pump and dump her (trying to long distance sounds dumb as shit). She sounds semi interested and im sure you could fuck her in a week if you mog her current bf. However I would just drop her, travelling that distance sounds like a waste of time and money.

This sounds like she is trying to keep you in reserve as a plan B, do you really want to be a girls plan B??? Right now your basically this girls sidepiece and emotional tampon, drop this girl asap.

 

[Deleted member 1560]

Your looks is inversely proportional to how deep you are in the friendzone.

 

[Maxximilian]

Friendzone is suifuel