Just realized why (some) woman say personality is more important than looks.

[aphoria]

They are coping - lying to themselves to get over chad whom they couldn't hold on to. Trying to convince themselves that betabuxx they have now is better than chad from their past. So now you know you why and can put truth right into their faces - "you were not good enough to keep chad".

if I could be with a perfect 10 stuck up cunt bitch or a 7 with a bubbly personality I’m going with the 7 every time [...] I had an ex that was objectively super attractive. At the time, hands down hottest guy I’d ever dated. Until I got to know him, and now I think how ugly he is bc he’s an angry bitter asshole that got really abusive/manipulative any time things didn’t go how he wanted them to. [....] We had dated in the past when we were both in high school and the break up was horrible and messy. So when we got back together (Me: jfl) [...] he became an angry bitter asshole that slept around, drank/smoked too much, and picked fights with anyone just bc. Despite those behaviors already being there in high school (and part of the reason I bailed the first time) [...] When we dated, I said I didn’t want to have sex. He raped me repeatedly over a couple months bc he’d pressured me (Me: jfl) [...] I didn’t report him, but I told my parents and the wife of the campus director who banned him from coming on campus (Me: bragging to society that she is sleeping with chad) [...]

Poor foid still obviously has feelings for him.

 

[Rabbi]

This.
Ik it’s a redpill term but it’s legit it’s called a ‘alpha widow’