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i've been dating this girl for a few months and i'd say we're a pretty good looksmatch and we get along do normal relationship partner shit like going out or spending time with each other and i enjoy it and i love this girl but who gives a fuck.

my real issue is that i feel like im showing/being much more loyal and putting alot more effort into this relationship and wanting us to grow together at a consistent rate by always giving good advice when it comes to her friends or whatever shit i need to give my advice on but when i express an insecurity or express vulnerability when she says something i dont see as being faithful or loyal she accuses me of not trusting her or stuff like that.

not to mention that her best friend is an absolute whore and she still sticks around her lol. i've told her and expressed my opinions on her friend who is a college whore who is in college and made comments/jokes about other dudes meanwhile shes in a relationship. my girlfriend acknowledges and calls her out on it subtly but in the end they're always together.

I trust this girl and love her but not the people around her i wouldn't have gotten with her if i didn't know what type of person she was

i kinda feel like im living a watered down nightmare
 
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take this to reddit,
im pretty sure no one here is interested in reading about your relationship stuff
 
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If u feel like it doesn't work maybe its better to end it earlier before you get too attached, can't really help much more other than that
 
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See this is why I stick to meaningless sex

No need to deal with these horrible situations

Good luck twin
 
dnr
 
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i've been dating this girl for a few months and i'd say we're a pretty good looksmatch and we get along do normal relationship partner shit like going out or spending time with each other and i enjoy it and i love this girl but who gives a fuck.

my real issue is that i feel like im showing/being much more loyal and putting alot more effort into this relationship and wanting us to grow together at a consistent rate by always giving good advice when it comes to her friends or whatever shit i need to give my advice on but when i express an insecurity or express vulnerability when she says something i dont see as being faithful or loyal she accuses me of not trusting her or stuff like that.

not to mention that her best friend is an absolute whore and she still sticks around her lol. i've told her and expressed my opinions on her friend who is a college whore who is in college and made comments/jokes about other dudes meanwhile shes in a relationship. my girlfriend acknowledges and calls her out on it subtly but in the end they're always together.

I trust this girl and love her but not the people around her i wouldn't have gotten with her if i didn't know what type of person she was

i kinda feel like im living a watered down nightmare
Leave her
 
If u feel like it doesn't work maybe its better to end it earlier before you get too attached, can't really help much more other than that
i feel like i have no reason to end it. i'd rather her go off to college we grow distant and i get hit with a voice note of her getting annihilated so i can pity myself
 
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fuck her then kick her ass to the curb. that’s what i always do. works like a charm for me
 
WHAT IF NINJA GOT A LOW TAPER FADE THOUGH
 
See this is why I stick to meaningless sex

No need to deal with these horrible situations

Good luck twin
i dont wish i could do this because i believe theres true love but i just dont think idk idk
 
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fuck her then kick her ass to the curb. that’s what i always do. works like a charm for me
more power to you bro im too pussy and get invested 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
 
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i dont wish i could do this because i believe theres true love but i just dont think idk idk
Love is so appealing but I'm not in a place where it would be productive for me to commit to a relationship.

I hope you can figure it out. Sucks that her friends are whores.
 
Love is so appealing but I'm not in a place where it would be productive for me to commit to a relationship.

I hope you can figure it out. Sucks that her friends are whores.
do you mean financially or mentally? i'm nowhere near the end goal with those two but this girl has never pressured me into buying anything or stuff like that
 
All women are foids why you still fall this jew delulu proganda that the show empathy 😂
 
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i've been dating this girl for a few months and i'd say we're a pretty good looksmatch and we get along do normal relationship partner shit like going out or spending time with each other and i enjoy it and i love this girl but who gives a fuck.

my real issue is that i feel like im showing/being much more loyal and putting alot more effort into this relationship and wanting us to grow together at a consistent rate by always giving good advice when it comes to her friends or whatever shit i need to give my advice on but when i express an insecurity or express vulnerability when she says something i dont see as being faithful or loyal she accuses me of not trusting her or stuff like that.

not to mention that her best friend is an absolute whore and she still sticks around her lol. i've told her and expressed my opinions on her friend who is a college whore who is in college and made comments/jokes about other dudes meanwhile shes in a relationship. my girlfriend acknowledges and calls her out on it subtly but in the end they're always together.

I trust this girl and love her but not the people around her i wouldn't have gotten with her if i didn't know what type of person she was

i kinda feel like im living a watered down nightmare
bro genuinely was me a few months ago and you need to get out asap, theres more fish in the sea she is NOT the one and your wife wouldnt have you stressin like she does
 
do you mean financially or mentally? i'm nowhere near the end goal with those two but this girl has never pressured me into buying anything or stuff like that
Mentally

I just can't commit the time or the emotional bandwidth to a real relationship.

I've been enjoying hooking up with my hgs tho so it's all good.

I like the casual sex and friendship but I'm not ready for love or dating.

Also can't miss whore summer 2026
 
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bro genuinely was me a few months ago and you need to get out asap, theres more fish in the sea she is NOT the one and your wife wouldnt have you stressin like she does
what was the straw that broke ur back with her
 
Tell her u found a bf
 
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Mentally

I just can't commit the time or the emotional bandwidth to a real relationship.

I've been enjoying hooking up with my hgs tho so it's all good.

I like the casual sex and friendship but I'm not ready for love or dating.

Also can't miss whore summer 2026
thats fair, i can commit to relationships but bro when im feeling like this idk
 
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cant do much other than hope. dont keep bringing it up or youre just gonna look like the most insecure nigga on earth. grow some balls and stop being so obsessed over her. if she cheats then big deal but you can never have 100% trust so stop overthinking so much and enjoy what you have
 
thats fair, i can commit to relationships but bro when im feeling like this idk
Hey it means you care. Sounds ass tho
 
finding 300 guys on her phone :lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul:
would've broke me, havent found other dudes on her phone but its way too early to turn a blind eye later on
 
Manipulate her and isolate her. Don’t know how but it’s the only solution.
 
cant do much other than hope. dont keep bringing it up or youre just gonna look like the most insecure nigga on earth. grow some balls and stop being so obsessed over her. if she cheats then big deal but you can never have 100% trust so stop overthinking so much and enjoy what you have
good advice thanks
 
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would've broke me, havent found other dudes on her phone but its way too early to turn a blind eye later on
bro i could have never guessed 300 fucking guys :lul: was a crazy night ngl but genuinely changed my perspective on women like ts made me asexual for a minute
 
Manipulate her and isolate her. Don’t know how but it’s the only solution.
sounds wrong when laid out like this but i've had watered down thoughts not too far off from this
 
bro i could have never guessed 300 fucking guys :lul: was a crazy night ngl but genuinely changed my perspective on women like ts made me asexual for a minute
are you exaggerating the number or was there too much to even count
 
are you exaggerating the number or was there too much to even count
not exaggerating, the night i found out she was flirting with other guys i thought it was only like 50 (jfl still a fuck ton) but forgave her and later saw on her 2025 snapchat rewind that she added 296 new friends. Only like 5 of those were girls
 
not exaggerating, the night i found out she was flirting with other guys i thought it was only like 50 (jfl still a fuck ton) but forgave her and later saw on her 2025 snapchat rewind that she added 296 new friends. Only like 5 of those were girls
rough man hope the best for you
 
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i've been dating this girl for a few months and i'd say we're a pretty good looksmatch and we get along do normal relationship partner shit like going out or spending time with each other and i enjoy it and i love this girl but who gives a fuck.

my real issue is that i feel like im showing/being much more loyal and putting alot more effort into this relationship and wanting us to grow together at a consistent rate by always giving good advice when it comes to her friends or whatever shit i need to give my advice on but when i express an insecurity or express vulnerability when she says something i dont see as being faithful or loyal she accuses me of not trusting her or stuff like that.

not to mention that her best friend is an absolute whore and she still sticks around her lol. i've told her and expressed my opinions on her friend who is a college whore who is in college and made comments/jokes about other dudes meanwhile shes in a relationship. my girlfriend acknowledges and calls her out on it subtly but in the end they're always together.

I trust this girl and love her but not the people around her i wouldn't have gotten with her if i didn't know what type of person she was

i kinda feel like im living a watered down nightmare
Assuming your girlfriend is attracted to you still, I think that your girlfriend’s friend is not a good influence on her.
 

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