Just saw myself as a 14 yo. Turns out I'm a mentalcel. 40yo virgin now. A life wasted over nothing.

[reborn]

So I am a 40yo virgin now and I just saw a video of myself as a 14 yo. I was NOT ugly. I was just SHY AS FUCK. I spoke with a high pitch voice all the time rather than speaking with a lower voice which I easily could have. I was also smiling all the time. I was pretty much like a girl. No surpirse no girl wanted to fuck me.

So then after 18 I let myself got fat. I thought it was over so I didn't even try anymore. I spent most of my life at home in isolation until I was like 32. Then as my internet money source had dried out I was forced to get a job which forced me to leave the house. Probably the best thing that ever happened to me. Because I finally learned to stop smiling all the time like an idiot and to speak to people and speak in front of people and shit.

However, I remained unable to get my fat ass in shape. And get my shit together. But things are changing now.

Thinking about all this it seems to me like I would not have needed to suffer like this. I could have had a normal life.

So let this be a warning to you youngcels. Don't give yourself up thinking you are an incel. It might turn into a self fullfilling prophecy.

My dad never taught me to be a man. This is probably the main issue.

 

[Deleted member 24593]

Pics?

 

[reborn]

Pics?

Sorry don't want to doxx myself.

 

[Deleted member 17872]

That's the fate of many here

 

[Dr. Bludy]

 

[Deleted member 21735]

My. Condolences

 

[Deleted member 19174]

How do you realize this now at 40? Wtf did you do all these years?

 

[Deleted member 4362]

Dn rd

 

[reborn]

How do you realize this now at 40? Wtf did you do all these years?

I did LDAR just like all the incels do.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s now and in a similar situation as OP. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life.

 

[JBcollector]

So I am a 40yo virgin now and I just saw a video of myself as a 14 yo. I was NOT ugly. I was just SHY AS FUCK. I spoke with a high pitch voice all the time rather than speaking with a lower voice which I easily could have. I was also smiling all the time. I was pretty much like a girl. No surpirse no girl wanted to fuck me.

So then after 18 I let myself got fat. I thought it was over so I didn't even try anymore. I spent most of my life at home in isolation until I was like 32. Then as my internet money source had dried out I was forced to get a job which forced me to leave the house. Probably the best thing that ever happened to me. Because I finally learned to stop smiling all the time like an idiot and to speak to people and speak in front of people and shit.

However, I remained unable to get my fat ass in shape. And get my shit together. But things are changing now.

Thinking about all this it seems to me like I would not have needed to suffer like this. I could have had a normal life.

So let this be a warning to you youngcels. Don't give yourself up thinking you are an incel. It might turn into a self fullfilling prophecy.

My dad never taught me to be a man. This is probably the main issue.

You can still turn your life around it's never over

 

[reborn]

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s now and in a similar situation as OP. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life.

Absolutely 100% true. Time just goes by so far. You guys think a 40 yo is an old fuck. But the truth is I remember being 25 so well. And it's only 15 years ago. 15 years go by like nothing if you LDAR. You play this game for 100 hours, then that game for 100 hours. Then another game for 200 hours and BAM you are 40. And trust me guys in my mind I am still that 25 yo kid.

The only thing that brings development is discipline and pain. NO you can't do it later. NO you can't relax a little longer. You have to act NOW because life is short.

 

[reborn]

You can still turn your life around it's never over

Says a dude called JBCollector. LOL You are right though and I'm trying.

 

[Gonthar]

You can still turn your life around it's never over

How, I'm 40 too, what do I do now?

 

[Deleted member 2130]

How, I'm 40 too, what do I do now?

Take tren you have nothing to lose

 

[JBcollector]

How, I'm 40 too, what do I do now?

you are a cuck you so commit suicide faggot

 

[pardocel]

Wasted potential is one of the biggest ropefuels tbh.

 

[ihatereddit]

Brutal truthpill feels like I was 17 3 years ago but it was almost a decade ago

 

[Gonthar]

Take tren you have nothing to lose

Why, what will it do?

 

[Deleted member 20631]

Brutal truthpill feels like I was 17 3 years ago but it was almost a decade ago

17 feels like 5 years ago and it was only 2

 

[Jigen]

Height?

 

[reborn]

Height?

5'10

 

[Deleted member 2130]

Why, what will it do?

You will go bald which is masculine

 

[Deleted member 23778]

Do you looksmax at all?

 

[stevielake]

Damn, 40. I would've been blew my brains the fuck out by 30. You have great willpower, try to use it to ascend.

 

[reborn]

Do you looksmax at all?

I have started to go on a diet and do some sports.

 

[Deleted member 8608]

Absolutely 100% true. Time just goes by so far. You guys think a 40 yo is an old fuck. But the truth is I remember being 25 so well. And it's only 15 years ago. 15 years go by like nothing if you LDAR. You play this game for 100 hours, then that game for 100 hours. Then another game for 200 hours and BAM you are 40. And trust me guys in my mind I am still that 25 yo kid.

The only thing that brings development is discipline and pain. NO you can't do it later. NO you can't relax a little longer. You have to act NOW because life is short.

REAL SHIT MAN, YOU SPEAK THE TRUTH BUT..... WHY DONT YOU GET LAID NOW JFL YOU CONTRADICT YOURSELF

 

[reborn]

REAL SHIT MAN, YOU SPEAK THE TRUTH BUT..... WHY DONT YOU GET LAID NOW JFL YOU CONTRADICT YOURSELF

I will go to a hooker once I have lost weight. I literally couldn't do it right now. If you are really fat your dick gets tiny because there is too much fat around it making it shorter. I couldn't fuck right now. Physically impossible.

 

[max_frisch]

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s now and in a similar situation as OP. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life.

 

[Deleted member 12234]

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s now and in a similar situation as OP. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life.

This is why everyone should force themselves to make friends. Your friends will literally force you out the house and to do shit, forcing you into social situations instead of rotting. Social-maxxing is the very least you can do, even if you think you're ugly.