aerian
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- Nov 9, 2025
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how the fuck are you supposed to even find friends if you were to drop out of highschool? i dont wanna make friends with people at my job the phrase "coworker music" exists for a reason and i can see it in people around me when im on shift. i almost feel bad for saying this or shaming the people i hang around but is it genuinely that wrong to want to make friends with people you'd enjoy being friends with and not the equivalent of hanging with the weird kid next door.
i tried to make friends with people in my city through instagram and after initially actually having good conversations they all fucking blocked me after finding out i was 17??? these people were 19. its not even like im trying to fuck them, nor do i ever flirt. can you not handle yourself around me because im not sub3 or something? i genuinely dont understand how to socialize.
ill post about it on various social medias and people tell me to "go to a concert and talk to people" or to "download wizz". i would rather kill myself then download wizz in 2026.
if i was to "go to a concert and talk to people" wtf would even be the conversation? do i walk up to them and ask them if they like the music?? people give me the stupidest advice ever every single fucking time and i just assume its because theyve never had genuine issues making friends with people. its not even like im unfriendly, even if you annoy me deeply i wont be disrespectful or like outwardly any type of way (at least to your face xd) im very easy to talk to and yet people just refuse to entertain or pursue any type of friendship with me?
why does no one ever have a fucking solution that genuinely works, am i doomed to being a fucking loser introvert for the rest of my life? i need socialization to function and i just cant escape being isolate no matter what i do.
my reality of waking up everyday and barely EVER getting a text from someone to go and hang out is miserable. i will scroll through reels or see a youtube video where some people are close friends && it is very obvious and i notice it immediately and it makes me get sad. i dont even feel that uncool, i post myself on social media every so often and people tell me i look cool or ask to be mutuals with me and then proceed to still never talk to me but like all my posts?
i seriously cant grasp this at all. humans are known to be social creatures and theres numerous cases of people going insane in isolation yet i'd say im trying decently hard to not be in isolation in the middle of a fucking city yet i still am.
i tried to make friends with people in my city through instagram and after initially actually having good conversations they all fucking blocked me after finding out i was 17??? these people were 19. its not even like im trying to fuck them, nor do i ever flirt. can you not handle yourself around me because im not sub3 or something? i genuinely dont understand how to socialize.
ill post about it on various social medias and people tell me to "go to a concert and talk to people" or to "download wizz". i would rather kill myself then download wizz in 2026.
if i was to "go to a concert and talk to people" wtf would even be the conversation? do i walk up to them and ask them if they like the music?? people give me the stupidest advice ever every single fucking time and i just assume its because theyve never had genuine issues making friends with people. its not even like im unfriendly, even if you annoy me deeply i wont be disrespectful or like outwardly any type of way (at least to your face xd) im very easy to talk to and yet people just refuse to entertain or pursue any type of friendship with me?
why does no one ever have a fucking solution that genuinely works, am i doomed to being a fucking loser introvert for the rest of my life? i need socialization to function and i just cant escape being isolate no matter what i do.
my reality of waking up everyday and barely EVER getting a text from someone to go and hang out is miserable. i will scroll through reels or see a youtube video where some people are close friends && it is very obvious and i notice it immediately and it makes me get sad. i dont even feel that uncool, i post myself on social media every so often and people tell me i look cool or ask to be mutuals with me and then proceed to still never talk to me but like all my posts?
i seriously cant grasp this at all. humans are known to be social creatures and theres numerous cases of people going insane in isolation yet i'd say im trying decently hard to not be in isolation in the middle of a fucking city yet i still am.
