Hahacrazy
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I hate this cope. I see it in the bp community as well so it's not only turbo-normies who repeat it. Those who promote this believe that the foids you meet on social media, dating apps, bars or clubs are all superficial/hypergamous/promiscuous/low quality. Meanwhile, the foids you meet in warm environments or in any irl environment that is not a bar or club will be less of the four qualities I just mentioned, and you will therefore get favourable outcomes. This is framed as the "authentic" way of meeting people.
The truth is, even the women in the latter kinds of environments all have social media and dating apps, and go to bars and clubs. They are largely willing to meet a random guy off social media if the right one reaches out to them. She will subconsciously compare you to the men she sees on her phone or in the cold environments. Doesn't matter if this girl is your classmate, coworker, or if she is a family friend in your neighbourhood. Jfl if you think such a girl will not consider meeting a random guy she deems attractive off of instagram if he reaches out.
Even if she doesn't go to clubs/bars and is not keen on social media/dating apps, what makes you think she is any less slutty/disrespectful/hypergamous? Women all have standards/preferences and will meet whoever they want however they want, and will then treat these men as they please.
The distinctions between online & irl dating, and warm & cold environments disappeared several years ago. If you say otherwise, you are just out of the loop.
The truth is, even the women in the latter kinds of environments all have social media and dating apps, and go to bars and clubs. They are largely willing to meet a random guy off social media if the right one reaches out to them. She will subconsciously compare you to the men she sees on her phone or in the cold environments. Doesn't matter if this girl is your classmate, coworker, or if she is a family friend in your neighbourhood. Jfl if you think such a girl will not consider meeting a random guy she deems attractive off of instagram if he reaches out.
Even if she doesn't go to clubs/bars and is not keen on social media/dating apps, what makes you think she is any less slutty/disrespectful/hypergamous? Women all have standards/preferences and will meet whoever they want however they want, and will then treat these men as they please.
The distinctions between online & irl dating, and warm & cold environments disappeared several years ago. If you say otherwise, you are just out of the loop.
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