Just went on a night out and got brutally rejected by every girl I approached

[....]

I have 34 slays yes

Mostly from online tho

DO U ONLY APPROACH 10/10 girls

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

DO U ONLY APPROACH 10/10 girls

I was approaching normie girl

I think I looksmogged most girls I approached, I approach most girls who aren’t either in a massive gorup or already chatting to a guy or something

It’s only fat girls I refuse to approach tbh not looking for models

 

[....]

I was approaching normie girl

I think I looksmogged most girls I approached, I approach most girls who aren’t either in a massive gorup or already chatting to a guy or something

It’s only fat girls I refuse to approach tbh not looking for models

If by the end of the night you haven't found anything, you might aswell just bring a fat chick home lol

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

If by the end of the night you haven't found anything, you might aswell just bring a fat chick home lol

Nah disgusting tbh-

And I can get at least some slim girl online so what’s the point

 

[Deleted member 16944]

Get over yourself. Lmao.

No one on this forum can handle rejection. So thin skinned, so entitled. As soon as a girl doesn't validate you you have to vent about it.

Everyone on this forum should go and do 100 approaches during the day. You'd soon realise how normal rejection is. Some days you'll go out and get a number from every girl you speak to, other days you'll get zero numbers from 10 approaches. It happens, it's a random process.

 

[....]

Get over yourself. Lmao.

No one on this forum can handle rejection. So thin skinned, so entitled. As soon as a girl doesn't validate you you have to vent about it.

Everyone on this forum should go and do 100 approaches during the day. You'd soon realise how normal rejection is. Some days you'll go out and get a number from every girl you speak to, other days you'll get zero numbers from 10 approaches. It happens, it's a random process.

Approaching 100 girls is akin to begging.

How do you maintain self respect after approaching 100 girls and getting rejected by 99

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Get over yourself. Lmao.

No one on this forum can handle rejection. So thin skinned, so entitled. As soon as a girl doesn't validate you you have to vent about it.

Everyone on this forum should go and do 100 approaches during the day. You'd soon realise how normal rejection is. Some days you'll go out and get a number from every girl you speak to, other days you'll get zero numbers from 10 approaches. It happens, it's a random process.

I would’ve hoped from 10 approaches to have at least 1 girl entertain a conversation with me

It’s like you have to be chad just to get a non fat girl to give you the time of day

 

[zerofad3]

Approaching 100 girls is akin to begging.

How do you maintain self respect after approaching 100 girls and getting rejected by 99

It's not begging. Its just work, grinding for leads. Who gives a shit about rejects from girls.

Only problem is you need to have good volume.

 

[Deleted member 16944]

I would’ve hoped from 10 approaches to have at least 1 girl entertain a conversation with me

It’s like you have to be chad just to get a non fat girl to give you the time of day

But you went out with forevergymcelling and that ethnic guy and did ok right? It's a random process. 10 is a lot of rejections but it's still within the normal range

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

But you went out with forevergymcelling and that ethnic guy and did ok right? It's a random process. 10 is a lot of rejections but it's still within the normal range

That was in a different location though

And yes tbh on that night most girls who I spoke to seemed receptive to me and some were defo flirting and giving IOIs

Last night was so much more brutal

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Ah fair



Looks more aesthetic than any physique pic I've ever taken, mirin
I think online mogs nights out for running lean body halo, as proven by your results

To be fair I was out last night in a loose fighting long sleeve button up shirt so my physique was essentially worthless because you can’t even tell I lift in clothes like that.

I wonder if I had been wearing a medium size slim fit t sirt (what I usually wear), I would’ve been treated differently

 

[LightSkinNoob]

I don’t agree

Yes HTN

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Does this make a difference


He’s mtn and htn after rhino

I thought you said my rhino wouldnt make a significant difference?

 

[Blackgymmax]

To be fair I was out last night in a loose fighting long sleeve button up shirt so my physique was essentially worthless because you can’t even tell I lift in clothes like that.

I wonder if I had been wearing a medium size slim fit t sirt (what I usually wear), I would’ve been treated differently

natty lifting failo, over

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

natty lifting failo, over

Should I lose 10lbs of muscle then I’ll slay?

 

[the BULL]

dw bro i got you. just wait for my iron main suit

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

@tyronelite you lied to me im going back to tinder where I can actually slay fuck irl

 

[wannaimprove]

over for britishcells

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

I read a story autistically (read what I wanted, the rest was blah-blah-blah, inaudible, inaudible), anyway, California, or Colorado, might be Washington, no idea, but a nightclub enacted a rule against men. No staring or looking at a girl unless she gives you permission.

I also read, from a different story similar that they might enact another rule later, No approaching girl unless she gives you permission. Boom! Bumble ways are about to become LAW.

I love it!

Let me see if i can find it ...

GOT IT!

Nightclub bans ‘staring’ without ‘verbal consent’ in new ‘woke’ policy

The venue posted the update on its Instagram account, saying the club is “not a place to come to if your sole purpose is to ‘pick up.’”

nypost.com

 

[Deleted member 19610]

Get over yourself. Lmao.

No one on this forum can handle rejection. So thin skinned, so entitled. As soon as a girl doesn't validate you you have to vent about it.

Everyone on this forum should go and do 100 approaches during the day. You'd soon realise how normal rejection is. Some days you'll go out and get a number from every girl you speak to, other days you'll get zero numbers from 10 approaches. It happens, it's a random process.

PUAcel detected.

Rejection isn't some normal thing that you want to add to your life like the PUAs told you. If you were doing daygame as you described then you should just go through the stage of spamming approaches, getting leads and then following them up to get some kind of LTR. You don't become a perpetual daygame PUAcel whose life is full of rejection and he has developed some aspie concepts that rejection is good. It's just hilarious seeing "daygamers" that have been going out on the streets for 10 years and getting rejected with little success and convinced themselves that they are a loser who enjoys rejection and who gets rejected regularly. You definitely have to have some autistic traits to get there.

 

[9 yo normie]

I've literally met him irl

and this is supposed to make you objective? lmao

you are the type of a guy who'd start claiming sri lanka was actually packed with gigachads if you moved there

 

[forevergymcelling]

and this is supposed to make you objective? lmao

you are the type of a guy who'd start claiming sri lanka was actually packed with gigachads if you moved there

Sure thing buddy

 

[BetterUnborn]

Wtf man I felt like I was blakckops2cel or some shit

I could eve get a single girl to entertain a conversation with me

Most brutal shit ever

I approached about 7-8 girls (can’t remember exact number). But not a single one even entertained my presence or gave me a chance

I was approaching normie girl

I think I looksmogged most girls I approached, I approach most girls who aren’t either in a massive gorup or already chatting to a guy or something

It’s only fat girls I refuse to approach tbh not looking for models

OP were you drinking and low inhibition maxxing? If I take 2-3 shots before going I literally have great convos with tons of women. What’s your height?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

OP were you drinking and low inhibition maxxing? If I take 2-3 shots before going I literally have great convos with tons of women. What’s your height?

i was pretty drunk had way more than 2-3 shots.

181cm

 

[Deleted member 16944]

PUAcel detected.

Rejection isn't some normal thing that you want to add to your life like the PUAs told you. If you were doing daygame as you described then you should just go through the stage of spamming approaches, getting leads and then following them up to get some kind of LTR. You don't become a perpetual daygame PUAcel whose life is full of rejection and he has developed some aspie concepts that rejection is good. It's just hilarious seeing "daygamers" that have been going out on the streets for 10 years and getting rejected with little success and convinced themselves that they are a loser who enjoys rejection and who gets rejected regularly. You definitely have to have some autistic traits to get there.

You're clueless. Rejection is not 'good' but it IS normal and IS a fact of life. Aspies here think you can avoid it - you CAN'T. As I've said before, you are getting rejected constantly, even if you just walk down the street and a girl doesn't make eye contact with you - that is her rejecting you. Just because you want to deny its existence doesn't mean it's not happening. Unless you are elite 9/10 in looks rejection WILL happen often. When you make a tinder profile you're getting rejected in real time by tons of girls - just because you can't SEE it doesn't mean it's not happening.

You have a childlike mindset and your words reveal a lack of experience and cowardice. No one who does daygame and gets good results (like me and my friends) has that mindset. Being a basement dwelling incel like you will shield you from rejection to some extent but you'll rarely bang any decent women.

JFL. Denying rejection is normal is like denying that we need to breathe oxygen or take a shit

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

You're clueless. Rejection is not 'good' but it IS normal and IS a fact of life. Aspies here think you can avoid it - you CAN'T. As I've said before, you are getting rejected constantly, even if you just walk down the street and a girl doesn't make eye contact with you - that is her rejecting you. Just because you want to deny its existence doesn't mean it's not happening. Unless you are elite 9/10 in looks rejection WILL happen often. When you make a tinder profile you're getting rejected in real time by tons of girls - just because you can't SEE it doesn't mean it's not happening.

You have a childlike mindset and your words reveal a lack of experience and cowardice. No one who does daygame and gets good results (like me and my friends) has that mindset. Being a basement dwelling incel like you will shield you from rejection to some extent but you'll rarely bang any decent women.

JFL. Denying rejection is normal is like denying that we need to breathe oxygen or take a shit

I think theres too sides to this coin

If you went out did 100 approaches and got rejected by all you should probs work on your looks more before exposing yourself to more rejection/trauma again

But if I approached 10 girls and maybe like half of them were somewhat receptive to me and 1 or 2 of them made out with/got their number that would be a decent ratio imo and not unrealistic for a decent looking albeit not chad tier guy

 

[Deleted member 16944]

I think theres too sides to this coin

If you went out did 100 approaches and got rejected by all you should probs work on your looks more before exposing yourself to more rejection/trauma again

But if I approached 10 girls and maybe like half of them were somewhat receptive to me and 1 or 2 of them made out with/got their number that would be a decent ratio imo and not unrealistic for a decent looking albeit not chad tier guy

Yeah if you get 0 results (no dates) from 100 that can mean a few things:

- low SMV generally
- approaching girls WAY above your SMV
- shit-tier conversation skills
- approaching girls who don't like your archetype (i.e you're a posh banker type approaching zoomer twitch girls)

Etc etc

I had multiple lays from my first 100.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Yeah if you get 0 results (no dates) from 100 that can mean a few things:

- low SMV generally
- approaching girls WAY above your SMV
- shit-tier conversation skills
- approaching girls who don't like your archetype (i.e you're a posh banker type approaching zoomer twitch girls)

Etc etc

I had multiple lays from my first 100.

Is approaching by yourself a failo?

Girls were more receptive when i went out with forevergymcelling and chadethnic last week

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Wtf man I felt like I was blakckops2cel or some shit

I could eve get a single girl to entertain a conversation with me

Most brutal shit ever

I approached about 7-8 girls (can’t remember exact number). But not a single one even entertained my presence or gave me a chance

Did you shave all the hair off your face along with a very thin layer of skin first? You gotta do this to tap into the highest form of male attractiveness.

 

[Deleted member 16944]

Is approaching by yourself a failo?

Girls were more receptive when i went out with forevergymcelling and chadethnic last week

You're talking about approaching in a club I guess. No idea. I don't go to clubs. Hate them. I meet girls on the street or online.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

You're talking about approaching in a club I guess. No idea. I don't go to clubs. Hate them. I meet girls on the street or online.

ive never done a daytime approach maybe I should try

 

[thegoat]

I went out twice with male friends recently, one club each time. Probably went like 0/30, could not even get a makeout, not surprising as a 5'8 ethnic normie. Strategies: Mainly danced with my boys hoping for bitches to approach (no luck jfl), id also branch out with one mate and try to dance near girls (they tended to be receptive at first but didnt show IOIs), additionally many cold approaches in smokers area.

It's starting to not be worth it at this point, alcohol + cannot resist binge eating at the end of the night fucks my leanmaxxing, and I cant get shit done the next day due to being hungover. But im not giving up just yet because being drunk is very fun

 

[thegoat]

Is approaching by yourself a failo?

Yes, I made a thread like 1 month ago where I went out alone and was getting instantly rejected heaps, looks of disgust etc. During the night in the above reply with my mates, I was legit surprised by that not happening. Theyll at least give you 30 seconds and soft reject.

 

[alriodai]

Sure thing buddy

Nah I saw OP pictures and he's not a HTN facially
Overrall probably with his physique and height? Yeah

But facially only he got too many failos (his huge bulbuonous nose being one) to be a HTN

He's a MTN facially, add that to the fact that he's in UK with crazy hypergamy, so I understand why would girls reject him

 

[DeathlyAware]

Some days you'll go out and get a number from every girl you speak to

You are a fucking retard. No one who isn't an ultra gigachad can do that, and those don't approach women.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Nah I saw OP pictures and he's not a HTN facially
Overrall probably with his physique and height? Yeah

But facially only he got too many failos (his huge bulbuonous nose being one) to be a HTN

He's a MTN facially, add that to the fact that he's in UK with crazy hypergamy, so I understand why would girls reject him

Am I HTN after nose job?

 

[alriodai]

Am I HTN after nose job?

What surgeries you can all get? Btw don't get a 10k rhinoplasty
Get a 1k rhino at turkey

Also yes you will improve very well but I also believe your shit lips failo you
Imo getting thicker lips mix that with having your chin a little bit taller so your proportions could go perfect and you will not only be HTN but a whole chadlite 100%

I don't know how your rhino or your other surgeris will go: Maybe your nose is in harmony with the rest of your face, you know maybe making your nose smaller will make your eyes look like Sid from Ice Age which you don't want

Try and morph yourself and shit

 

[Erik-Jón]

I thought you said my rhino wouldnt make a significant difference?

One looks jump is a significant

 

[Deleted member 19610]

You're clueless. Rejection is not 'good' but it IS normal and IS a fact of life. Aspies here think you can avoid it - you CAN'T. As I've said before, you are getting rejected constantly, even if you just walk down the street and a girl doesn't make eye contact with you - that is her rejecting you. Just because you want to deny its existence doesn't mean it's not happening. Unless you are elite 9/10 in looks rejection WILL happen often. When you make a tinder profile you're getting rejected in real time by tons of girls - just because you can't SEE it doesn't mean it's not happening.

You have a childlike mindset and your words reveal a lack of experience and cowardice. No one who does daygame and gets good results (like me and my friends) has that mindset. Being a basement dwelling incel like you will shield you from rejection to some extent but you'll rarely bang any decent women.

JFL. Denying rejection is normal is like denying that we need to breathe oxygen or take a shit

I would bet I have more daygame slays than you but that's not the point. Endlessly going out and getting rejected in real time is going to cause physiological distress in your body and affect you mentally no matter how much PUA bullshit you try to swallow. I am in favour of approaching when you either feel like you got some IOI or it's a girl you feel from experience will go for you or it's just a case of spamming approaches and trying to get some kind of LTR, which should be lasting at most 1 month of approach spamming and I'm being generous. However, to become an approachcel for years or even months on end is totally clueless and trying to become so comfortable at being rejected is autistic and low iq af. I mean it's one of the dumbest things in the whole PUA bullshit and it takes autistic virgins to follow it, which im sure is you and your "friends" i.e PUAtards. Especially the "getting the skillset" bullshit. You are just regurgitating PUA bullshit there without ever thinking about it critically. Finally, you don't know if a girl walking down the street not making eye contact is rejecting you.

 

[BetterUnborn]

I went out twice with male friends recently, one club each time. Probably went like 0/30, could not even get a makeout, not surprising as a 5'8 ethnic normie. Strategies: Mainly danced with my boys hoping for bitches to approach (no luck jfl), id also branch out with one mate and try to dance near girls (they tended to be receptive at first but didnt show IOIs), additionally many cold approaches in smokers area.

It's starting to not be worth it at this point, alcohol + cannot resist binge eating at the end of the night fucks my leanmaxxing, and I cant get shit done the next day due to being hungover. But im not giving up just yet because being drunk is very fun

Dude how old are you and are you clubbing in the states? I myself am ethnic but have no trouble bagging girls at the club. They’re drunk sometimes too, it’s so easy all you have to do is be average. What kind of ethnic are you? Indian?

 

[thegoat]

Dude how old are you and are you clubbing in the states? I myself am ethnic but have no trouble bagging girls at the club. They’re drunk sometimes too, it’s so easy all you have to do is be average. What kind of ethnic are you? Indian?

Australia. Ive been to clubs 10 times, two makeouts, still virgin. I look hispanic. What are you doing that makes it so easy? Im normally getting heightmogged and physique mogged to oblivion when i go out

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Australia. Ive been to clubs 10 times, two makeouts, still virgin. I look hispanic. What are you doing that makes it so easy? Im normally getting heightmogged and physique mogged to oblivion when i go out

By the sounds of it australia and UK are way harder than america clubbing wise.

Seems like american girls are giga extroverted and way more open to cold approaching

 

[Deleted member 16944]

I would bet I have more daygame slays than you but that's not the point. Endlessly going out and getting rejected in real time is going to cause physiological distress in your body and affect you mentally no matter how much PUA bullshit you try to swallow. I am in favour of approaching when you either feel like you got some IOI or it's a girl you feel from experience will go for you or it's just a case of spamming approaches and trying to get some kind of LTR, which should be lasting at most 1 month of approach spamming and I'm being generous. However, to become an approachcel for years or even months on end is totally clueless and trying to become so comfortable at being rejected is autistic and low iq af. I mean it's one of the dumbest things in the whole PUA bullshit and it takes autistic virgins to follow it, which im sure is you and your "friends" i.e PUAtards. Especially the "getting the skillset" bullshit. You are just regurgitating PUA bullshit there without ever thinking about it critically. Finally, you don't know if a girl walking down the street not making eye contact is rejecting you.

I highly doubt it. No guy who gets laid a lot through cold approach would talk like you. I definitely have more slays than it from you and I only started 1 year ago. You do realise you just labelled yourself an autistic virgin as well?

 

[tyronelite]

@tyronelite you lied to me im going back to tinder where I can actually slay fuck irl

Sir we’d have to diagnose the “brutality” of these rejections you experienced

I never said don’t use tinder either lol. Me personally there’s more to learn from meeting women IRL

 

[Deleted member 16944]

You are a fucking retard. No one who isn't an ultra gigachad can do that, and those don't approach women.

I'm the only guy on this forum that has consistently gotten laid from daytime cold approach as far as I know. Therefore I'm the only person here who can speak about it with any authority. Shut the fuck up, peasant.

The rest of you are just GUESSING what it's like, or parroting what some other autists said about it. Jfl

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Sir we’d have to diagnose the “brutality” of these rejections you experienced

I never said don’t use tinder either lol. Me personally there’s more to learn from meeting women IRL

Well when I say brutal I just mean the girls were completely disinterested in even entertaining conversation with me

 

[Deleted member 19610]

I highly doubt it. No guy who gets laid a lot through cold approach would talk like you. I definitely have more slays than it from you and I only started 1 year ago. You do realise you just labelled yourself an autistic virgin as well?

I have done way more daygame than you if you're only doing it a year. In fact I was getting paid to teach it at one point. I am slaying this ass which was more or less a daygame pull. I do think daygame is legit but it should just be spammed in a short space of time until you get good leads or done occasionally as part of your life as you are going places. I just know some dudes who have been doing daygame for years with minimal results and running a hamster wheel while regurgitating PUA seminars whenever we meet up occasionally for food or whatever.

 

[zharupodrugu]

181cm

This isn’t enough for chubby curry girls btw

Invisible in shirt. Our days as natty lifters are over, cant go shirtless anymore

 

[JBcollector]

not impossible but it's very difficult.

Essentially you have to become very rich, then you show off your wealth on tinder, or by throwing parties, or use your wealth to travel to poor countries to find a partner, or use your wealth to start a group that has women, where you are the leader. You won't get all girls, but with enough swiping and traveling you should be able to find a partner that will be able to settle for you because you can afford her the lifestyle she wants, and at least your looks maxed so she doesn't feel too sick/grossed out when she's around you, only a little bit. She may not be the prettiest or the nicest woman, and she may secretly resent you but you can find a decent enough woman this way. The other option is die alone.

There are NO other ways. Everything else is a bullshit scam. Cold approach is tinder IRL with the added risk of a criminal record and getting filmed and canceled/fired from your job. Bars and clubs are tinder IRL with the added risk of getting assaulted, mugged, or drugged with scopolamine so girls can rob you, which could kill you. "Clubs" and "classes" like yoga club, hiking club, etc. are full of a couple old married women, and a tons lonely of guys. There are no short cuts, competitive guys are everywhere trying everything.

In the Real world, there is only Acquire more money and/or Acquire more looks. You have to increase your real world value, and those are the ONLY things women are attracted to. Mostly women are only attracted to looks, but if you're maxed out in looks, all that's left is money and "some" women do want a rich life-style. Because the dating market has increased liquidity do to the prevalence of apps now, which makes it market efficient, meaning you can't scam it. Increase your value (looks & money) or die a lonely old man.

 

[Deleted member 16944]

Well when I say brutal I just mean the girls were completely disinterested in even entertaining conversation with me

As much as people pretend it's not, it is a numbers game.