Keep lying to my parents about looking for work and taking classes

[Deleted member 11126]

When they figure out they will stop giving me money. I have maybe 2 months of rent on hand. They want to come visit me next week and I haven't done anything for months my rooms smells like beer and cigs idk how I am going to lie to their face.

How long can I keep going on like this? Everytime I lie I feel worse my friends and family think I am successful still going to classes and getting a sweet IT job. Its all a lie

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Its been hard enough to not break when they call me but if they see me in person in this state I know I will crack. My life is coming to an end soon

 

[Deleted member 27974]

over

 

[Lefty Rankin]

When they figure out they will stop giving me money. I have maybe 2 months of rent on hand. They want to come visit me next week and I haven't done anything for months my rooms smells like beer and cigs idk how I am going to lie to their face.

How long can I keep going on like this? Everytime I lie I feel worse my friends and family think I am successful still going to classes and getting a sweet IT job. Its all a lie

Book a one way ticket to a large city and take to living on the streets. Once you get into the swing of how to survive, and you will, you'll experience a newfound freedom. Then you can figure out what you want to do with your life.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Book a one way ticket to a large city and take to living on the streets. Once you get into the swing of how to survive, and you will, you'll experience a newfound freedom. Then you can figure out what you want to do with your life.

I'm not going homeless man... I still have 5 grand if they find out I will just move to a town and get a job at amazon and make figure out a real life plan.

I always knew reality would force me to wake up one day

 

[Zeruel]

Its been hard enough to not break when they call me but if they see me in person in this state I know I will crack. My life is coming to an end soon

Go ahead then cocksucker. I’ll kill your father and fuck your whore mother so she doesn’t feel so alone when you die.

You can’t live like me, raping, beating and killing women, women taking their last breath of air as they taste their blood and my hot sticky cum!
Brutal for sissy whores like you!

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Go ahead then cocksucker. I’ll kill your father and fuck your whore mother so she doesn’t feel so alone when you die.

You can’t live like me, raping, beating and killing women, women taking their last breath of air as they taste their blood and my hot sticky cum!
Brutal for sissy whores like you!

That was random...

 

[Zeruel]

That was random...

That’s life! One moment you’re raping a whore and cumming in her asshole and the next moment she’s dead!

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I'm not going homeless man... I still have 5 grand if they find out I will just move to a town and get a job at amazon and make figure out a real life plan.

I always knew reality would force me to wake up one day

5 grand? In America? You know unless you can afford to pay an entire year's rent upfront, using cashier's checks (which is pricey in itself), nobody will rent to you unless you can prove you already earn 3 times the monthly rent. That means you can't just move to a new town because you already have to have a job in that town. It's an American catch 22. Sucks bad. This isn't the 90's. Matrix shit.

My advice would be to sock that little bit of money away in a bank account and not touch a penny of it until you've learned to survive on the streets. Either that or leave the country.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

5 grand? In America? You know unless you can afford to pay an entire year's rent upfront, using cashier's checks (which is pricey in itself), nobody will rent to you unless you can prove you already earn 3 times the monthly rent. That means you can't just move to a new town because you already have to have a job in that town. It's an American catch 22. Sucks bad. This isn't the 90's. Matrix shit.

My advice would be to sock that little bit of money away in a bank account and not touch a penny of it until you've learned to survive on the streets. Either that or leave the country.

That's not true man you can get rent on craiglist if you are willing to pay a security deposit (they give it back if you pay rent on time).

 

[Lefty Rankin]

That's not true man you can get rent on craiglist if you are willing to pay a security deposit (they give it back if you pay rent on time).

I hope what you're saying is true. USA's fucking bullshit. Always so complicated.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

I hope what you're saying is true. USA's fucking bullshit. Always so complicated.

It is true lots of places on craigslist where someone owns a house and they rent a room out or some shit. Just be careful though lots of weirdos too I would meet up with the person first before agreeing to move in.

I swear some of the ads on craigslist were gay guys. Like one said they want a skinny in shape 18-24 year old man. And it talked about being open to new experiences the rent was cheap though...

 

[BrendioEEE]

For awhile for me in the past it was the opposite. I was actively searching for a job for literally 7 years straight and had the records and proof to show it. In the last few years my parents finally realized that yes I was actually being discriminated against for being white, but luckily I was able to have a few opportunities that allowed me to have financial success (and then have that completely stolen and taken away many such cases)

 

[Lefty Rankin]

For awhile for me in the past it was the opposite. I was actively searching for a job for literally 7 years straight and had the records and proof to show it. In the last few years my parents finally realized that yes I was actually being discriminated against for being white, but luckily I was able to have a few opportunities that allowed me to have financial success (and then have that completely stolen and taken away many such cases)

Man you need to get out of Los Angeles.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

For awhile for me in the past it was the opposite. I was actively searching for a job for literally 7 years straight and had the records and proof to show it. In the last few years my parents finally realized that yes I was actually being discriminated against for being white, but luckily I was able to have a few opportunities that allowed me to have financial success (and then have that completely stolen and taken away many such cases)

What sort of job were you looking for? A big part of it was probably a gap in the resume if it was white collar work

 

[BrendioEEE]

What sort of job were you looking for? A big part of it was probably a gap in the resume if it was white collar work

From literally 16 to 23 I was JUST looking for and applying to mostly Minimum wage jobs, it's really THAT fucking bad in Los Angeles, I would apply sometimes multiple times a day daily, some years more than others, obviously shit changed when I met (((The Slag))), but for example in 2018 I applied to over 1000 jobs.

Man you need to get out of Los Angeles.

I could have been able to last year if my money wasn't stolen, and I was put into debt by someone, i'm really trying my best to take the words of what that person told me to heart, because I have no ill will towards that person, and I love them in all honesty, and they promised to fix things, but we'll see.

Right now I am basically screwed for a few months, what's really fucked up too, is my grandfather said he wanted to leave all his resources to my mom and me (And our side of the family would need it the most because of some tragic shit going on with us), and unfortunately that may be getting undermined.

There is literally demonic forces at play actively trying to ruin me.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

From literally 16 to 23 I was JUST looking for and applying to mostly Minimum wage jobs, it's really THAT fucking bad in Los Angeles, I would apply sometimes multiple times a day daily, some years more than others, obviously shit changed when I met (((The Slag))), but for example in 2018 I applied to over 1000 jobs.

I could have been able to last year if my money wasn't stolen, and I was put into debt by someone, i'm really trying my best to take the words of what that person told me to heart, because I have no ill will towards that person, and I love them in all honesty, and they promised to fix things, but we'll see.

Right now I am basically screwed for a few months, what's really fucked up too, is my grandfather said he wanted to leave all his resources to my mom and me (And our side of the family would need it the most because of some tragic shit going on with us), and unfortunately that may be getting undermined.

There is literally demonic forces at play actively trying to ruin me.

Weird man I never had an issue getting them although my anxiety got so bad I couldn't manage it. Rn my goal is to get a basic IT job before summer starts so I can start saving money to go back to school and the job will give me some skills.

I rotted at retail for a year biggest waste of time even neeting is better but at least at an IT job I can use it to advance in life.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

From literally 16 to 23 I was JUST looking for and applying to mostly Minimum wage jobs, it's really THAT fucking bad in Los Angeles, I would apply sometimes multiple times a day daily, some years more than others, obviously shit changed when I met (((The Slag))), but for example in 2018 I applied to over 1000 jobs.

I could have been able to last year if my money wasn't stolen, and I was put into debt by someone, i'm really trying my best to take the words of what that person told me to heart, because I have no ill will towards that person, and I love them in all honesty, and they promised to fix things, but we'll see.

Right now I am basically screwed for a few months, what's really fucked up too, is my grandfather said he wanted to leave all his resources to my mom and me (And our side of the family would need it the most because of some tragic shit going on with us), and unfortunately that may be getting undermined.

There is literally demonic forces at play actively trying to ruin me.

Cursed it seems. You need to understand how they work to be free of them.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Cursed it seems. You need to understand how they work to be free of them.

Idk man he must be doing something wrong entry level jobs will hire anyone they are hiring people on the spot.

The issue is these jobs are not worth it and you learn nothing the only reason to take them is to social max I might try and get a server role after I am looksmaxed but beyond NTmaxxing its worthless I worked at amazon so a total waste of time and no socializing. Which is why I need to get some sort of IT role. I would rather die then go back to it

 

[BrendioEEE]

Idk man he must be doing something wrong entry level jobs will hire anyone they are hiring people on the spot.

Not in L.A, I had to heavily looksmax and fraud to be able to get even a basic job here aswell as use HEAVY connections, like really heavy connections.

It's easy to get a job in various other places in America, but something is wrong about this place in particular. I know this for a fact because I have applied to multiple jobs outside of Los Angeles, and out of state, even in other major cities, and some jobs that weren't even entry level, wanted me.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Not in L.A, I had to heavily looksmax and fraud to be able to get even a basic job here aswell as use HEAVY connections, like really heavy connections.

It's easy to get a job in various other places in America, but something is wrong about this place in particular. I know this for a fact because I have applied to multiple jobs outside of Los Angeles, and out of state, even in other major cities, and some jobs that weren't even entry level, wanted me.

Was it all online? Did you try physically asking them. Indeed is only useful for higher level jobs imo. Never been to LA but in Seattle they were hiring people everywhere for entry roles.

 

[BrendioEEE]

Was it all online? Did you try physically asking them. Indeed is only useful for higher level jobs imo. Never been to LA but in Seattle they were hiring people everywhere for entry roles.

No it was both online and in person, some places here don't really have ways to apply online.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Not in L.A, I had to heavily looksmax and fraud to be able to get even a basic job here aswell as use HEAVY connections, like really heavy connections.

It's easy to get a job in various other places in America, but something is wrong about this place in particular. I know this for a fact because I have applied to multiple jobs outside of Los Angeles, and out of state, even in other major cities, and some jobs that weren't even entry level, wanted me.

I imagine you're right about that bit. Unless you're a fag you probabably can't get an entry level job as a white dude in LA. I believe it.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

No it was both online and in person, some places here don't really have ways to apply online.

That's pretty fucking weird man. Go to a city like Seattle or Phoenix Austin Miami ect.

Even in the 2008 recession there were states with under 4 percent unemployment. You just had to be willing to move. Places like Florida Texas have new people moving there. But this economist made a good point where he said even in the worst recessions there were still places you could move where getting a job is possible if your a young man without a family moving is the best pathway for upward mobility. Just research cities with good employment levels.

In Seattle its possible to make 70K a year doing uber there will always be opportunities if your willing to move

I imagine you're right about that bit. Unless you're a fag you probabably can't get an entry level job as a white dude in LA. I believe it.

Is LA that economically bad? Seattle is just as liberal and faggy and still plenty of jobs to be had. I would understand it if he said he was in Detriot but I think getting an entry level job in a place like NYC or LA shouldn't be too difficult.

 

[BrendioEEE]

That's pretty fucking weird man. Go to a city like Seattle or Phoenix Austin Miami ect.

Even in the 2008 recession there were states with under 4 percent unemployment. You just had to be willing to move. Places like Florida Texas have new people moving there. But this economist made a good point where he said even in the worst recessions there were still places you could move where getting a job is possible if your a young man without a family moving is the best pathway for upward mobility. Just research cities with good employment levels.

In Seattle its possible to make 70K a year doing uber there will always be opportunities if your willing to move

No, I know, I think it's bizarre to many people who don't realize how bad L.A is, especially as a white young white dude, and especially back then when I was a not so good looking young white dude with no money, status, or connections.

The problem is you need money to leave, and if making money is downright impossible in many circumstances then you're screwed. I have already had years of my life stolen from me because of this shithole, and now by other people aswell.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

No, I know, I think it's bizarre to many people who don't realize how bad L.A is, especially as a white young white dude, and especially back then when I was a not so good looking young white dude with no money, status, or connections.

The problem is you need money to leave, and if making money is downright impossible in many circumstances then you're screwed. I have already had years of my life stolen from me because of this shithole, and now by other people aswell.

If your a young man in good health all you need is a drivers license laptop/phone and the clothes on your back. Bus tickets are cheap not trying to blame you just saying you always have a choice or options.

White people and specifically men are really abused in this society and victims in many ways. But at the same time beyond acknowledging it you are still responsible life is tough. Its your life you have to make the best in either case no matter how unfair things are black people have blamed the white man their entire lives and it will get them nowhere the same is true for us.

Whatever the reality its your responsibility to deal with it because nobody else will. Best of luck man I made this post responding to you but its also to myself.

 

[Deleted member 23239]

i managed to lie this shit for 2 years jfl

 

[Deleted member 11126]

i managed to lie this shit for 2 years jfl

What ended up happening when they found out

 

[Deleted member 23239]

What ended up happening when they found out

i managed to lie to them that i didnt lie for 2 years but i lied only for 4 months
nothing crazy, they were mad but accepted it very soon and then forgot

 

[Dr. Bludy]

When they figure out they will stop giving me money. I have maybe 2 months of rent on hand. They want to come visit me next week and I haven't done anything for months my rooms smells like beer and cigs idk how I am going to lie to their face.

How long can I keep going on like this? Everytime I lie I feel worse my friends and family think I am successful still going to classes and getting a sweet IT job. Its all a lie

Lmaoo based

 

[AscensionMan98]

When they figure out they will stop giving me money. I have maybe 2 months of rent on hand. They want to come visit me next week and I haven't done anything for months my rooms smells like beer and cigs idk how I am going to lie to their face.

How long can I keep going on like this? Everytime I lie I feel worse my friends and family think I am successful still going to classes and getting a sweet IT job. Its all a lie

Why not take some community college certification course, or some Online IT course. Show some certification and then move out of your city if opportunities are not coming. Their is a lot of demand in cities like seattle,denver,austin, in the tech sector. LA would too but if their are too many people it can mess things up

 

[incel194012940]

why aren’t you actually going to classes u seem like a smart dude im sure you could

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Why not take some community college certification course, or some Online IT course. Show some certification and then move out of your city if opportunities are not coming. Their is a lot of demand in cities like seattle,denver,austin, in the tech sector. LA would too but if their are too many people it can mess things up

studying for A+ today

 

[Deleted member 28904]

studying for A+ today

Are you 33?

 

[BrendioEEE]

Are you 33?

Degree Freemason, yes.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Are you 33?

No 13 years younger

 

[AscensionMan98]

studying for A+ today

This thing right.

A+ Core 1 Certification V15 (New Version) | CompTIA

CompTIA A+ is the preferred certification for technical support and IT operational roles. Learn about the certification, available training and the exam.

www.comptia.org

 

[Deleted member 11126]

This thing right.

A+ Core 1 Certification V15 (New Version) | CompTIA

CompTIA A+ is the preferred certification for technical support and IT operational roles. Learn about the certification, available training and the exam.

www.comptia.org

Yeah Compatia A+

 

[JovenCansao]

Very interesting thread and responses, good thread.

If I were you and this is the first time in a similar situation, I'd probably try to enlist and start taking courses just before meeting my parents and when the time comes to meeting them come clean and tell them everything and show them you are now taking courses, if they're decent parents they'll let it go and give you a second chance.

 

[thereallegend]

For awhile for me in the past it was the opposite. I was actively searching for a job for literally 7 years straight and had the records and proof to show it. In the last few years my parents finally realized that yes I was actually being discriminated against for being white, but luckily I was able to have a few opportunities that allowed me to have financial success (and then have that completely stolen and taken away many such cases)

It’s because you’re 5’5

 

[thereallegend]

From literally 16 to 23 I was JUST looking for and applying to mostly Minimum wage jobs, it's really THAT fucking bad in Los Angeles, I would apply sometimes multiple times a day daily, some years more than others, obviously shit changed when I met (((The Slag))), but for example in 2018 I applied to over 1000 jobs.

I bet you didn’t apply to a single blue collar job.

 

[BrendioEEE]

It’s because you’re 5’5

Shorter Asians, blacks, and mexicans all were getting jobs though however.

 

[draymondgreen]

Join the army

 

[BrendioEEE]

I bet you didn’t apply to a single blue collar job.

Wrong

 

[thereallegend]

Shorter Asians, blacks, and mexicans all were getting jobs though however.

Willing to work for less money.

 

[thereallegend]

Wrong
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You couldn’t even get in at Amazon or FedEx?

 

[BrendioEEE]

You couldn’t even get in at Amazon or FedEx?

Nope, although i'd imagine they'd be more willing to hire me now, especially Amazon, but not back then.

 

[BrendioEEE]

Willing to work for less money.

They were all getting paid more than me even when I had my best job though however.

 

[thereallegend]

Nope, although i'd imagine they'd be more willing to hire me now, especially Amazon, but not back then.

You know where to go. You know what to do. Start out part time. Do it one step at a time.

 

[Deleted member 26197]

When they figure out they will stop giving me money. I have maybe 2 months of rent on hand. They want to come visit me next week and I haven't done anything for months my rooms smells like beer and cigs idk how I am going to lie to their face.

How long can I keep going on like this? Everytime I lie I feel worse my friends and family think I am successful still going to classes and getting a sweet IT job. Its all a lie

Did you drop out of college?