Khhv at 18

[atlanteen]

I just turned 18 a few days ago and im still khhv had a very rough night thinking about all my life, i am not good Looking (not deformed or anything, chubby cheeks and just a bit of a baby face and unfortunate genetics), im about 195 cm tall so i tought dating would be the easiest thing ever, but ive literally had girls laugh in my face when i asked them for their insta. Idk what to do anymore i weigh 95 kg and literally already go for girls a similar weight, tbh i only really talk to girls on social media since the irl interactions where all so humiliating. I literally go for sub5s and im not enough. I dont expect a ltb but hows it possible i cant get any. I see myself hating women more and more even though thats not my intention but they make me so mad sometimes. Should i try dating platforms? Should i just talk to more girls irl (i only tried like 3 times)? Should i just accept theres no one for me?

 

[xXXxZeusxXXx]

gym max that would give u the most roi you are looking for
also nw1 or nw2?

 

[Demirs]

I just turned 18 a few days ago and im still khhv had a very rough night thinking about all my life, i am not good Looking (not deformed or anything, chubby cheeks and just a bit of a baby face and unfortunate genetics), im about 195 cm tall so i tought dating would be the easiest thing ever, but ive literally had girls laugh in my face when i asked them for their insta. Idk what to do anymore i weigh 95 kg and literally already go for girls a similar weight, tbh i only really talk to girls on social media since the irl interactions where all so humiliating. I literally go for sub5s and im not enough. I dont expect a ltb but hows it possible i cant get any. I see myself hating women more and more even though thats not my intention but they make me so mad sometimes. Should i try dating platforms? Should i just talk to more girls irl (i only tried like 3 times)? Should i just accept theres no one for me?

bro youve only tried like 3 times irl, thats nowhere near enough to decide youre doomed. getting laughed at sucks, but a few bad interactions dont represent every girl youll meet.

also stop thinking in sub5/ltn terms, itll just make you more bitter and make every interaction feel like a ranking system. talk to more people normally, build a bigger social circle, and use dating apps if you want but dont make them your only option because they can be pretty brutal.

the biggest thing is dont let a few rejections turn into hating women. thats only gonna make dating harder and make you feel worse.

 

[atlanteen]

gym max that would give u the most roi you are looking for
also nw1 or nw2?

nw1 and i might try it i did go to the gym for a while didnt really notice any difference might be time to lock in

 

[atlanteen]

bro youve only tried like 3 times irl, thats nowhere near enough to decide youre doomed. getting laughed at sucks, but a few bad interactions dont represent every girl youll meet.

also stop thinking in sub5/ltn terms, itll just make you more bitter and make every interaction feel like a ranking system. talk to more people normally, build a bigger social circle, and use dating apps if you want but dont make them your only option because they can be pretty brutal.

the biggest thing is dont let a few rejections turn into hating women. thats only gonna make dating harder and make you feel worse.

You are probably right, but the times i did where to worst nights of my life, how can someone be so cruel? Gen question for anybody reading this whos not a khhv how did you find the girl you did it with? Or the girl your dating.

 

[Demirs]

You are probably right, but the times i did where to worst nights of my life, how can someone be so cruel? Gen question for anybody reading this whos not a khhv how did you find the girl you did it with? Or the girl your dating.

yeah getting laughed at like that is cruel, but try not to let a few people convince you everyone is like that. most people i know met someone through school, mutual friends, hobbies, parties or just talking regularly until it turned into something more. it usually wasnt some perfect cold approach where they asked for insta immediately.

youve only had a few bad irl experiences, so id focus more on meeting people naturally and getting comfortable talking to girls without treating every interaction like it has to lead somewhere.