kinda find a little cure to oneitis syndrome

[Ryan]

just not thinking about her fixes it after sometime cuz thinking fuels it.
The best way is to be mindful of your thoughts—when you do that, random thoughts vanish. Stay aware of your thoughts to clear your mind and shift your focus to things around you, like the sounds or sights, or the work you're doing(your mind need constant experience either it be through the sensory input or thoughts in your head). If random thoughts come back and distract you, just be mindful again. Keep at it, and things will get better.

 

[romanstock]

Your making this thread just shows that you're still thinking about her.

 

[Ryan]

When you're "in your head," only conscious thoughts come up. It's the nature of that mode.

 

[Ryan]

Your making this thread just shows that you're still thinking about her.

no i was just sharing so it may benefit others

 

[Juandigomigo22]

just not thinking about her fixes it after sometime cuz thinking fuels it.
The best way is to be mindful of your thoughts—when you do that, random thoughts vanish. Stay aware of your thoughts to clear your mind and shift your focus to things around you, like the sounds or sights, or the work you're doing(your mind need constant experience either it be through the sensory input or thoughts in your head). If random thoughts come back and distract you, just be mindful again. Keep at it, and things will get better.

I think about how she is thinking about being fucked by Chad and then I’m good

 

[Deleted member 74849]

The solution is wide range of choice