Last night's dating app experiment was brutal for me

[Deleted member 16220]

I used hinge and got like 2 likes in the entire night. I did get 2 stacylites but they answer like shit taking 30+ minutes to say 2 words. I know what that means and laid it to rest.

I feel an actual pain inside me because no matter what I do I am just a lonely fucking guy. I wake up and can't make friends and have no girlfriend. I'm assuming most of you are in the same boat? Most of you either have friends from highschool or are in college and we're just in the right place at the right time to have friends. I don't though. I think I need to go to college. It's painful. I feel like the fucking whale in SeaWorlds giant tank where my dorsal fin is lopped over from depression.

What the fuck is the point of "living" if you just jester for a bunch of humans and do tricks to sit in your tank alone. That's how I feel going to work just to come back home and sit here and fail on dating apps. I thought I was better than normies and a lot of you but I'm being forcefully humbled, I want to be better but I'm just not. Not even things in my control either. I was just born as this person, in this place, with nothing going for me, and it's not my fault but I do have to suffer and I can't find a solution.

Is there a solution? Or we die alone?

 

[Deleted member 21850]

world isn't gonna end cause you didn't get matches on hinge bro

such a cucked thread

 

[Curry Suicide]

cope or rope

 

[Deleted member 16220]

world isn't gonna end cause you didn't get matches on hinge bro

such a cucked thread

Well your world won't end. Mine will. I'll talk shit in your threads too if that's what you want.

 

[Deleted member 21850]

Well your world won't end. Mine will. I'll talk shit in your threads too if that's what you want.

keep crying you soft cuck "muh alone"

 

[Deleted member 4430]

What the fuck is the point of "living" if you just jester for a bunch of humans and do tricks to sit in your tank alone. That's how I feel going to work just to come back home and sit here and fail on dating apps. I thought I was better than normies and a lot of you but I'm being forcefully humbled, I want to be better but I'm just not. Not even things in my control either. I was just born as this person, in this place, with nothing going for me, and it's not my fault but I do have to suffer and I can't find a solution.

your problem, like many sitting ducks here, is that you compare yourself to other people and think that you are automatically entitled to some thing. guess what you don't.

At least youre selfaware that if you had a life (only going to a wageslave job that doesn't get you anywhere is not life) and friends, you wouldn't be in this situation waiting for some random vending machine, replacement to human relationships (which is online dating), for you falls down something

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

Have a bubble bath in your tears you mug

 

[Aladin]

your problem, like many sitting ducks here, is that you compare yourself to other people and think that you are automatically entitled to some thing. guess what you don't.

At least youre selfaware that if you had a life (only going to a wageslave job that doesn't get you anywhere is not life) and friends, you wouldn't be in this situation waiting for some random vending machine, replacement to human relationships (which is online dating), for you falls down something

what doth life?

 

[DHTrash]

6"4 and complaining about getting stacys on dating apps?
Try being a 5"8 manlet in the Netherlands. I haven't gotten any single likes on dating apps for months lol.
That's true nightmare mode.

 

[Gandy]

6"4 and complaining about getting stacys on dating apps?
Try being a 5"8 manlet in the Netherlands. I haven't gotten any single likes on dating apps for months lol.
That's true nightmare mode.

These apps are 99.9% face. Wheat Waffles did experiments on the issue as well.

Being 6'4 (which is a top ~1% height) is a huge match booster if your face is already attractive and they discover that info in your bio.

On its' own, attached to a mediocre or ugly face, being tall doesn't bring any extra matches.
Women swipe just as fast as men, based on initial millisecond reactions to a face.

 

[Deleted member 16220]

your problem, like many sitting ducks here, is that you compare yourself to other people and think that you are automatically entitled to some thing. guess what you don't.

At least youre selfaware that if you had a life (only going to a wageslave job that doesn't get you anywhere is not life) and friends, you wouldn't be in this situation waiting for some random vending machine, replacement to human relationships (which is online dating), for you

I don't understand your logic at all. That's not how the world works. We all want and some get, others want and don't get. Nobody is entitled to anything it's just luck and timing that some get rich, some get genetics, some are in the right place at the right time to receive. I don't even think you are entitled to breathe the air or see the sunlight. And you don't want me to win either. That's fine. You made yourself an enemy of mine in your head for no reason and I'm indifferent towards it.

 

[Deleted member 16220]

6"4 and complaining about getting stacys on dating apps?
Try being a 5"8 manlet in the Netherlands. I haven't gotten any single likes on dating apps for months lol.
That's true nightmare mode.

The purpose of the thread wasn't to complain and ask for pity from others. Never said you didn't have it worse than me. Like yeah dude i heightmog you but am I really the enemy here, we both lose at the end of the day. We are both cucks I'm just a taller cuck.

 

[bara]

How old are you

 

[Deleted member 16220]

How old are you

21

 

[Deleted member 16220]

These apps are 99.9% face. Wheat Waffles did experiments on the issue as well.

Being 6'4 (which is a top ~1% height) is a huge match booster if your face is already attractive and they discover that info in your bio.

On its' own, attached to a mediocre or ugly face, being tall doesn't bring any extra matches.
Women swipe just as fast as men, based on initial millisecond reactions to a face.

Sounds about right. It's unironically over unless you get surgery in 2022. Or you will struggle in life. The comical part is the incels on this website don't like to hear that you aren't slaying either, even though they themselves are in the same situation as me.

 

[Deleted member 21297]

i would be happy to get even 1 match lmao wtf

 

[Deleted member 16220]

keep crying you soft cuck "muh alone"

You're just misinterpreting my beliefs. Your insults I am indifferent towards in the same way as I'm indifferent towards the fact that I will likely die alone. I think I'm handling this better than any of you do.

 

[Deleted member 16220]

i would be happy to get even 1 match lmao wtf

You can't be serious dude matching isn't the same as a slay, they match with dozens of other guys and barely answer. Getting the match is the EASY part.

 

[Gandy]

Sounds about right. It's unironically over unless you get surgery in 2022. Or you will struggle in life. The comical part is the incels on this website don't like to hear that you aren't slaying either, even though they themselves are in the same situation as me.

Western parents are bluepilled morons in general when it comes to understanding the harsh realities of modern dating.

East Asian parents are very , they give plastic surgery as graduation gifts to their 18 year olds so they can have a healthy young adulthood with plenty of sexual experiences, job opportunities etc.

Plastic Surgery Is Actually a Very Common Korean Gift

Korean plastic surgery is highly recognized throughout the world. Seoul in South Korea is know as one of the major plastic surgery capitals.

seoulcosmeticsurgery.com

It just comes down to a severe lack of understanding of the surrounding world and how much the world has changed since they were kids.
Western parents are dooming their ugly offspring to a lifetime of bitterness, misery etc. and telling them to "cheer up", "be themselves" or "find joy in other things than women".

If I had a child (who had no choice in being born into this shit planet) who had any physical 'failos' that bothered him/her, I would instantly pay for any plastic surgery to get it fixed so they can have a happier dating life.

 

[bara]

21

I’m just gonna say dating apps are generally not a representative experience of the real world.

I’ve said this before, unless you are 10/10 in the face or gymmaxxed to oblivion and using a shirtlesss pic, dating apps are generally a waste of time and will fry your brain into a depressive state.

Your shitty experience on these apps is precisely why modern social media is such a cancer.

At 21 there’s other things to worry about anyway.

There’s more to life than this.

 

[SLA]

This is a very relatable thread. I don’t have much of an answer but I find it comforting that the spiraling despair is felt by others. End of the day I am justified in saying that a 6’4 has no right to be complaining, but it’s unproductive in this instance.

You note about high school or college being the breeding ground for this stuff - I’m 27 and have had the same “friends” since I was in 7th grade. I made one new friend past the age of 16, and he now lives in another state. It’s all so natural and thoughtless back then. Imagine trying to learn how to do what we did back then in your 20s? Pretty much impossible barring a miracle. Learning to navigate women through Hinge is basically social suicide.

If you haven’t been to college, and are under 25, I can conditionally recommend it. Go for STEM only and have zero expectations to find a woman of any caliber. I realize that’s a difficult request, but some men have the ability to do that - if that’s you, then great. Worst thing that happens is that you finish with no woman and a useful STEM degree, a worthwhile consolation prize. It might seem counterintuitive to go for STEM (largely full of men of varying colors depending on your area) and seek women at the same time, but I reiterate that the STEM degree is the life preserver preventing the potential female-related failure from being your grave. Even when I was in STEM at a mediocre Midwestern state university, I saw so many females around campus. They existed, many were cute. I was part of a on-campus ministry program that had legit wife-tier girls in it. Hard to find anywhere. There is seemingly more tangible opportunity than swiping on girls on apps.

I think the best “answer” end of the day is that since a woman is the true answer, you have to change the question. Without doing any proper evangelism or proselytizing, I’d recommend a trip to the religious (catholic) side of life. It helps cope extremely well with the despair - far better than something money can buy. I make no claims it will help you find a woman, in fact, I think it might only hurt. I’ve noticed a significant difference in mood and happiness (contentment, really) between myself and most other advanced age virgins (or men otherwise realistically struggling with women) because I’ve reframed my life question. You could call this a disguised bluepill essentially rephrasing “women aren’t everything bro”, but my suggestion goes far beyond a meaningless platitude. I am by no means endorsing celibacy or lack or marital relations, but giving yourself a religious (catholic) foundation can help steady the uneasy ship of universal rejection.

Thanks for the post.

 

[Deleted member 3828]

God creates dating
Devil makes dating apps

 

[Deleted member 19152]

I used hinge and got like 2 likes in the entire night. I did get 2 stacylites but they answer like shit taking 30+ minutes to say 2 words. I know what that means and laid it to rest.

I feel an actual pain inside me because no matter what I do I am just a lonely fucking guy. I wake up and can't make friends and have no girlfriend. I'm assuming most of you are in the same boat? Most of you either have friends from highschool or are in college and we're just in the right place at the right time to have friends. I don't though. I think I need to go to college. It's painful. I feel like the fucking whale in SeaWorlds giant tank where my dorsal fin is lopped over from depression.

What the fuck is the point of "living" if you just jester for a bunch of humans and do tricks to sit in your tank alone. That's how I feel going to work just to come back home and sit here and fail on dating apps. I thought I was better than normies and a lot of you but I'm being forcefully humbled, I want to be better but I'm just not. Not even things in my control either. I was just born as this person, in this place, with nothing going for me, and it's not my fault but I do have to suffer and I can't find a solution.

Is there a solution? Or we die alone?

ironic

 

[Deleted member 16220]

This is a very relatable thread. I don’t have much of an answer but I find it comforting that the spiraling despair is felt by others. End of the day I am justified in saying that a 6’4 has no right to be complaining, but it’s unproductive in this instance.

You note about high school or college being the breeding ground for this stuff - I’m 27 and have had the same “friends” since I was in 7th grade. I made one new friend past the age of 16, and he now lives in another state. It’s all so natural and thoughtless back then. Imagine trying to learn how to do what we did back then in your 20s? Pretty much impossible barring a miracle. Learning to navigate women through Hinge is basically social suicide.

If you haven’t been to college, and are under 25, I can conditionally recommend it. Go for STEM only and have zero expectations to find a woman of any caliber. I realize that’s a difficult request, but some men have the ability to do that - if that’s you, then great. Worst thing that happens is that you finish with no woman and a useful STEM degree, a worthwhile consolation prize. It might seem counterintuitive to go for STEM (largely full of men of varying colors depending on your area) and seek women at the same time, but I reiterate that the STEM degree is the life preserver preventing the potential female-related failure from being your grave. Even when I was in STEM at a mediocre Midwestern state university, I saw so many females around campus. They existed, many were cute. I was part of a on-campus ministry program that had legit wife-tier girls in it. Hard to find anywhere. There is seemingly more tangible opportunity than swiping on girls on apps.

I think the best “answer” end of the day is that since a woman is the true answer, you have to change the question. Without doing any proper evangelism or proselytizing, I’d recommend a trip to the religious (catholic) side of life. It helps cope extremely well with the despair - far better than something money can buy. I make no claims it will help you find a woman, in fact, I think it might only hurt. I’ve noticed a significant difference in mood and happiness (contentment, really) between myself and most other advanced age virgins (or men otherwise realistically struggling with women) because I’ve reframed my life question. You could call this a disguised bluepill essentially rephrasing “women aren’t everything bro”, but my suggestion goes far beyond a meaningless platitude. I am by no means endorsing celibacy or lack or marital relations, but giving yourself a religious (catholic) foundation can help steady the uneasy ship of universal rejection.

Thanks for the post.

I think there's a bit of a contradiction with the mentality on the website. Other men will tell you 6'4 cannot complain then simultaneously tell you height is irrelevant and it's all about face. In reality it's both, just face AND height together are #1.

The problem is dude, you can use religion to cope with the pain of this life but I just can't believe it anymore. The Christian life is completely contradictory to my goals. The Christian life idealizes failure, being a servant, being the weak guy, turning the other cheek, marriage and being a loser in order to be a winner in the eyes of God. But even if I was a loser to be a winner, I still feel a loser. I don't want to be good in the eyes of God, I want to be good in my own vain material "degenerate" way. I want sex with random women, a life of enjoying riches, and validation. Not prayer and fasting and idealizing being poor and kind to be rich in the next.

However we are social animals at the end of the day. So nothing matters more than social success. Friends, women, validation from others is everything. Not money, not religion, none of them man made shit your animal brain feels as success. Only friends, sex with women, validation from other people, and the material world of mogging. The only way to be happy is through the material unjust world, where people like me lose relentlessly and our only comfort is eachother.

All you and I have is eachother. We are social animals so you care about my opinion and I care about yours, and we don't have anyone else's. Money means nothing you are all I have.

 

[Deleted member 16220]

I’m just gonna say dating apps are generally not a representative experience of the real world.

I’ve said this before, unless you are 10/10 in the face or gymmaxxed to oblivion and using a shirtlesss pic, dating apps are generally a waste of time and will fry your brain into a depressive state.

Your shitty experience on these apps is precisely why modern social media is such a cancer.

At 21 there’s other things to worry about anyway.

There’s more to life than this.

You are probably right. It's hard to focus at work or endure pain when there's no meaning to it though. What's the point of enduring a shitty job just to go home and drink your pain away because you are alone and miserable. You will barely be able to handle the stress at work and do anything because the physical crushing loneliness destroys you inside.

There SHOULD be more to life than women. But I haven't found a way to live life without women and friends. Travelling the beautiful world, money, having nice things is all a mere joke without someone to share those experiences with.

 

[Gargamel]

M8 i'm 6'5 and get absolute shit on dating apps.

It has always been about face.

I'm slowly getting agitated tbh. I'm 25 and literally invisible to women. My only options are escorts.

It can be a lot worse, you are still 21.

 

[bara]

You are probably right. It's hard to focus at work or endure pain when there's no meaning to it though. What's the point of enduring a shitty job just to go home and drink your pain away because you are alone and miserable. You will barely be able to handle the stress at work and do anything because the physical crushing loneliness destroys you inside.

There SHOULD be more to life than women. But I haven't found a way to live life without women and friends. Travelling the beautiful world, money, having nice things is all a mere joke without someone to share those experiences with.

I can't really give much advice without knowing more about you, but, life is suffering, there usually is no meaning without it.

I would say find something you are passionate about, and that is so so hard to do and it is easier said than done, but it can help to find something outside women that gives you purpose.

I would say pursue trades/STEM and or finance in school if you still can, pursue a professional career, and women (typical bluepill speak here tbh) will come.

Even for myself (23), I have not found something I am passionate about tbh, and I am just going with the flow in terms of my career progression and gymmaxxing and all this other stuff.

The way I see it is if I cannot get myself in order physically, mentally, spiritually, financially then how am I in a position to pursue a relationship (fucking women is fun and all, but I am past that now).

You are still 21, worry about things other than women at the moment.

If you find yourself in the position where anything you do is driven by your need for women, you have other problems going on in your life that you need to address.

Do it for yourself first, not her.

 

[Deleted member 16220]

I can't really give much advice without knowing more about you, but, life is suffering, there usually is no meaning without it.

I would say find something you are passionate about, and that is so so hard to do and it is easier said than done, but it can help to find something outside women that gives you purpose.

I would say pursue trades/STEM and or finance in school if you still can, pursue a professional career, and women (typical bluepill speak here tbh) will come.

Even for myself (23), I have not found something I am passionate about tbh, and I am just going with the flow in terms of my career progression and gymmaxxing and all this other stuff.

The way I see it is if I cannot get myself in order physically, mentally, spiritually, financially then how am I in a position to pursue a relationship (fucking women is fun and all, but I am past that now).

You are still 21, worry about things other than women at the moment.

If you find yourself in the position where anything you do is driven by your need for women, you have other problems going on in your life that you need to address.

Do it for yourself first, not her.

I think my lack of friends not just women are the cause of my sadness. Loneliness is extremely real and there's almost no pain worse mentally than just feeling alone. I shouldn't have to even prove this it's just obvious. Every man would crumble inside if you removed the friends he got by luck and chance from being in the right place at the right time, it's quite literally all due to things out of your control. Life is about happiness, happiness is about material things and people, material things and people are out of your control and given by luck.

 

[bara]

I think my lack of friends not just women are the cause of my sadness. Loneliness is extremely real and there's almost no pain worse mentally than just feeling alone. I shouldn't have to even prove this it's just obvious. Every man would crumble inside if you removed the friends he got by luck and chance from being in the right place at the right time, it's quite literally all due to things out of your control. Life is about happiness, happiness is about material things and people, material things and people are out of your control and given by luck.

I will agree that lack of friends is something worth feeling bad about, and there is research to back up your claims.

Are you not in University? Perhaps you can join clubs?

Even outside University depending on where you are there are things you can do to meet friends like sporting events. Where I am there are a ton of soccer (football) meetups for anyone to join and its an easy way to meet guys around my age who have similar interests.

Regarding material happiness, I would be cautious of that thinking, many people with loads of wealth still feel depressed.

Of course, financial freedom removes many issues and does make people happy to a point, but materialism has its limit.

I don't think people will look back and say "I am glad I bought this new iPhone" or "I am so happy I bought that Lambo" 5 - 10 years down the line.

Happiness being derived from meaningful relationships I do agree with though.

 

[Deleted member 21531]

I used hinge and got like 2 likes in the entire night. I did get 2 stacylites but they answer like shit taking 30+ minutes to say 2 words. I know what that means and laid it to rest.

I feel an actual pain inside me because no matter what I do I am just a lonely fucking guy. I wake up and can't make friends and have no girlfriend. I'm assuming most of you are in the same boat? Most of you either have friends from highschool or are in college and we're just in the right place at the right time to have friends. I don't though. I think I need to go to college. It's painful. I feel like the fucking whale in SeaWorlds giant tank where my dorsal fin is lopped over from depression.

What the fuck is the point of "living" if you just jester for a bunch of humans and do tricks to sit in your tank alone. That's how I feel going to work just to come back home and sit here and fail on dating apps. I thought I was better than normies and a lot of you but I'm being forcefully humbled, I want to be better but I'm just not. Not even things in my control either. I was just born as this person, in this place, with nothing going for me, and it's not my fault but I do have to suffer and I can't find a solution.

Is there a solution? Or we die alone?

Ive lurked people that went to my school on insta, all their pics are with highschool friends, nobody makes friends at uni here it seems. I also lack a social group but im too far gone and idgaf i looksmaxx for revenge i wanna bang their gfs and physique mog everyone that used to know me
When it comes to gfs i cycle. Sometimes i really crave one, sometimes i dont. If its impossible or not idk, it seems to me, but then some others get one so easily, so maybe its luck (once youre already a mogger)

 

[szolliontaraelis]

dating apps are for losers.

just do cold approaches, like my friend Derek from More Plates More Dates .com said

 

[Deleted member 16220]

dating apps are for losers.

just do cold approaches, like my friend Derek from More Plates More Dates .com said

probably higher success rate in real life because there's less competition and no frauding is all. requires 0 inhib though.

 

[szolliontaraelis]

probably higher success rate in real life because there's less competition and no frauding is all. requires 0 inhib though.

most girls can do this without a fucking ounce of fear

(to chads ofc)

 

[CHADaafdellugexxbb19]

I used hinge and got like 2 likes in the entire night. I did get 2 stacylites but they answer like shit taking 30+ minutes to say 2 words. I know what that means and laid it to rest.

I feel an actual pain inside me because no matter what I do I am just a lonely fucking guy. I wake up and can't make friends and have no girlfriend. I'm assuming most of you are in the same boat? Most of you either have friends from highschool or are in college and we're just in the right place at the right time to have friends. I don't though. I think I need to go to college. It's painful. I feel like the fucking whale in SeaWorlds giant tank where my dorsal fin is lopped over from depression.

What the fuck is the point of "living" if you just jester for a bunch of humans and do tricks to sit in your tank alone. That's how I feel going to work just to come back home and sit here and fail on dating apps. I thought I was better than normies and a lot of you but I'm being forcefully humbled, I want to be better but I'm just not. Not even things in my control either. I was just born as this person, in this place, with nothing going for me, and it's not my fault but I do have to suffer and I can't find a solution.

Is there a solution? Or we die alone?

moonshine™

 

[rand anon]

It’s good ur using hinge instead of tinder, cause hinge requires height. To really capitalize on it though you’d be better off irl social circle maxxing. Sounds like u aren’t NT though, over in that case. You should be able to get a gook whore with ease given ur white and tall though, there’s hope OP

 

[Deleted member 16220]

It’s good ur using hinge instead of tinder, cause hinge requires height. To really capitalize on it though you’d be better off irl social circle maxxing. Sounds like u aren’t NT though, over in that case. You should be able to get a gook whore with ease given ur white and tall though, there’s hope OP

How is getting a gook whore hope wtf that's completely over

 

[makeme183]

I used hinge and got like 2 likes in the entire night.

that's good for the free version cuz it allows you to like only 5-8 girls every day , if by likes you mean the heart then that's even better

I did get 2 stacylites but they answer like shit taking 30+ minutes to say 2 words. I know what that means and laid it to rest.

there you go , you woudn't even match with them if you were ugly
just keep trying,you'll get a girl soon