Last year of high school. Made no friends at all

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Probably the millionth thread I've made like this
I'm just so frustrated
How do people make friends? I don't remember how I did so in middle school

I'm a fucking joke. I deadass peaked in middle school regarding having friends, which were all insincere and ditched me the day I graduated middle school regardless

2 and a half years of being a teenager left & they're probably gonna be spent alone as well. I don't even try to be alone. I try approaching people sometimes, I'm outside and go on walks daily, skate, play soccer, basketball, I'm just immune to making friends I guess
 
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Bump even though nobody reads my threads :feelswhy:
 
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Probably the millionth thread I've made like this
I'm just so frustrated
How do people make friends? I don't remember how I did so in middle school

I'm a fucking joke. I deadass peaked in middle school regarding having friends, which were all insincere and ditched me the day I graduated middle school regardless

2 and a half years of being a teenager left & they're probably gonna be spent alone as well. I don't even try to be alone. I try approaching people sometimes, I'm outside and go on walks daily, skate, play soccer, basketball, I'm just immune to making friends I guess
It’s hard not having friends I don’t even know if I can help you, because I’ve never really been alone in my life
But I sympathize with you
I’d help you, but I don’t think I can
My friends just came into my life out of nowhere
 
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It’s hard not having friends I don’t even know if I can help you, because I’ve never really been alone in my life
Being poor your whole life must be hard idk if I can even help you cope
Been rich my whole life can't relate
 
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i do not know how i made friends i just got extremely lucky
wish i could give you some tips but i got none besides just talking alot, thats just what helped me through highschool, even tho i hated it i try and find every moment to talk, hoping that people wouldnt see me as a werido who doesnt talk


but again my friends came out of nowhere so idk
 
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You're the problem, how do you fix self inflicted issues?
You walk up to someone and talk, you pathetic fuck.
 
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Last year of high school is suicide fuel as fuck
 
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Probably the millionth thread I've made like this
I'm just so frustrated
How do people make friends? I don't remember how I did so in middle school

I'm a fucking joke. I deadass peaked in middle school regarding having friends, which were all insincere and ditched me the day I graduated middle school regardless

2 and a half years of being a teenager left & they're probably gonna be spent alone as well. I don't even try to be alone. I try approaching people sometimes, I'm outside and go on walks daily, skate, play soccer, basketball, I'm just immune to making friends I guess
No offense but are u deformed?

If you are not (very likely) you are just being a hoe man.
Get your shit together u just have to be confident. Confidence is literally easy to get once u understand how to not care about anything. Be charming, smile and be positive. People will be attracted to you like a magnet.

Speaking from self experience by the way. People like to talk to me because I give positive vibes. I used to be an incel weirdo
 
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Being poor your whole life must be hard idk if I can even help you cope
Been rich my whole life can't relate
Honestly, the friends I've made in my life, I made simply by talking to them
and I don't think telling you that helps
 
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i do not know how i made friends i just got extremely lucky
wish i could give you some tips but i got none besides just talking alot, thats just what helped me through highschool, even tho i hated it i try and find every moment to talk, hoping that people wouldnt see me as a werido who doesnt talk


but again my friends came out of nowhere so idk
same
 
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Probably the millionth thread I've made like this
I'm just so frustrated
How do people make friends? I don't remember how I did so in middle school

I'm a fucking joke. I deadass peaked in middle school regarding having friends, which were all insincere and ditched me the day I graduated middle school regardless

2 and a half years of being a teenager left & they're probably gonna be spent alone as well. I don't even try to be alone. I try approaching people sometimes, I'm outside and go on walks daily, skate, play soccer, basketball, I'm just immune to making friends I guess
Just try talking to people
 
You're the problem, how do you fix self inflicted issues?
You walk up to someone and talk, you pathetic fuck.
Yeah.... let me go up to someone knowing that I can't even make small talk with a fucking camel and go make an ass out of myself lol
You're just using my thread as a reason to think you're better than me
 
No offense but are u deformed?

If you are not (very likely) you are just being a hoe man.
Get your shit together u just have to be confident. Confidence is literally easy to get once u understand how to not care about anything. Be charming, smile and be positive. People will be attracted to you like a magnet.

Speaking from self experience by the way. People like to talk to me because I give positive vibes. I used to be an incel weirdo
I'm not fucking deformed bro
And confidence isn't the issue. It might be but I doubt its the main culprit.

When you're out and about, do people just approach you and ask to be friends with you? No... unless you're famous or known
Being quiet and alone (and new to my current school) nobody speaks to me, and I have nothing to talk about so I don't speak
 
Probably the millionth thread I've made like this
I'm just so frustrated
How do people make friends? I don't remember how I did so in middle school

I'm a fucking joke. I deadass peaked in middle school regarding having friends, which were all insincere and ditched me the day I graduated middle school regardless

2 and a half years of being a teenager left & they're probably gonna be spent alone as well. I don't even try to be alone. I try approaching people sometimes, I'm outside and go on walks daily, skate, play soccer, basketball, I'm just immune to making friends I guess
High school can be rough but it doesn't matter post grad. If you're going to college I'm begging you bro join clubs and just larp low inhib for a day. I'm in my third year of college and it really does kind of suck being alone all the time.
 
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High school can be rough but it doesn't matter post grad. If you're going to college I'm begging you bro join clubs and just larp low inhib for a day. I'm in my third year of college and it really does kind of suck being alone all the time.
It does matter. If I can't make friends throughout 4 years of highschool (easiest time to befriend people) what does that say about my future?

And to be honest, I did have friends in H.S, just not close ones. People I'd say whats up to and whatnot
 
I'm not fucking deformed bro
And confidence isn't the issue. It might be but I doubt its the main culprit.

When you're out and about, do people just approach you and ask to be friends with you? No... unless you're famous or known
Being quiet and alone (and new to my current school) nobody speaks to me, and I have nothing to talk about so I don't speak
Just talk about bullshit. As long as u show that u don’t care about saying the wrong stuff, you can say literally anything.
 
Well it will work so no need to insult me
No it'll get me laughed at
The fuck am I gonna say to a random person?

Cool hat, then stand around fucking awkwardly thinking what else to say after they say "Thanks"
 
think you're better than me
I am evidently better if you put yourself down over something you can practice.
Sit in the shit you create for yourself then cry when the solution is right infront of you faggot.
 
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No it'll get me laughed at
The fuck am I gonna say to a random person?

Cool hat, then stand around fucking awkwardly thinking what else to say after they say "Thanks"
That’s the mentality which will keep you like that you just assume you’ll get laughed at just talk about something relevant which is easier because you’re at school
 
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It does matter. If I can't make friends throughout 4 years of highschool (easiest time to befriend people) what does that say about my future?

And to be honest, I did have friends in H.S, just not close ones. People I'd say whats up to and whatnot
I see your point but college can be even easier because you're constantly surrounded by people. Like the other guy said "just try talking to people" while it may seem obvious and a joke, it is genuinely the only way and is as simple as that. Even if you humiliate yourself trying to make friends at least you put in effort. I'm an average looking guy so I don't get attention from women, and I struggle making friends and maintaining relationships. It is so fucking boring and sad being alone practically every single day especially going to a big party school and seeing everyone enjoy themselves. I myself am trying to make friends but it's not working out. As a freshman everyone is willing to talk to anyone, please do not make the same mistake I did.
 
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