Let’s talk about “female friends”

[Deleted member 5927]

Let’s talk about it.

What’s your opinion on having female friends?

 

[Deleted member 5818]

sometimes they will set you up with their friend

 

[MansNotHot]

They're fake and only use you as entertainment

 

[Deleted member 1476]

Getting on with girls and enjoying their company is normal but only simps have female ‘friends’

 

[Deleted member 2214]

friends

Tales

 

[Deleted member 5927]

They're fake and only use you as entertainment

Oh god dude. I’m supposed to hang out with this female friend of mine right now. It hurts so much when they want to hang out but you know you are only one of many and not truly important to them.

 

[Deleted member 5818]

Oh god dude. I’m supposed to hang out with this female friend of mine right now. It hurts so much when they want to hang out but you know you are only one of many and not truly important to them.

just do it, social circle is how people get laid

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Getting on with girls and enjoying their company is normal but only simps have female ‘friends’

Is it possible to chill with a girl and not be quite anything. Like she’s a potential something but you guys don’t really have a title for it? Or if you don’t automatically make a move they just seem you friendzoned?

seems like women are the ones who call the titles. this bitch already called me friend. I have no idea why the fuck they feel the need to do this.

 

[MansNotHot]

Oh god dude. I’m supposed to hang out with this female friend of mine right now. It hurts so much when they want to hang out but you know you are only one of many and not truly important to them.

I guess use them as entertainment too and don't get attached

 

[Deleted member 1476]

Is it possible to chill with a girl and not be quite anything. Like she’s a potential something but you guys don’t really have a title for it? Or if you don’t automatically make a move they just seem you friendzoned?

seems like women are the ones who call the titles. this bitch already called me friend. I have no idea why the fuck they feel the need to do this.

idk tbh bro im 22yo kissless virgin

 

[Deleted member 5927]

just do it, social circle is how people get laid

aight. only issue is when girls have infinite male friends and few female friendships. This girl is like this. She doesn’t get along with other girls (she’s very average looking), so she just has a million male orbiters who entertain her. It just hurts because I think I’m one of them.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

I guess use them as entertainment too and don't get attached

Alright. I’m about to chill with this bitch rn. I’m supposed to be rn but I’m sitting in my room she’s probably gonna knock on my door any second here to tell me to gtfo outside.

Anyways how do I not get attached. Probably nothing will come out of this lame “friendship” I kinda just want to get female experience. Also there’s another one of her male friends so it’s sort of fucked.

 

[MansNotHot]

Alright. I’m about to chill with this bitch rn. I’m supposed to be rn but I’m sitting in my room she’s probably gonna knock on my door any second here to tell me to gtfo outside.

Anyways how do I not get attached. Probably nothing will come out of this lame “friendship” I kinda just want to get female experience. Also there’s another one of her male friends so it’s sort of fucked.

Just use her then.
This is why truly dark triad guys are the winners of this world, they never get attached and only see situations as learning occasions to improve their manipulation tactics.
But for us neurotypicals it's hard to not get attached because it's in our instincts.
This is all my opinion and could also be BS

 

[Deleted member 6939]

Let’s talk about it.

What’s your opinion on having female friends?

I have female friends that are nice and I build good relationships with


For guys it kinda goes acquaintance -> friend -> close friend-> super close friend-> best friend

where for females it is acquaintance -> friend -> close friend (this stage is rare and is skipped most) -> Romantic friend ( girlfriend -> close romantic friend ( more mature relationship) -> Good relationship with Longterm wife stage


most "female friends" that people have are in the acquaintance to friend area while with guys you get more close friends

 

[Deleted member 8853]

Too ugly for that

 

[Deleted member 6939]

Is it possible to chill with a girl and not be quite anything. Like she’s a potential something but you guys don’t really have a title for it? Or if you don’t automatically make a move they just seem you friendzoned?

seems like women are the ones who call the titles. this bitch already called me friend. I have no idea why the fuck they feel the need to do this.

kinda, but if she considers you then she will only stop if you don't or if you do something to stop considering going higher

If you want to go higher with her than make sure to use the tactics you know to do that and if it doesn't work than she may see you as a good friend

The best relationships I have with female friends are Girls who are already in a long term relationship and have no desire to part with anyone else so the interactions you have with that person are truly genuine

 

[Deleted member 5927]

kinda, but if she considers you then she will only stop if you don't or if you do something to stop considering going higher

If you want to go higher with her than make sure to use the tactics you know to do that and if it doesn't work than she may see you as a good friend

The best relationships I have with female friends are Girls who are already in a long term relationship and have no desire to part with anyone else so the interactions you have with that person are truly genuine

How do you make female friends? Do you just be yourself or slightly switch up shit?

 

[Deleted member 2205]

There are a bunch in my current social circle so I kind of have to be friends with women

 

[Deleted member 6939]

How do you make female friends? Do you just be yourself or slightly switch up shit?

I find people with similar interests than mine

Actually that is a good trick when you try to get a girl to like you, lets say your hobbies are anime, piano, and mountain climbing and she likes piano and mountain climbing then she will be really interested you as a person and if you aren't a totally super ugly person then you can get in a good relationship which is a better goal then sex


The female friends that I have are all in good long term relationships and are pretty intelligent people but we share a lot of common interests and we have meaningful discussions and experiences

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

If you have a “female friend” there are only a few possibilities
1. She is a butch lesbian that acts like a man and fixes her car and wears cargo pants
2. You are her orbiter (by far this is the most common one) and she uses you for validation, money, help with homework or whatever else
3. She has friendzoned you because you were showing romantic interest and she didnt want to just say “no youre ugly I dont want to be with someone whose midface is not compact and whose mandible is not forward projected”

 

[tyronelite]

If you're the one who friend zoned her it's fine & if she brings value to you in some way (business, gets you discounts, connections, networking) otherwise pointless to have a female friend.