
atleastimskinny471
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Title. but I have had some of the hardest times letting go of friends that I had good experiences with even when they disrespect me because its just you always hope that there are going to be more to come but that's usually not what happens. What's crazy is I've recently learned a law about life is that people who are closest to you always go the hardest in trying to disrespect you and hurt your feelings when it comes time to end a relationship or a friendship and you need to be careful how much you let people get to know you if certain things that can be said about you can bother you. There's been times where I have gotten super depressed because I will get super close to someone and ill tell them more about me and it seems when they get angry they go out of their way to punch me in weak points as hard as they possibly can because what I have also learned is that all of your friends secretly hate numerous things about you they are just waiting for your friendship to end to say them. And this always happens, so you should never be surprised when you start to drift away from people or you get into an argument that they will go extra far in trying to hurt you. But this isn't what this post is really about. What you should do is when you start being friends with someone pay attention to all markers when they do something that doesn't favor your happiness. And it can really be the smallest thing. It could be just showing up to something late that you have anticipated to them that was really important or it could just not being touchy around subjects they know are personal to you even if they don't share the same opinion. What I'm saying in my experience is that true friends pay attention to everything that bothers you and really just care about having a good time with you. they ignore your weaknesses and negatives and try to look at the brighter things they love about you. I told a friend of mine the other day that many people maintain friendships just to have people to talk to and further identify themselves with. keyword 'Themselves' not "you".